My classmate asked me to bring her something, saying that she would give her money when the time cam

Next time you can indirectly refuse her, for example, I don't have enough money, you can go with me. This doesn't hurt face, and she will realize it herself, I wish you a good time.

Because she's become a habit, and you don't want to ask.

Pay the money with one hand and deliver the goods with the other, and it is not cheap for her to throw away the money.

If you want it directly, it won't be.

Same as one of my classmates.

Then you can find some reason to shirk it later.

Then why do you bring it every time?

Hello, in this case, you can talk to the person receiving the gift and tell him.

If you encounter similar problems in the future, you can follow the following ideas to solve them:

1. Finding problems: often living in the world, always in these kinds of contradictions, when some contradictions are projected into consciousness, the individual only finds that he is a problem, and asks to find a way to solve it. This is the stage where the problem is discovered.

From the perspective of the stage of problem solving, this is the first stage and the premise of solving the problem.

2. Analyze the problem: In order to solve the problems found, it is necessary to clarify the nature of the problems, that is, to figure out what contradictions there are, which contradictions, and what is the relationship between them, so as to clarify what results the problems to be solved, the conditions that must be met, the relationships between them and what conditions have been met, so as to find out the important contradictions and key contradictions.

3. Put forward hypotheses: on the basis of analyzing the problem, put forward hypotheses to solve the problem, that is, the solution that can be adopted, including what principles and specific ways and methods to take, but all of these are often not simple and ready-made, and there are various possibilities. However, putting forward hypotheses is the key stage of problem solving, and correct assumptions lead to the smooth solution of the problem, while incorrect and inappropriate assumptions lead to detours or lead the solution of the problem astray.

4. Verify the hypothesis: The hypothesis only proposes n possible solutions, and there is no guarantee that the problem will be solved, so the last step in problem solving is to test the hypothesis. In either case, if the test does not produce the expected result, a new hypothesis must be proposed and tested again until the correct result is obtained, and the problem is not solved.

In this case, you should actually blame your classmates.

It was clearly bought by two people. He took it all by himself, which is indeed a bit excessive. This classmate of yours still has a certain character problem, since things are already like this. Then you can only suffer a dumb loss.

It doesn't matter, since you don't know him well, people won't care.

If you want this person to know that you bought something with your classmates, you can tell this person that I bought a gift with my classmates, and I don't know if you like it or not.

At that time, you should have said that, if you didn't say it, that's it, and if you have a chance to make it clear later, why do you want to buy something if you haven't spoken and are not familiar with it?

You can find an opportunity to say something like this:

What do you think of that gift I bought you last time? To put it mildly, it was made clear at once.

When you leave, you can mention what you bought and remember to eat.

Summary. Dear, it seems that you are not going to come on your own. I think you can tell your parents and let them wait for you so that the conversation between adults is convincing. His parents should also give you the money. Otherwise, to be honest, it would be too embarrassing if this money didn't come back.

He used to buy things for his classmates, and he said he would give me money later, and then he never gave me money, 1200, and his parents were still there, saying that we lied to him, and they didn't give me money, etc.

Dear, do your classmates admit this money?

They do.

He asked me to help him buy things and games.

His parents said we were still young and it was wrong to do this.

And then what to say about his phablet, those that were taken away.

I gave him two options, one was to give the money and the other was to give the number.

He told me he didn't understand, and he didn't want to, and then he was gone.

Got it, isn't this a stinky scoundrel.

Dear, if you rely on yourself to see the loss, you will not come to sell the pure god. I think you can tell your parents and let them wait for you so that the conversation between adults is convincing. His pants don't have his parents, and they should give you the money.

Otherwise, to be honest, it would be too embarrassing if this money didn't come back.

His parents just bullied you as a child and didn't give money. Why do you say so many excuses.

Is that a call useful?

However, I suggest you talk to your parents anyway. It would be more effective for them to come forward and ask for money, or to call the police.

We're just afraid we'll call the police.

Then the police looked for them.

Then they told our parents.

We just don't want our parents to say it.

I understand that you don't want your family to know. You lend money to your classmates, and when you go home, your parents have to talk about you.

However, now it is obvious that the other party is playing a rogue eggplant. Bullying you small. If there is evidence, you can call the police, and you can tell the police that you have the ability to solve it. Nor will the town stop notify your parents.

How old are you. 14. In our country's law, it belongs to the age of autonomous capacity. You can go to the police. But the police only mediate.

Schoolmate. Money has to be asked. It's not a matter of money, even if the parents know about it, they have to ask for it.

So how did the police find them?

I heard them say they moved.

All you need to do is provide your name and the police will find them.

Remember this saying, what you give, you don't necessarily get the same return!

If you are willing to give, you should not think about how she should reciprocate.