I want to learn to forget the person I love so much, how can I let myself go?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-05
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's hard to try to forget someone.

    What does it mean to forget? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very human, especially if you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Put him or her in another corner of your heart!! Because you can never forget him (her), if you want to live like others, look away. Love in the world is inherently unfair, go.

    Find your own love. It's impossible to forget her (him), it should be because you have loved each other after all, right and wrong are sure of both sides, want to open a little, maybe there is such a person who is secretly in love with you now, and grasp the road of love in the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Force yourself to fall in love with someone else! I've tried that too.

    But. I regretted it later, doing so only made me more miserable, and if you can really do it, then congratulations on not needing him anymore.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Empathize, how to forget a person you likeLife is inherently divided and combined, and combined and divided. Turn all the sweetness of your creation with him into memories in your heart, and don't forget it, because it's a part of your life.

    If you are separated, at least there will be memories that belong to you, and I think there will be no regrets about that. It's a classic, lzThat's the answer.

    I watched it and suddenly opened.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Keep it in the little space in his heart, don't think about forgetting it forever, it's impossible.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Letting go is true love! Keeping each other from being hurt is the destination of everyone's happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Sometimes it's a sad hurdle to forget the person who loves you, but you have to consider the reality, he is your love, but not necessarily the right person to be a husband. The reality is brutal. Don't hesitate to ask your mother, I believe that she will not harm her daughter.

    At first, I was sad and didn't dare to say anything, but after discussing it with my mother, I realized that everything was so cheerful. But I'm still in contact with him, it's not a broken thread, it's another kind of sublimation. Life is short!

    I'm sure he wants you to be happy, and for whatever reason, you should put yourself at ease first.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How about making yourself happy every day? When you don't plan to love someone else sincerely, please love yourself well! Think about it, how much have you loved yourself? Isn't it?

    With a calm mind to face all the things happening around you, you will find a way to live in peace!

    Have fun!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think you must be a sentimental person too, and there are two ways to do this: one is to tell yourself with reason that it's impossible, so there's no need to be nostalgic anymore. Then you can divert your attention and try to buy something that you have wanted to buy for a long time but have never bought. Give yourself a leg up from stress.

    You can also choose another lover to fill your wounded heart. Participate in group gatherings with friends. Make yourself feel busy, others need you, and you can't care about anything else.

    Learn to adapt to giving up, because there are many things that are not going well on your path in life. As mortals. We should make a decision between what we want to do and what we do.

    Only then will we not lose ourselves.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Stiffen up, or find another friend. There is no other way.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Upstairs is right, it's impossible to forget, you can only keep a little miss for him in your heart, and remember that you once loved that person for the rest of your life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's hard to forget, but you can put it into another relationship, and then slowly forget about it, and treat him as a friend

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I've had this problem too, so I'm okay with it

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Find someone you love again.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The fastest way is to enter a new relationship, with a new relationship will naturally fade away, and another way is to try to keep yourself busy, busy have no time to think about him, time will help you forget everything.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you are forced to do this for some reason, you can socialize more in your daily life, make more friends, go for a walk with friends in your spare time, travel or something, and use your time to do something that will be forgotten with time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Everything yesterday has become me, don't think about it. It takes time, and it's a long time. Personally, I think that no one can help you get out of this kind of thing, and you can only get out of it if you figure it out yourself.

    Letting go = figuring it out. The process of letting go is also the process of figuring it out. Sometimes we try very hard to fight, to vent, to possess, to kidnap others with our own likes, and in the end we find that it is not yours, and it is not yours after all.

