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When you are about to start a long-distance relationship, you need to be prepared to be sincere and have a good way of communicating.
Sincere communication attitude is very important, and only in this way can each other better maintain a good interaction between couples, and can also learn to respect each other when encountering difficulties, overcome difficulties in the right way, and grow together.
1. Communicate with each other and learn to listen.
Listening more will allow you to receive more information that is easy to ignore, when to say more, and it is better to listen more and talk less, which will reduce the chance of making mistakes, and also make yourself appear more meaningful and deep.
2. Communicate with a humble attitude.
When speaking, you should put yourself in a humble perspective, not too confident, and not arrogant, otherwise it will affect your interpersonal relationships and work efficiency at work at any time. When encountering things, it is best to discuss them with others, and do not insist on going their own way.
3. Know how to listen when talking.
Listening is also a point to pay attention to in communication, when talking to others, we must take into account the feelings of others, but also listen to what the other party expresses, so that we can better communicate with each other, otherwise the communication will not achieve the effect at all, and it is easy to misunderstand.
4. Don't be self-centered in communication.
When talking, you should also pay attention to an important point, don't always think that what you say and do is important, always focus on yourself, and other people's is not important, this situation is to be eliminated, which can easily cause disgust to others, and will also leave a bad impression on others.
5. Use praise more in conversations.
Praise others more, you can show your courage, celebrate and praise the advantages of others, will gain the respect of others, and at the same time make yourself more motivated to learn.
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Long-distance relationship communication skills, be sure to make each other's communication very smooth.
Separation of the two places is most afraid of anger and misunderstanding, long-term gambling and misunderstanding, will make the two feelings indifferent, and may let the corner digger take advantage of the void, everything is clear, emotional and reasonable, should admit mistakes, of course, if no one is willing to bow their heads, please boys at this time do not give priority to women.
Angry, you said that he (she) did something bad, you don't like this way, I think he will definitely restrain next time if he recognizes, because this is the need of his own woman; But if you say that you have no confidence in the love of two people, or say, "I don't care about you, you don't care about me", "I don't know if I will like others", "Who do you think you are?" How do you find something like you?", I think it's really too much.
Once or twice, these words may still achieve your goal of making you angry with your boyfriend; But you must know that even if a man is uncomfortable, even if he will be sad and crying, he is most likely to suppress his own disappointment, many times, when he turns this disappointment into despair, it is really a sentence to break up or not. - not his suddenness, but his outburst.
Therefore, I advise you who are in a long-distance relationship to know what angry words are and what words to extinguish faith!
If the two are above board, it is best to often take the initiative to tell each other what they are doing. In this way, both parties have a bottom in their hearts, and they will feel at ease. And in this way, a habit is formed, and the possibility of being dug up will be greatly reduced.
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Remember to be suspicious of long-distance relationships, you must trust each other, there is no need to fall in love without trust, distrust is harmful to both parties, if it is handled well, the distance will produce beauty, and if it is not handled well, the distance will dilute each other's feelings for a long time.
Don't argue over the screen. Couples in a long-distance relationship are very hard, they can't meet, and they can only rely on chatting and playing ** every day to maintain their relationship, so you must not have a cold war!
Send you a message to share interesting things around you, and I won't wait for you to reply, I know that when you see the message, you will definitely reply to me. You will also share your joys and sorrows with me, and I may not be able to return in time, but I want to prove that you have me in this way.
I think the best way to get along is to communicate more, let each other know that they think about each other, tell each other what they are doing, from time to time you can have a little surprise, a box of fruit, a pen, etc., so that you will be more emotional, if you really quarrel, don't say so much, action is more important.
The best mode is to end the long-distance relationship as soon as possible, not absolutely, a large part of the long-distance relationship is not effective in the end and the process is difficult, because in order to maintain, even if you come up with 10,000 reasons to understand, there will always be 10,000 and one that you can't convince yourself, so, love and hate, please pinch each other face to face, and don't face each other in the air.
As the name suggests, what the other party is doing will certainly not be under your nose, so trust is a very important key at this time. If the other person doesn't reply to the message in time and starts thinking cranky, it will be an invisible pressure for you and your partner.
Sufficient self-control.
The other party is not by your side, no one can help you control the flowers and plants around you, at this time self-control is quite important, if you are casually seduced away by the flies around you, then do you dare to say how important this relationship is to you? Long-distance love, he is not by your side to ask you, it does not mean that you are single, if you love this person, you should know how to handle the distance of the opposite sex.
Proper communication.
In addition to trust, the most important thing in a relationship is communication, it is inevitable that two people have different ideas, after all, everyone's living environment is different, but how to make two people with different ideas reach an agreement because of one thing, this must rely on the ability to communicate between you, if the two cannot communicate, then the relationship may not be able to go long whether it is a long-distance relationship or not.
Long-distance relationships are beautiful, and the real one can shatter at the slightest touch. If a relationship can not be separated, who would choose to separate? But everyone has their own life, not dependent on each other to live, when there are new plans between each other, long-distance relationships are inevitable.
A long-distance relationship may not be a lifetime, but if you can survive this time, there is nothing that can destroy your love.
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Couples need to maintain a high-frequency chat rhythm, so that the effect will be better, and they can also achieve full communication, so that each other can be more familiar and tacit.
The communication and communication between lovers, like other interpersonal interactions, must adhere to certain basic principles in order to achieve good results.
1) Learn to be honest about your feelings.
When couples encounter problems and start talking, many times it can be difficult to communicate because of inappropriate expressions.
To avoid these situations and improve the effectiveness of communication, couples should first follow the principle of focusing the conversation on a specific behavior of the other person, and describe it as calmly and in detail as possible, telling the lover how he or she really feels.
In front of lovers, clearly and sincerely expressing their true feelings at the moment is easy to prompt the other party to recognize their feelings and give a considerate response. Sincerity is the most important thing in the process of developing a relationship, and a sincere lover is needed for either partner.
2) Learn to actively listen to each other's ideas.
In conversation, the lover should listen carefully when receiving the other person's information: one is to accurately understand the other person's meaning, and the other is to express concern and understanding to the other party, so that the other party knows that his words have been heard and understood.
Listening is important in the process of conversation and communication as a couple, and good communication depends on listening.
Listening is an interaction that occurs by actively feeding back what you hear to the other person. Lovers who use active listening usually have happier married lives.
3) Learn to truly respect each other's personality.
Whether two people are just starting out in a relationship or have been dating for a while, it is important to maintain respect for each other all the time.
If there is no due respect between two people, the relationship will not develop and the relationship will be difficult to maintain.
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