I don t feel the current one and want to break up, but my girlfriend cries and says I don t want to

If you don't feel anything about your husband and want to break up, but your girlfriend cries and says she doesn't want to break up, then I think you still have to take care of your current girlfriend's mood, because we must know that every girl has a lot of ideas in this society, and every girl is very weak, she doesn't want to break up with you now, which means that she has paid a lot for this relationship, and she has put her heart on you.

If you want to completely dissociate yourself from her at this time, it is nothing more than taking her heart away, so I think you should calm down and have a good chat with your girlfriend at this timeIf there is really some misunderstanding between you that makes you feel that you don't like her, then you can still return to the previous state of love in this kind of love, but if it is true, you have no feelings for her in your heart.

Then I think you have to make this clear to your girlfriend, because if one person has no feelings for another person, then this kind of love will not be able to reach the end, It's better to break up happily than drag it on, it's also a particularly good ending for two people, and it won't waste each other's youth, so I think you still have to think about it from the relationship between you, after all, girls can be humble like this.

It shows that your status in her heart is still very important, if you will never find such a girl after breaking up, I feel that you will definitely regret it, recall if something happened between you that caused cracks in the love between you, or whether these cracks can be repaired or repairedIt is particularly important for two people to reconcile as before, and it also makes the love of two people more complete, but if there is really no feeling, then you can confess and break it directly.

You have to follow your heart's thoughts, and since you don't love her, let go of her, and don't drag your feet. Long pain is better than short pain, she must have had a hard time accepting this reality at the time, and she will get better slowly.

First of all, tell her that even if the two of them are together now, they will have no future, and this is also a waste of time. If she still doesn't agree, you should leave for a while and both of you calm down.

I think it's important to communicate with the other person about this and then deal with the relationship in a peaceful way.

I think it's better to think about what to do if you regret it in the future, and think more about why you were together at the time.

Then discuss it with your girlfriend, the two of you will be separated for a while to calm down, and at this time you will also sort out your mood to see if you don't like her anymore, or if you don't have much expectations for the relationship.

Summary. If he cried and cried when he broke up, it means that he is also reluctant to give up on this relationship, and he feels ashamed of you.

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Well, how long have you been with your girlfriend? Under what circumstances did she break up with you?

11 years. I only went out to play in August, and when her son got married, she proposed to break up, and the relationship has always been very good.

You've been in a relationship for 11 years, so are you all single? Or is it a lover's relationship? You've done a lot to him in the past 11 years, right?

If he cried and cried when he broke up, it means that he is also reluctant to give up on this relationship, and he feels ashamed of you.

People are more dependent and habitual, and the reason why you can't cry may be because this man has not become your habit. But you can't conclude that you won't think of him in the future, and you won't feel bad in your heart, and tears will naturally flow out. There may not be any major mood swings at first, but they will appear later.

Breaking up doesn't mean you have to cry. If you are really sad and sad but can't cry, it may be that you are born with fewer tears, and the system determines that the breakup does not meet the standard of crying, so the system feels that there is no need to cry to vent. If you are more prone to crying, you can't cry and ask questions may be because you don't want to admit that this relationship doesn't matter even if you lose it, and you feel that you should cry if you are out of love, but in fact, it's the same as above.

Or it's the kind of special grievance, dry pumping, sometimes it's really sad and won't shed tears.

Huh....I read your question, can such a girl want? I have a boyfriend again so soon, but I can keep it now, so what about in the future? I don't think she's much better, there's no grass at the end of the world, brother! Be sensible!

In fact, I don't love you anymore, and anything I don't love can be a reason to break up.