How can parents guide their children when they are out of tune with their classmates at school?

There are many reasons why a child is not social, and parents and schools should find out the root cause and change him in a targeted manner according to local conditions.

If the subject mentions that others play games together, he won't, and he can't integrate into the collective, then first of all, parents can go home and ask him if he wants to play this game, if he wants, parents can learn, and then teach him to play, if parents can't learn, find a classmate closer to your home to teach him, give a small gift to his classmates, let him play with his children in the future, and slowly become familiar with more classmates. 、

If the child is introverted and does not like to speak, parents should exercise more to exercise their children's oral and social skills, such as spoken English, although it is English, through the interaction between classmates and teachers will increase the child's confidence in speaking, reduce the situation of speaking timidly in front of everyone, and can also communicate with the teacher to let the child have more questions, but also exercise the child's ability to speak, so that the child is more confident.

If the child is naughty and other children don't like him, then you have to educate the child, don't do some small actions, let him get along well with his classmates, and change the problems that arise in the child.

Therefore, if the child is not in harmony, we must pay attention to it, if it is not changed in time, it will make the child lonely and form a bad character after a long time. Parents should communicate more with their children, take their children out to play more, increase their knowledge, and first become cheerful at home, and it will change slowly.

Set a correct example for your children and let them form a correct three views. Parents are the best role models for children, and it can be said that many of children's habits are formed by imitating adults, so setting the right example for children is the best way for adults to educate them in the early stage.

Children's nature is to play, please don't prematurely erase it. This is something that is difficult for most parents to achieve. Because they know the pressure of society, for the sake of their children's future, they will let their children develop in all aspects as soon as possible, such as drawing, dancing, singing, etc.

As everyone knows, this kind of practice really obliterates the child's nature, and will only let the child develop according to the model you prescribe, lacking the child's own creative ability!

Criticize and encourage your child. It is understandable that criticism or encouragement to children is harmful to children and not beneficial. Therefore, the combination of criticism and encouragement will not allow the child to form a self-centered personality, nor will it have too much impact on the child's psychology.

This kind of education is worth advocating.

There are many ways for parents to guide their children. Parents can let their children have proper contact with other children, so that they can better guide their children.

I think you need to take your child to get in touch with the outside world, to know how your child is in contact with other children, and to give them advice and confidence.

Parents must tell their children not to be too withdrawn and to have friends, so that they will be liked by teachers and classmates.

You can communicate with him more and talk to him more often, so that slowly, he will get along well with his classmates.

The best way is to let him participate in more teamwork activities, and gradually he will know how to get along with others.

Sometimes, it is actually quite difficult for people to be themselves, because in the collective life, you can't only be yourself, and being unsociable is the best proof of this. In me, I have a similar experience, I think change yourself, because it is difficult to let the world change for you, so you can only change to adapt to the world, consider the feelings of others, don't blindly be happy, well, I think it's okay.

Children are not social because of their personality, it is recommended that parents give encouraging education, children who do not fit in generally have unconfident thoughts, if the lack of encouragement in family education will make children more unconfident and unwilling or afraid to contact other children.

I want to ask the reason, whether I like to go to school, why I don't like to communicate with children, and then slowly enlighten me.

If a child is not socially in school, the first thing to do is to find out the cause and find a solution to the cause.

First, self-reasons;

Second, the external environment.

If it is your own reason, see what the child's personality and adaptability are, such as whether there is an inner heart that does not like to talk and express, resulting in children not liking to play with children; In this way, you can seek the help of the school class teacher or class leader, and take the child and other classmates to quickly get acquainted with it and integrate into the school classroom as soon as possible.

If it is an external factor, it is necessary to see what the reason is, such as whether there is a bully in the class who bullies the weak, or a child who does not like to study to make trouble, causing the child to not like to do activities with them; If this is the case, parents can learn about the situation through the class teacher or the child's classmates, encourage the child to face the problem bravely, find his own strengths and shining points, and help the child build self-confidence, so that the child has self-confidence and can integrate into the team.

Introduction: There are many children who often do not fit in at school, whether it is friends or other classmates, do not want to play with others, and prefer to be alone. If you find that your child is not willing to play with others, it is a sign that the child is not social.

Today, I will tell you about the reasons why children are out of place at school?

If a child is out of place at school, it is because of personality problems. Everyone is unique, so they will also be very different in terms of personality. Some children have a lively and cheerful personality, and they can join in no matter what kind of topic they have, but for children with a more withdrawn or autistic personality, they don't know how to communicate with others, so they often stay alone.

Such children are socially incompetent, and if they have one or two friends around, they are lucky.

The phenomenon of children being unsociable is because parents tell their children when they are young that they are the treasures of the family and do not play with some children who are more sloppy at school. Parents have a great influence on their children, and if parents always educate their children not to play with others, this kind of consciousness will be formed in children's minds. Children will feel that not getting along with others is a manifestation of listening to their mother, and in their minds they feel that only the love of their parents is enough, and they do not need the company of friends.

