What are some of the bad parenting habits that must be abandoned?

Pick your nails with a needle.

Some old people say that the baby's nails can not be cut, and the meaning of cutting short is not good, so they use a needle to pick off the child's long nails, which is absolutely undesirable.

Not to mention that the child's nails are soft and delicate, who can guarantee that the needle cannot pierce the child, it is too dangerous.

Mother and baby stores all sell baby nail clippers, small scissors, nail clippers, small sizes suitable for infants, and clean, hygienic and safe.

Leggings. Everyone should be familiar with infant leggings, and those of us born in 90 should be the last children in leggings.

Especially for children born in winter, they are wrapped in a wrapping quilt and then tied up with a red rope, especially like a large cone.

The old man said that if the child does not tie his legs, it will be a looped leg in the future. In fact, there is no scientific proof that children who do not tie their legs are O-leg or X-legged.

When the child walks at the beginning, the leg shape is not straight, because the baby's legs are bent in the mother's belly, and the legs will gradually grow straight after at least 18 months.

If the child is over 18 months old and still has obvious O-shaped legs, then go to the hospital for examination in time, and you can wear orthotics to help the child correct the leg shape.

Zamaya. New mothers often ask me if the baby has no teeth, but the white spots on the gums are on fire? In fact, these white dots are pony teeth.

Generally, there will be one or two on the gums of 5-6 month old babies, parents do not worry, and do not prick them with needles to prevent damage to the baby's delicate gums. Ignore it, and after a while they will fall off on their own.

Shaved head. I have a special say in this.

My hair is brown and doesn't have a lot of volume, and my husband has soft hair and doesn't have a lot of volume. So my baby was born without much hair on his head, and it was sparse.

The parents-in-law agreed that the child's head should be cut bald, and the hair that grew back would be black and thick, but the baby was shaved as soon as he was full moon. At that time, the child was still young, and there was no hair protection on his head, and I paid special attention to the fontanelle and scalp, which was particularly easy to get hurt, and was often rubbed red and blue.

If I had been sinned, I would have admitted that the hair that grew was thick and black, and the hair that grew back was still the same as before, yellow and sparse.

After that, I never shaved my child's head again, and I just had to cut it properly when it grows.

Shave your eyebrows and pinch the bridge of your nose.

In today's society, people with good looks have more opportunities, which has become a common phenomenon. Therefore, many parents also hope that their babies can look good, so they shave their children's eyebrows, thinking that the newly grown eyebrows will be thick, but they are not reliable.

There are also parents who pinch the bridge of the nose of their children every day to make the bridge of the nose high, uh, the bridge of the nose of infants and young children is particularly fragile, ** triangle, pinch too much, too much force, it is easy to damage the blood vessels in the nose and cause diseases.

Some parents believe that the reason why the child does not sleep when he cries is because he has pig hair on his back, and he can't sleep on his back. To frustrate the baby's pig hair.

When my baby was more than ten days old, he was more noisy during the day, unwilling to sleep, hold and sleep, and wake up as soon as he put it down, now think about it, it may be because he couldn't eat enough at that time, or it may be because he didn't have a sense of security, but the mother thought that he was because of the pig hair and plum rubbed out, so he took the saliva on the baby's back, and after rubbing it, there were really black thorns, black and hard balls, the mother felt encouraged, it seems that the baby can sleep with peace of mind from now on, it turns out that everyone is really right, and I said, look, there really is, it's good to be frustrated! As a result, the entire back was bruised, and a small black dot on the back was bruised.

As a result, there are a lot of small red spots on the back after a while, and there are no frustrations, which is obvious, because of the ** infection caused by the bacteria in the saliva, and the baby must be very painful. Take a closer look at those small black balls, in fact, it is not the so-called fetal poison or pig hair wind, in fact, the baby's fetal hair condenses together, forming a small black ball.

My mother later saw the red dot and asked his partner again, but they told him that he wanted to use egg whites, and he had to blow a cigarette and then frustrate...

This bad habit must be abandoned!!

After consulting with the doctor, the doctor suggested that this method did not make any sense at all. The baby's ** is very delicate and can't withstand such friction. And it is recommended that we do not bathe the baby, observe the small red spots on the back, do not appear white spots, and then we can slowly get better.

