Would you choose to marry a man you don t love, but love you very much?

No. Because of a man who loves you and you don't. At least, you can't be nice to him.

Only He is wholeheartedly devoted to you. It sounds very good, but over time, he will also be psychologically unbalanced, and it is not good for him to marry a wife. So how can he continue to love you?

And with a man you don't love, you won't really feel happy either.

I used to think it would be easy to fall in love with someone who is good to you, but now I understand that there are some people you will never love because he has some shortcomings that can make you hate him from the bottom of your heart.

.So, don't marry a man you don't love.

Haha, it's all good, it's just a little fat, it's not that it's not good.

That's it, you don't have a choice.

In fact, the average woman chooses to love herself or someone who doesn't love each other, and there are so many of them nowadays, and there is nothing strange about it.

The reason is simple, it's as if you're old.

Marry because you're married, get married if you want to get married, and it's not good to get married if you don't get married.

In fact, it is some simple worldly ideas.

I wouldn't haha.

Your question is shy and shy, but people know at a glance that this question is for themselves, haha, that person is you, naïve and naïve!!

Although I am only 10 years old this year, I heard my father say: "Child, you have to remember that when a woman is over 25, she sells melons."

There's really no way to test it.

Maybe, because I don't like to scar myself, because it's too tiring to find true love.

If it were me, I would.

Because I have experienced so many things, I have learned that loving others is a painful thing, but being loved is extremely happy.

Feelings can be cultivated slowly, and the person who loves you will always know how to cherish you and love you; And the person you love will always need you to accommodate and coax

I'm a man and I don't have a voice. But it's better than choosing someone who doesn't love you. Also, after 30, if you want others, others don't want you.

No. Or.

Think again.

I think as long as he loves you, it's okay.

I will. It's actually easy for a woman to fall in love with a man.

Another big disadvantage of marrying a man you love deeply is that if the other party doesn't love you as much as you love him, it's easy for the other party not to cherish you.

In a woman's life, the rarest thing is that she cherishes her husband.

Marrying a man who loves you, after a long time, feelings will naturally come.

Marriage and love are two completely different stages. This one of themnature or stateIt's also different, for example, lovers are more free when they are in love, and the responsibility they need to bear is also the responsibility to each other. But once two people start a family, the responsibilities are heavier.

Because starting a family is not only a matter of two people, but also the top priority of both families. No, you can'tChild's play, then we often say that two people who want to enter marriage need to have a certain emotional foundation. If there is no emotional foundation into marriage, then after marriage, after marriage, there are many contradictions, and they often face a bad ending, or a bad state of marriage.

So, why wouldn't you be happy marrying a man you don't love? We can also analyze it from the following two aspects.

We have all heard that some people say that love is forbearance, love is also tolerance, if two people marry without an emotional foundation, you don't love each other. How willing to goInclusionWhat about the shortcomings of the other party? But after two people get married, it can't be smooth sailing, and there is no contradiction at all.

From the friction of concepts to the planning of future life, the two people must have thought of something different. If there is no love as a foundation, two people can have a basic platform for mutual communication and understanding. Then when there is a problem, the two will only quarrel.

And,Contradictions

Maybe people who see this topic will also say, maybe it's just that the girl doesn't love this man, but this man loves this girl very much? Will they be happy when they get married? I think the answer is the same, and it won't be happy either, because no one will want to.

For another person for a long timeUnconditionaland if another person accepts the other party's good to him for no reason, it is also irresponsible to the other party.

Love is bound to be two peopleGive to each other, respond to each other, so that the marriage will be happy. If you don't have the foundation of love, you choose to enter into marriage, which is irresponsible to both the other party and yourself. So, if you don't love a man, be sure not to marry him.

Life is not going to be happy. If you don't love this man, you will find that there are many flaws in this man after you get married, and you will hate this man very much.

I don't think it will be happy, the relationship between two people getting married is the most basic, if there is no relationship, the future will be particularly tormenting.

It will not be happy, and it will also cause a lot of problems in the relationship, and the damage is relatively high, and there will be a lot of problems.

I'm married, I don't like to be in contact with him, I don't have the most basic feelings, and I don't think it's happiness. Responsibility, patience, concession, and tolerance are what you have to learn, and even for a lifetime, but the first thing to pass is your own level.

He may never plan the future with you, travel with you, or even go to the supermarket with you.

He may spend the whole weekend at home with you, but he plays with his own phone without saying a word;

You divide the housework equally - it is a real "equal share", the dishes and chopsticks are washed separately, he will help you throw your clothes into the washing machine at most, but he does not want to touch your underwear and socks;

Of course, money is also spent in its own way, and on birthdays and Valentine's Day, he can't even think of giving you gifts;

You will not want to turn to him for help in any difficulty, and of course, he will not be able to turn to you for help;

He may not pay any attention to you, whether you have a fever or a bad mood, he doesn't even say "drink more hot water".

