What are some counterproductive parenting methods?

I think the most counterproductive parenting method is to beat and scold the child, and if the child does not do well, you can educate him. But there is no need to beat him and scold him, which will cause a psychological shadow to the child, which will make him more inferior in the future, and will not have the effect of educating the child.

I've seen the so-called wolf education, which is to force children to a dead end, such as going to winter swimming in winter, not giving children pocket money, and often beating and scolding since childhood, this kind of education will only cultivate lawless people who are not afraid of anything, or cowards who are afraid of everything, and be patient with children.

The most counterproductive parenting method is for parents to beat and scold their children whenever they do anything wrong. In this way, the child's self-confidence will be affected, and he will not dare to do what he thinks is right, and he will always feel that if he does something wrong, his parents will beat and scold me.

We are facing a state of over-education, parents pay too much attention to all aspects of their children, so that children have no sense of self, and also lose the cooperative attitude of getting along with others, this ability is a big problem, so it is a good education method to let go of the child and let him grow up freely.

For example, parents raise children through stick education, which can be counterproductive, because children have self-esteem, and only in ancient times people said that "filial piety comes from under the stick".

The use of force to coerce a child to correct his or her wrongdoing can hurt the child's self-esteem and may lead to the formation of a rebellious personality.

Recently, there are a lot of parenting methods that have come back, such as the speed of the child's education, sometimes we are too anxious, so often we can not achieve the effect we want, in that case is not good, I have suffered such a loss, now I think about it is not good.

In fact, there are many counterproductive parenting methods, such as being angry with the child, in that case, I think it is not right, not to make the child change, but to make him feel very scared, that is really bad for people, and to know how to reason with the child, don't always get angry.

Some parents, sometimes in order to make their children too good, and then continue to suppress their children and put too much pressure on their children, while some children can't bear the pressure of their parents, so they choose other ways to avoid it, and they will not follow the path pointed out by their parents, which is counterproductive.