In addition, the reason for the baby's unexplained crying is likely to be due to the incomplete development of the baby's gastrointestinal function before 4 months, and it may be caused by intestinal colic, such as crying, humming, and the need for someone to hold these symptoms, which are not related to the statement of pig hair wind. Therefore, some measures can be taken to relieve the discomfort of the baby's gastrointestinal tract, such as clockwise massage of the abdomen, plane holding, let the baby lie on his stomach more, etc.

Although society is developing rapidly, there are still a lot of bad habits in parenting.

Chew rice is the first recommendation. For example, in 2010, a one-year-old girl suddenly fell ill and was covered in blood. After the doctor's rescue, he finally escaped, and finally found out that the reason was because the grandmother chewed the rice with her own mouth and fed it to the girl, which led to the disease of the grandmother's mouth.

The bad habit of chewing rice is not only not conducive to the development of children's chewing ability, but also can transmit bacteria and diseases, which is very harmful to children.

The second is overfeeding. Some parents think that the fatter their children are, the better, and the more they eat, the better. Therefore, whether the child wants to eat it or not, whether it can be eaten or not, it must be fed vigorously one bite after another.

In this way, the child does not know what it means to be hungry and full, and eats it anyway, which is very harmful to the child's stomach.

Finally, overdressing. Many parents know that their children will be cold, and they are afraid that their children will catch a cold when they are cold. But I don't care if the child will be hot, and I don't know what will happen to the child's heat.

Especially when the child has a cold and fever, he covers it again and again, and wears clothes one after another. I have personally seen a parent wear a lot of cotton clothes when his child has a fever, and finally the child is so hot that he is dehydrated and his face is red. In the end, I was fortunate to see a doctor, took off my clothes, and had a fever before I turned around.

Of course, there are many bad habits of parenting, such as tying children's feet, believing in superstitions when children are sick, and so on. These bad habits of parenting have brought a lot of obstacles to the raising of children, and many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems and family conflicts are caused by the problems of raising children. Therefore, in the process of raising children, look more at how society now takes care of children, and think more about whether the way you take care of children is a problem.

On the other hand, our children may grow up better.

Nowadays, most families have one or two children, and young parents pay more attention to the scientific feeding of their babies. So what are some of the bad habits that need to be abandoned in the process of parenting? <>

1. There is a kind of cold because the mother thinks you are cold, and many mothers are afraid that the baby will catch a cold, so they wear too many clothes for the baby. If you don't know how much to wear for your baby, there is a simple way to touch your baby's back with your hands to see the temperature of your baby's back.

2. When coaxing the baby to sleep, shake the baby. Some parents are probably watching the appearance on TV, coaxing the baby to sleep and shaking the baby, hoping that the baby can quickly fall asleep. This habit is not very good, because the baby is still young, and shaking the baby is not very good for the baby's brain. <>

3. When the baby sleeps, I am afraid that the baby will kick the quilt at night, so I will tie the baby up with a strip of cloth. That's what my mom did when I was younger. In fact, this binds the baby, the baby sleeps uncomfortable, and the baby's sleep quality is not high, but the baby can't speak and can't express it.

4. Feed the child, and the parents chew it before feeding the child. Some parents are used to chewing their own food to feel whether the rice is hot or not and then feed it to the child, which is not good, some germs in the mouth of adults are okay by the immunity of adults, but the baby's immunity is not as good as adults, adults chew and then feed, it is easy to bring the germs in their mouths to children.

New parents want to give their children the best things, so they have heard all kinds of so-called "parenting experiences" from various places to use in the process of raising their own children. As everyone knows, some experiences are not only not good for children, but may even harm children. So what are some of the bad parenting practices that must be outlawed?

[Let the baby swim with a collar].

Theoretically, swimming is an activity that helps babies and toddlers get healthy, but most experts believe that swimming with a neck band is dangerous. The reason is: the baby's neck is very soft, and the neck ring is easy to hurt the baby's immature cervical vertebrae; The neck ring is plastic, and it is clinically seen that the baby is allergic to the neck ring or the neck ring is rubbed excessively to cause dermatitis; The neck ring tends to compress the trachea.