This is the experience of marrying a man who doesn't love to mess with himself.

Conclusion] In a person's life, there are too many things that cannot be sought, and we cannot become billionaires, nor can we have the face of a country and a city, nor are we likely to be famous for a hundred years.

So, not being able to have love is actually the most insignificant one among these countless kinds of "asking but not getting".

We are all ordinary people, and the life of ordinary people is countless choices and abandonments, and these choices are often dilemmas, which are to ask us to choose which mistake is easier for us to bear among the two wrong choices.

I wouldn't marry someone I don't love, I do so to be responsible for myself and for others. Marriage needs to have the foundation of love, and life after marriage can be happy and long-lasting. Otherwise, life will feel very boring, and neither party will find the love of their partner outside of marriage, and the marriage will not be safe.

First, men and women are attracted to each other to come together. Both parties feel that the other party is suitable for marriage before finally obtaining a marriage certificate. If two people choose to be together without loving each other at the beginning, they will naturally feel unhappy because the things they pursue are inconsistent, they have no common language, and they choose to get married just because of the pressure of their parents and society, and their married life will not improve.

Second, women are more emotional in love and need to be loved and cared for, while a man who doesn't like a girl will not give her care and pampering. When a woman feels discouraged when she doesn't get the emotional needs she wants in her marriage, she may look outside of marriage for solace. In this way, there is no love marriage in the first place, just to complete the task of marriage.

Whether the person concerned is happy or not is only known in their hearts. Clause.

3. Both men and women need to communicate, they need someone to listen, understand, and support themselves, which requires a foundation of love. A person does not love the other person, will not pay for it, let alone do anything for it. Two adults have no communication under a loveless roof, and the atmosphere in the home is cold.

To get married, you still have to choose someone you like and love you to marry. Both parties are friends and partners, and if they have a common language, the family will be happy and warm.

Your husband's choice of you means that you have irreplaceable advantages that are not available to another girl.

It may be an illusion that you feel that your husband doesn't love you after you get married. Because the normal life of oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea during the love period before marriage and after marriage is different. As long as two people don't quarrel often, the husband and wife live in harmony, don't attack each other, and can understand each other, it's very good.

Together is plain, relaxed and comfortable, not deliberately complimentary, not deliberately patient, plain is true. Except for those who are habitually subjected to domestic violence.

Of course, you have to have self-confidence, believe in yourself, and have more advantages than your former rivals, such as:

1) For example, if you and your husband are in the same place, this is a great advantage.

2) For example, you are also gentle and beautiful, not worse than others.

3) You may also have a job income and be able to take care of your children, and be a good wife and mother, which are the criteria for men to find a wife. Men looking for a wife often do not look for the most beautiful one, they often find the right family, and they are dedicated to themselves and are really pragmatic. Just like the ancient emperors looking for queens, beauty has never been the standard.

Marriage needs to be tolerant of each other and manage it carefully, you arrange the family properly for the old and the young, and the more your husband mixes in the future13, the more irreplaceable you are. There is an unwritten phenomenon among the people, the more successful the man is, the less he will change his wife, and the more unsuccessful the woman is, the more she will urge her girlfriends to divorce, and break up a couple. Men are often persuaded to make peace when they meet, and women are often persuaded to leave when they meet.

Love your husband more and keep your distance from your divorced girlfriends, otherwise they may take you to the ditch to walk with her.

He likes this woman in his heart, but his husband compares it in his heart, and feels that you are more suitable as a wife than that woman. In her husband's heart, he is a flower, and he is useless.

I wouldn't choose. Marriage is a major event in life, and it cannot be taken casually. It must have been a terrible experience to marry someone I don't love.

I wouldn't choose to marry someone I don't love. Because everyone knows that love must be based on two people liking each other. If there is no love, there is no way for you to continue.

In fact, in life, everyone will have a lot of contradictions when they get along, but because you love him and care about him, you are willing to tolerate him and change for him.

But if there is no love between the two of you, you are simply not willing to reconcile with him, and you will find it annoying no matter what happens. So in this case, how can you spend the rest of your life with him? Human life is long, there are decades.

If you are going to face someone you haven't loved for decades, what do you think is the point of such a marriage and such a life? Personally, I don't think that even if you don't get married, you can't just choose someone you don't love, or choose to get married in order to cope with someone in your family.

I wouldn't make such a choice anyway. I think if I can't find someone I love, then I'd rather be single. Because I feel that this kind of life may make my life more comfortable, so that I don't have to face someone I don't like every day.

In that case, I'd really feel devastated, and I wouldn't be able to shoot the breakup with him.

And when you get married, you have to have children. If you don't love him, how can you be willing to give birth to children for him? Think about it, children grow up in loveless families, and parents don't love each other.

Do you think such a child can grow up physically and mentally healthy? I don't think it's going to work, so we can't do anything like that, whether it's for our children or for ourselves.