    In the process of figuring it out, it's best to be alone. In lonely times, growth is the fastest, because you have to bear everything alone.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It is impossible to let go completely, but it is necessary to let go because you need to face the rest of your life. Divert your attention, read more, exercise, develop hobbies, take care of yourself, your one is still waiting for you!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Divert your attention and let time lead you forward, so that you will slowly forget everything and make everything strange.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If I want to let go of a person and forget about a person, I will choose to let go of a person instead of forgetting, and when I completely forget and let him disappear from my life, it means that I have lost interest in him, including in him. That's why we say we should forget about someone who treats us badly.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You can do something you love to do, or focus your energy on work and study, or you can hang out with your friends, or you can forget about it after a long time of travel.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Throw away all the tangible things related to him, enroll in some training courses that you are interested in, strive to enrich yourself and improve yourself, keep yourself busy and have no time to think about him, find some inspirational movies, ** to watch, you must restrain yourself from thinking nonsense.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The best thing to do is to find someone you like again, so that you will pick yourself up again, and gradually forget about it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's not easy to forget a person, or to forget a relationship. It takes a lot of effort from us. Someone once said that it is impossible for people to forget the person they love, because once they forget, they are not loved in the first place, and they can only transfer their thoughts to other places, which can be to work and interests.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If I think it's over, let it pass well. In the future, just wait for it to come and feel it. You have to cherish the time you have now. Grasp the moment with your heart, and you will meet better people.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you want to let go of a relationship and forget about someone you love, then your best bet is to renew the relationship so that you don't have time to think about that person.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hello: First of all, I would like to tell you that it is not easy to forget someone, or to forget a relationship. It takes a lot of effort from us. Someone once said that it is impossible for a person to forget that he has loved.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    At this time, don't let yourself be too lonely, don't be too limited, be sure to choose to travel, and you can also choose to chat with friends and family, and at the same time you can also do some things you like, such as sports or eating.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Well. Then don't look for something meaningful to do. Don't kiss and love all the time, think that the world is only this little thing, the world is still full of many meaningful things.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Maybe love is a sad fairy tale.

    Anyone who has read it has left more or less regrets, and when we finish reading it, we will understand a truth, that is.

    In the world of love, fate dominates everything. When I.

    It's not painful to give up someone who loves you very much.

    Because we are likely to have a relationship with this person but have no part, and it is painful when we give up someone you love very much.

    Because it is very likely that we have a relationship with this person but have no relationship, when we fall in love with someone who is not in love.

    Your person is the one that hurts the most.

    Suffering, cause. For the very possibility of making trouble with the clan, I will go with this.

    People have no fate and no part. If there is a fate, time and space are not distances, if there is no fate, even if the liquid disadvantages are together, they can't understand, don't care too much about everything, and don't need to force it.

    Let's just let everything go with the flow.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Although it is said that time can dilute everything.

    If you still love him, you can't forget it.

    If you don't love him anymore, you will naturally forget.

    Trying to forget a person may not be so simple.

    If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget them.

    If you're trying to forget about it, you probably won't be able to do that, right?

    If you want to forget someone, they may have hurt you, or for some other reason.

    You have to find the reason that makes you sad, or you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to let go of something, let your mind go, instead of thinking about it constantly, maybe, you think about it occasionally, but it's also inevitable, right?

    Time will imitate the luck of making you slowly forget.

    If you really love him very much, you have to spend your life forgetting him.

    If you don't want to forget, hide your love deep in your heart.

    Hope you can be happy! `

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Smile... Friend, we have the same experience, the same pain ... I would like to share my views and experiences, and at the same time, I would like to give you some advice. It's all written by yourself, so let's take a closer look.

    I also have such an experience, such a pain, only time can dilute it! Treat him as a stranger, and don't have any dealings!

    Slowly faded.,I'm also coming over like this.,It's really hard to do.,But it's only this way.,Only time can dilute this ordinary and deep love.。。。

    I'll send you a sentence, a sentence I've always remembered: A person always has to take a strange road, see a strange scenery, listen to a strange song, and then in a casual moment, you will find that the things that you originally tried so hard to forget are really forgotten.

    Forget, maybe you can't do it, but there will always be a time when you think of it, raise your head, look at the sky, smile, and move on...

    Finally, I wish you happiness and forever ...

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Why forget it? It's good to accept the reality frankly, even if it will be sad, it's nothing, as long as you work hard! Emotionally, no one is right or wrong, I hope you can be happy! It's really painful to forget, don't deliberately forget, let time dilute all this.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Since you have tried your best to cherish it, but you still can't get back what you have lost, then you should learn to give up. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

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