Your child's mind is simpler, and when he finds that you don't want to play with him, he will stay away from you. No one will take the initiative to find a misfit child to play with, so the misfit child will become lonely in school and very timid to meet strangers. If parents find that their child is not social, do not think that it is good for the child to do so, in fact, it is because of the child's personality defects.

The first reason is that the child is more introverted, the second reason is the child's low self-esteem, the third reason is that the child does not know how to socialize, and the fourth reason may be because the family does not educate the child well, so it will not fit in. The fifth reason is because of the child's precocious maturity.

It is because the child is more introverted, the child has autism, poor academic performance, does not like to communicate with others, and is stingy in personality, so he seems to be unsociable.

It may be due to educational factors, habit factors, personality factors, mentality factors, family environment factors.

Teachers should fully understand the four words of teaching and educating people, not only to teach books well, but also to take care of children, so that children can achieve healthy physical and mental development. So what should a teacher do if they find out that a child is not social in school?

If the teacher finds that a student is not social, there must be a reason, because the student is very fond of playing with his peers, and he cannot actively distract from playing with them. Therefore, the teacher must talk to the student, let the student pour out his heart, and let the student talk about the reason why he is not social. If the student is excluded by his classmates and classmates because of his poor grades, the teacher must make a speech in the class at this time, telling the whole class that grades are not very important, and we can't take grades as the standard for everything, and treat classmates kindly.

If the student doesn't know how to get along with other classmates, then the teacher can also tell the student some ways to take the initiative to get along with his classmates, for example, when other students don't know a certain problem, you can take the initiative to help them solve the problem, tell them how to solve the problem, so that they can integrate into their group.

If the student's personality is more withdrawn, the teacher should make the student cheerful, and he can't be unsociable. If you don't fit in, no classmates will want to do group activities with you, and you can only do group activities by yourself. In fact, many students really want to play with their classmates, but they don't know how to speak, so they miss the time to play with them, so they become very unsociable.

Therefore, the teacher should make the student cheerful, and then take the initiative to find other classmates to play, so that he can join their group and become gregarious.

Teachers should care more about the child, give the child more opportunities to behave, and call on other children to invite the child to play together.

The teacher can take the child to play games with other children, and then give the child some encouragement to comfort the child's inferiority complex.

Students should be encouraged, guided slowly, and communicated more with other students. Also understand what students think.

1. Bring more toys and encourage your child to find a child who likes to play with him or is willing to exchange toys with her.

There is some socialization in the adult world based on equivalent exchange, and sometimes the same is true for children. When you take your child out to play, you can bring a few more toys so that your child can exchange and share with others, and get the fun of giving and receiving.

2. Encourage your child.

When the child is lost. When you are depressed, what you want most is to get encouragement and affirmation from your parents. Parents' encouragement and affirmation are of great significance to children, as they will make them more confident, optimistic and cheerful.

For example, encouraging your child to go out and play with friends, and encouraging your child to bring friends to play at home, can not only enhance the relationship between children, but also help children improve their social skills.

3. Encourage and guide more and less reprimand and scold.

Don't force your child if he doesn't like to play with other children, and don't reprimand him when he is too nervous or uneasy in public, let alone scold. As the most trusted person for children, parents must understand their children, accept their children's emotions, and then guide them so that their children can slowly let go of the panic and anxiety in their hearts.

For example, a child is playing in the square with a beloved toy car, and other children are attracted by the toy car and want to come and play with the child.

Parents can tell their children: babies like toy cars very much, are you a little worried about other children coming over? The child may say:

Well, yes. In this way, the child will know that you understand his feelings, understand what he thinks in his heart, and feel more secure in his heart.

4. Adapt to the environment.

When you know that your child is not socially in school, you should actively guide her to adapt to the environment. Because especially for some children who have been promoted from kindergarten to primary school, they may be separated from their former friends at this time, so they may be in a lower mood in this regard. At this time, you should try to accompany her as much as possible, and if you see some cute friends, you can also match her.

What to do if the child is not social.

First of all, many people think that extroverts are sociable, while introverts are not. In fact, introverted personality is not a bad character, as long as introverted people grasp the method well and give full play to their advantages, they can also communicate successfully and have more friends.

For the shy and introverted baby, encourage him more, support him more, and guide him to contact and socialize with people of different ages around him. Take the baby out of the house more, create more opportunities for the baby to meet and socialize with children, and expand the baby's interpersonal circle.

How to educate parents of children who do not fit in.

At home, parents should not let their children be too self-indulgent or do everything for their children. Parents should patiently comfort and encourage, and give their children a warm and firm look at the awkward moments, so that the child's confidence will slowly grow until excessive shyness is left behind. Attention should be paid to and strengthened the cultivation of independence and autonomy, and children should be encouraged to complete the tasks they can independently.

Encourage and encourage your child to socialize with others, especially with cheerful and lively peers.

Many children are unsociable and withdrawn, but this situation can be alleviated. Even if a child is introverted, he should not be too withdrawn and not good at expressing himself. If your child has such a situation, it is recommended that parents encourage their children and drink more to communicate with their children.

Usually, let the child drink more classmates to play, enhance the relationship between classmates, and let the child grow up in happiness.