There are also expert analysis: excessive inflation of the neck ring will cause neck discomfort in the child, the movement of the cervical spine will be limited, and the child's jaw must be lifted hard to apply the neck ring; If it is not inflated, it will not be able to support the baby to float on the water. So it's best to wait until your baby is a little older to learn to swim, and it's best to have someone to help you learn.

[Chew and feed the baby].

Some parents or the older generation in the family like to chew and feed their babies when they are taking care of their children, out of the consideration of making them easier to digest. In fact, this is absolutely unacceptable. Chewing to your baby is very good for the spread of disease, and it is easy to bring the virus to your child through saliva, which is the least detectable but fastest way to spread the virus.

Children have low resistance and immunity, and are often prone to illness. Chewing to feed your baby can also affect your child's digestive system, and when an adult chews and feeds your baby, your baby usually doesn't chew anymore but swallows it directly. This is not conducive to the secretion of the baby's digestive juices, and it is equivalent to affecting the function of the entire digestive system.

Chewing to your baby may also have an impact on your baby's pronunciation later in life.

[Wear more clothes to avoid catching a cold].

When the weather gets cooler, mothers will feel that the more clothes they wear for their children, the warmer it will be, and it is not easy to catch a cold if they wear more. In fact, this is really wrong, wearing too much is more likely to catch a cold and get sick. Because children's metabolism is faster, their bodies will be hotter.

If you wear too many clothes, sweat too much, open pores, and occasionally a cold wind, it will be easy to cause a cold. And if you wear too many clothes often, your child's resistance to the cold will decrease, and if you have a little cold, you will catch a cold. Therefore, mothers must pay attention to the fact that it is good to wear appropriate clothes, and not to wear too much.

Bad habits in the addition of complementary foods. Add complementary foods too early or too late. Babies should start to add complementary food when they are 6 months old, and adding complementary food to babies too early will cause symptoms such as vomiting and diarrhea due to their imperfect digestive function; Adding complementary food to babies too late will lead to malnutrition and stunted growth and development due to their insufficient nutrient intake.

Add salt, soy sauce and other condiments to supplementary food. In order to make the baby's complementary food more delicious, some parents add salt, soy sauce and other condiments to the baby's supplementary food. In fact, this is a misunderstanding, because at this stage, the baby's kidneys are still very delicate, and the salt in the complementary food will cause a burden on the baby's kidneys.

Therefore, it is recommended that babies within 1 year old still be given plain complementary food. Feed your baby the food you chew. Some parents are more doting on the baby, afraid that the baby will not chew complementary food, or think that the chewed food, the baby is easier to digest, so they always feed the baby their own chewed food, in fact, this is not only not conducive to the enhancement of the baby's digestive function, but also let the baby lose the ability to chew exercise, more troublesome is easy to transmit diseases to the baby.

Do not breastfeed after the addition of complementary foods. Some parents think that the baby has added complementary food, more nutritious, and will not feed the baby milk powder, in fact, for the baby within one year, although it is necessary to add complementary food in a timely and reasonable manner, milk is still the main nutrition of infants at this stage. In order to ensure the normal growth and development of the baby, babies aged 6 months to 1 year should drink at least 600-800 ml of milk per day, and at least 400-600 ml of milk per day from 1 year old to 1 and a half years old.

The baby has diarrhea and fasts. Some parents think that their baby has diarrhea and can take fasting**. In fact, this is the wrong point of view, because when the baby has diarrhea, the intestinal mucosa damage repair, renewal, diarrhea plus fever, metabolism is more vigorous, invasive enteritis loses protein and other factors, so that the nutritional demand increases, if the baby's diet is restricted, especially fasting too strict or fasting for too long, it will cause the baby to malnutrition, complicated by acidosis, so that the disease is not healed, and then lead to the impact on the baby's growth and development.

In addition, if the baby fasts when he has diarrhea, there will be no newly absorbed nutrients, which will cause the baby's body immunity to decrease, weaken the resistance, which can lead to further aggravation of diarrhea and lead to repeated infections, which will lead to a vicious circle of "diarrhea - malnutrition - diarrhea". Therefore, it is not advisable to fast when your baby has diarrhea.