My mother has terminal cancer and is in agony, and whenever relatives and friends call to inquire, I

Maybe that's how they are, or maybe your mother is so sick that you're overly sensitive. As far as my personal experience is concerned, in the face of a dying relative and friend, people who are not so close to them often can't bear to see, either for fear of disturbing patients and families when there are too many people, and there is the so-called people who go to the tea to cool down. However, I suggest that you, buddy, take care of your mother first, and you know that there may not be much time to do your filial piety, face it with a positive and objective mentality, try to make the patient suffer as little as possible, communicate well with the doctor, and the dividend is symptomatic, and the rest is fate, and accept the reality peacefully.

After all, life is impermanent, and you can't complain about your own life. In the future, you will be stronger and brave to face your own life, and continue to do your filial piety to other old people, which is your merit. Wishing health and peace.

In the same situation as my family, my relatives didn't have a word of comfort, and they blamed me and my mother for this meal.

Summary. Hello, dear, very understanding of your feelings. felt that his mother had just died, and his father began to look for other women, and he was too affectionate to his mother.

But you can also try to think about it this way, if your father is sad because of his mother's death and wants to find someone to comfort his deep sadness, is it understandable?

My mother left us because of cancer, and my father had to find a wife before three months, and I felt very uncomfortable and unhappy.

Hello, dear, very understanding of your feelings. felt that his mother had just died, and his father began to look for other women, and he was too affectionate to his mother. But you can also try to think like this, if you know that your father is sad because of the death of her mother, and you want to find someone to comfort the sadness in your heart, it is understandable whether it is a fierce sock.

He said that in the future, when he can't take care of himself, he will hire a part-time worker and a nanny. Not now, the old man is not in good health, I misunderstood him.

You're a good boy

Summary. Dear, my friend's mother has terminal cancer, which is like a bolt from the blue for your friend, and it is impossible for anyone to be calm or not sad, so first of all, we can understand your friend's feelings very much, and we can also understand her thoughts, after all, she is really helpless and scared now.

My friend's mother has terminal cancer, and he has a daughter at home to take care of, her mother is too stressed, and she doesn't want to live, how to persuade her.

Dear, my friend's mother has terminal cancer, which is like a bolt from the blue for your friend, and it is impossible for anyone to be calm or sad, so first of all, we can understand your friend's mood very well, and we can also understand her thoughts, after all, she is really helpless and scared now.

Best friends have encountered the most difficult moments in their lives, career, marriage, health, what they need is not what you want to open something or the like, everyone will experience such and such ups and downs This kind of formal comfort, what they need is your silent companionship and the critical moment to help him come up with ideas or try your best to help him solve his worries, help collect information about the illness and the like, your attention to his situation, the importance of his emotions, And the firmness of standing silently behind him and not giving up, I think this is the best comfort, okay, I haven't typed so many words in 20 years, and there was no literary brilliance originally, maybe a little incoherent, make do with it, I wish you peace and health! In addition, I told my friend's mother that terminal cancer is not terrible, positive**, I know that the terminal patients who live for many years, even more than ten or twenty years are also a lot, the point is to learn more, try to choose the method that suits you, and combine a variety of methods. In addition to the hospital's norms, you can also try to do it at the same time in a way that is not harmful to the body and does not cost too much, such as chanting Buddha, meditation, meditation, heart voice** and other psychology**, as well as Guo Lin Qigong specifically for cancer.

These can all be done at the same time as the hospital norms**.

I'm also a single parent, and my father had the same idea. In fact, if he looks for it, let him find it, he is so old, as long as he is happy, you will also be happy, and you will not have to worry about it. His age determines that he has his own thoughts, and he can't listen to what others say at all.

Therefore, as a child, you don't need to persuade him, if you don't want to ignore it, you will ignore it, even if you ignore it, you will help him silently behind you. Buying a house, if he doesn't understand, then think of something else. In short, as a child, let's respect his intentions.

You don't necessarily have much time to take care of him in the future.

In fact, what they think in their hearts is not necessarily as simple as what we think. Loneliness, presumably no one can endure it. You should understand your father and you should go with blessings. As long as he finds a good wife, it's the best.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

If he wants to find it, let him find one. That way he would be less lonely. The care of children is not as good as the company of old spouses.

I suggest you go and read the comics I love you, and you'll understand. The elderly are in great need of spiritual companionship, and this child can't give it. Don't worry too much about his pension, it's his business how he loves it.

My colleague's father-in-law is only 45, and his wife has died for less than three months, so he has a new girlfriend. Don't ask too much about this matter, just let the old man be happy.

The prognosis of pancreatic cancer is very poor, and the half-year survival rate is very low, which is the worst malignant among digestive tract tumors.

1. The tumor of the tail of the pancreas is not very large, and the family situation and personal physical condition allow, it is recommended to undergo early surgery, distal pancreatic resection and explore the spleen and other organs.

2. For pancreatic head cancer, I suggest that you should not do too much, meet the psychological and physiological needs of patients, reduce pain, and intravenous nutrition support is the most important. Surgery for pancreatic head cancer is difficult, recovery is not smooth, and the prognosis is poor.

In any case, you should tell your relatives, especially your uncle, that after all, the life span of pancreatic cancer is not very long, so it is better for them to know.

Man, be responsible, I wish you happiness.

At the age of 77, it is conservative, and it is better to hide it for the elderly with relatively low affordability.

For others, it should be explained, and at the same time actively **, in order to let the old man live a peaceful old age.

Positive**, it's hard to deal with, hopefully your mother will get through it.

Treat differently, say what should be said, and don't say what shouldn't be said.

You have to stay calm, you have to be strong, if you are not calm, how can you help your mother through this.

I didn't go back when my grandfather passed away, and at school, I had to take the college entrance examination, which was not a reason, mainly because the family instilled bad thoughts about my grandfather. I don't think much about him, I'm the eldest grandson when I go back, I'm afraid of trouble. Later, I missed him a lot, and I missed him very much, for eight years.

My grandmother was asleep when he left, and no one knew what he wanted to say, and I thought he must have wanted to leave me a word, even a word. It hurts to think about it. Before my grandmother left the year before last, I took my future daughter-in-law back to see her.

At that time, I was afraid that I would regret it in the future, and I went back thousands of miles, and I didn't feel deep. But after my grandmother really left, I was still very sad and sad. Recalling so many things when she was there, if she were still here, she would be able to see her great-granddaughter ......It's sad.

I'll tell you a story: an old couple, the kind with a good relationship. In her seventies, the old lady passed away.

The children and grandchildren of the family are busy with the aftermath, and they are afraid that the old man will be sad, so they will relieve him of boredom and comfort him. But he thinks it's nothing, and I'm not so sad when he's gone. After that, the old man ate every day, watched TV, played chess, and slept, every day as usual, and he didn't feel sad.

One day a month later, he was walking down the street and saw the clothes of the elderly hanging in the window of a clothing store......Thinking of this, he suddenly remembered that his wife was gone, and suddenly he became sad and cried ...... on the street

People are too complicated, as complex as your family, and someone like your sister, who knows almost 99% of you, can't guess the 1% of your mind. In fact, many times, not to mention others, even oneself does not understand oneself. But only by being tolerant can you tolerate others, don't care too much about yourself, and ...... as you like