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Judging by your description, it should have changed your mind, otherwise why would you suddenly dislike your lover when you were well combined.
The child is nine years old, a critical period of growth.
You shouldn't ask everyone if you should get a divorce, other people can only give you advice, and if you accept the advice, everyone can't be responsible for your future, and a lot of online people are irresponsible. What you need to do now is ask yourself: Are you mature enough?
Age is not a boundary that divides maturity, and if you are mature enough, think about your children.
It is not that the children who come out of divorced families are psychologically deformed. It is not possible to generalize.
But you have to think holistically, take into account the overall situation, if the relationship between the child and the father is very good, your divorce will cause a lot of harm to the child.
Also, if you think about it, why bother your husband? His problem is still yours. People who are married and have children are already adults, and they hope that your actions can be responsible for yourself, your children, and your family.
In addition, it is not so easy for divorced women.
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I've been married for a long time, and I'm tired of it, but in fact, life is like this, don't you think it's very unfair to the children? Isn't it enough for your husband to bring you peace of mind, comfort, and give you a sense of home? When you get divorced, you regret it!
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Of course, don't leave, everyone is the same, I felt it at the beginning, and then it was gone. Put a male god by your side. If you look at him for ten years, you won't feel it. Enjoy a plain but sincere life! Don't toss!
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Poor child, single-parent families have a great impact on children!
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It's hard to say, if you think about it, if you don't leave, you're not responsible for yourself! Leaving is not responsible for the child... I'm not old, but I understand that love belongs to young people, and people who can still love each other after having children are often no longer love, but guarding, guarding the past, guarding the new life born in love!
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I don't know what you mean by not feeling it, but from the perspective of the children, don't get a divorce yet.
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Think about what you need. If you were to hold up a marriage for the sake of your children, would you be willing? Is it possible?
If you can, please give your child a good parental image, if not, first spend more time communicating with your child, do a good job of your child's ideological work, and tell him for sure that you love him and protect his child's feelings, after all, the child is innocent, and you have the right to choose the life you want.
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No matter how beautiful a woman is, there will be a man who sleeps with her and wants to vomit, you are tired of this one, and you will be tired of the next one, but the next one may not have the current one to love you!
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So what is it away from, is your love life important or your son's growth important. I think that's a pretty simple truth.
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Single-parent families have a great impact on children, don't be impulsive, calm down and think about your husband's good, it's not easy to form a family together.
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It's up to you, but if you don't want to leave a shadow on your child's young mind, it's best to leave.
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Feelings can be cultivated, and divorce is particularly harmful to children, and I hope to consider the feelings of children more.
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I think you'll have to talk to your son first.
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Divorce, there's no need to be together, because you're already disgusted with him.
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You're not going to find one out there, are you?
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It's hard to talk about this situation because even if the situation is the same as you say, your husband will not necessarily file for divorce.
Because divorce is also a very troublesome matter, you have to explain to the relatives and friends of both parties, and you have to divide the joint property, and if you have children, you have to consider the ownership of the children, not just the two of you.
Therefore, even if many couples have been in the cold war for a long time, they still want to endure it and pass, and they have not solved it for decades.
So since you don't want to continue living with your husband, you can take the initiative to apply for divorce, after all, people live for decades, no matter whose time is precious, you can't afford to delay, why waste it on someone who has no feelings.
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1. Prosecution. Litigation in divorce cases refers to a request by one party to the marriage relationship to the people's court to dissolve the marriage relationship with the other party in accordance with law. One of the parties to the lawsuit is the plaintiff, and the party being sued is the defendant, and after the litigation begins, the parties enjoy the litigation rights and bear the litigation obligations in accordance with the law.
According to the provisions of China's Civil Procedure Law, the prosecution of a civil case must meet four conditions. Divorce cases are also civil cases, so the lawsuit must also meet the conditions of the Civil Procedure Law and have its own characteristics:
The plaintiff must be an individual with a direct interest in the case;
There is a clear defendant;
There are specific claims, facts, and reasons;
It is within the jurisdiction of the people's court that is the subject of the lawsuit. According to the provisions of the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China, general territorial jurisdiction applies to divorce proceedings. That is, the party who requests a divorce must file a lawsuit with the people's court at the place where the defendant's household registration is located, and if the defendant's place of household registration is inconsistent with the place of habitual residence, the defendant must file a lawsuit with the people's court at the place of habitual residence.
Only divorce cases that meet the above four conditions can be accepted by the people's courts.
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If you don't have to be awkward for decades, it's better to simply divorce.
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After three years of separation, you can get a divorce, even if the other party does not sign, you can leave.
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How long have you been married, is he good to you, do you want to be so romantic every day? In fact, life is very ordinary, and plain is true.
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What should I do through legal channels, there is no need to insist on it.
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The best thing to do is to separate first.
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I also want to get a divorce, but he didn't do anything wrong, he just felt that he didn't have love
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I want to divorce this year, and I'm 74 years old, I'm afraid I won't be able to wait for that day, what should I do, hurry up.
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1. Divorce is divided into pre-marital property and post-marital property, and the property is divided by 50% according to the joint property of the husband and wife
2. On the issue of child support, children under the age of two generally live with their mothers, or they can negotiate with their fathers, and disputes between the parents of minor children over the age of ten can be voluntarily chosen by the children.
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It's cold! Divide it as you want
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What is your family property, and children over the age of two are usually raised by their fathers.
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1 Hello all! The son is a respectful attitude towards you, and I take the liberty to ask, who is at fault in the divorce? Which of you is richer? Are you wrong again?
If a woman divorces without her children, the trauma to the children is infinite, and the children are very uncomfortable, and you need to spend time slowly to make up for it!
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One of the two reasons is to save money for you, a good son, and a negative problem for his family.
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No! He's mature! It's you who care, it's messy! Actually, it's nothing! I don't want you to make comparisons with him.
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Every trauma makes people grow, hehe.
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So why did you get married in the first place? Does he love you? Is it good for you? You can pursue happiness, but don't hurt others.
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Tell you that you will know how to cherish it if you lose, so if you have a husband who loves you now, you will love him well
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You're not very sick.
Tell me, why do you hate him touching you, what do you think?
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Try to accept him, after all, you have children. Besides, he loves you too, and accept him from the heart as much as possible. For the sake of the children, and for you. I hope you are happy.
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You're fit to be friends! Find out the good in him! I still have him in my heart.
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You're worried about him because you're in love with him!
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Didn't feel why I had a child.
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Do you have a knot or are you selfish?
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Is it necessary to see a psychiatrist,
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Now the problem is that he doesn't want this home! The problem is not with you.
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If you do this to you for a long time, it is estimated that there may be someone else in his heart, maybe there are other reasons, anyway, the main reason is not because you are fat, you care about him too much, treat him as an emperor, after losing himself, plus he has economic power in his hands, he will treat you as a slave, you have already made a plan to separate, independent, rigid and soft, confident and beautiful, someone will like it! He doesn't need to change into the type he likes, his heart has changed, and it's irreparable!
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Show me your **, otherwise it's really hard to give you an idea.
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Live for yourself, you can't rely on men.
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Leave early! Otherwise, you will be the one who will be seriously injured.
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Yes**, I hope I can help you nickname me.
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There is no hurdle that cannot be passed, and if you want to remarry, you will go back. I can't let go of the hurdles in my heart to talk about it! Don't miss the opportunity to leave regrets because of the so-called face in your heart! Also hurt children!
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It is indeed difficult to remarry after divorce. But if you love him, you can definitely do it, but at the same time, you have to see if he is worth it.
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For the sake of the children, you can have a good talk, communicate well, and see if the other party has any intention of reconciliation?
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You talk to him first, and if he still has feelings for you, then tell him that the child needs a complete home.
Now it's time to divert your attention and find something to do. Don't give him information or **, people are like this, the closer you stick at this time, the more disdainful he is, you also have to let him know that you are not without him, you have to insist on your own pride, after a while he may look back and see you.
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