I m really desperate, really desperate?

People are different, you should understand what it means, right?

There are many kinds of friends, and as long as you make friends with your heart, they will also experience what true friendship is.

You don't have to be too melancholy for such a situation, maybe you can also find some shortcomings in such a thing. Although some things are done to their best, some people just don't understand you, and most of them are too different from what they think in their hearts, and they are unhappy that their friends shouldn't do it. As oneself, there is no way to make it clear, which is indeed a very difficult thing to deal with.

Women will be more sensitive to some things, and they will feel that there is nothing in line with what they think in their hearts, and they will feel that there is something to hide. (I think this kind of situation will appear in the psychology of most women).

So back to your current question, if you don't feel that you have done anything wrong or have not done something sorry for your friends, there is no need to think about it, don't be disappointed, don't feel ashamed, you should be sorry for your friends because you haven't done anything wrong, you can have a clear conscience! It's okay not to make friends like this, there's no need to worry about it, so why bother to explain things that are unclear to friends who don't understand you??

No matter how good sisters are, there are also differences in personality. Interaction can only seek common ground while reserving small differences. Only by tolerating and appreciating each other can we get along in harmony.

If there is unhappiness between each other, it is also a normal thing, and there is no need to "despair". I suggest that you stick to your own principles: I would rather be the first to be the first to bear me, and I will never be the first to be the first to be the first to be defeated.

No matter how she treats you, you still have to be nice to her as always. If you can't get over your face, it's an opportunity to cultivate your belly. It's better for her to recognize that she's gone too far.

If you can't, you insist on breaking up your relationship, you have done your best, dedication, and responsibility. Friendship is a heavy object lifted between two people, and it requires the joint efforts of two people. One puts down, the other goes on his back, and this is not lifting.

Don't regain her heart, and she doesn't want to lose a road. It's just a temporary gas. As long as you are sincere, you will definitely be able to move her.

I wish you all a rainy day and a sunny day.

You didn't tell what happened, so I don't know which of you was justified and who didn't.

Two things can be learned from your words: 1 You used to be good friends, at least that's what you think, right?

2 For a small thing (which you think is a small thing, she will most likely think so, because you are good friends, and if she had been the one who turned her face because of such things, you would not have become good friends with her).

You think it's incredible, and so am I. Because that's illogical. So there must have been other reasons for her to make that decision, what was it? Only she knows at the moment.

We always care about our own feelings and ignore other people's. There are some things that we have done to others that we take for granted. And what others have done to us is a great rebellion in our eyes.

I think it's because you've been doing things for a long time that you don't think are too much for her to look up to. She's been warning you in some way, but you're indifferent (of course, I'm not saying she's necessarily right). Finally she couldn't take it anymore, and so it happened.

Think about what is wrong with you first, if you think you are right, don't regret it, that kind of friend is not worth your tears for her. If you're wrong, if you feel like she's important to you, admit it.

It's that you don't care enough about him, you think you care about him very much, I don't think you care about him at all. Are you really ordinary friends? Even if a friend goes on a date with you and you miss the appointment, and you don't say hello when you meet, he has an opinion about you.

What you wrote is that you yourself have suffered a lot of grievances, and you have to consider what we should consider in the position of others

Actually, I'm not very sociable, so I'd like to come here to watch

ps: For the kind of woman who is not measured, as a man, I don't think to pay because this kind of personnel is the most, so... I know that you women are very troublesome, if you really care about her, simply say that she is still useful to you, you will continue to associate with her, and you will calmly tell her what she says about you in the future, don't say anything wrong, because when she talks about you, others are looking at you This can show that you have a good temper, and others will be more willing to associate with you

If he were your true friend, he would feel the same way you ... The reason is as the friend above said... He's your friend.

And you are not his friend ... I believe in true friendship. This fault is nothing ...

I'm sure you have too.

Friends can be handed over with sincerity, if your friend treats you like this, it means that she is not sincere to you, I advise you to give up, such a friend is not worth your effort!

You care too much about each other.

And the other person doesn't care about you.

That's all.

How long have you been dating?

He's probably too egoistic.

Not thinking much about other people's feelings.

Self-centered.

Think carefully about whether there is a ** that offends her ......It is impossible to miss an appointment once and forget it once, so that the relationship ...... so far

Or the jealousy of women, think about it too!

Maybe he's missing something important because of your no-show! Try to talk to him calmly.

Actually, quite simply, there must be someone behind you who says bad things about you.

I also advise you to give up that you don't have to have a lot of friends.

Parents make you feel hopeless, and I think you should first carefully analyze whether it is the cause of your own mentality. Are you busy at work? Or is life not going very well?

Or is it something else? If it's a problem with your own mentality, then you have to change your mentality, because life is mainly lived by yourself. Second, if there is something about the real parents that makes you feel hopeless, and you feel powerless to change, then you should understand the parents a lot, after all, there is no parent in the world who does not want their children to be good.

Isn't life going well? Or is it something else? If it's a matter of your own mindset, you need to change your own mindset because life is mostly your own.

Second, if your parents really have something that makes you feel hopeless and powerless to change, you should understand your parents better. After all, there is not a single parent in the world who doesn't want their child to be a good child.

If you really feel hopeless when you are alive, let yourself think about your relatives and friends! Their impression in your mind may give you some hope to keep you alive.

If the method I mentioned above is not feasible, then I may be able to help you by listening to my next advice.

Hello friends, judging from the situation you described, it is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself in this situation, you are desperate, then you have to adjust your mentality in time.

Can this netizen express your question clearly? What is the reason for your despair, so that we can answer for you, to explain a little clearer, so that we know how to help you, you can usually not care too much about things that have nothing to do with you, life will inevitably go up and down, figure it out and pass,

The reason why people who have been defeated by failure are often because they have chosen a failed heart, a life of complaining and complaining, and a life of despair. It is difficult to see the responsibility of big things, to see the mind in adversity and good times, to see the self-cultivation of joy or anger, to see the wisdom of giving up, to see the persistence of success or failure, and to look at the realm of busyness or idleness. Don't despair, the direction of the headwind is more suitable for flying!

When a person is desperate, it is easy to do things without thinking, it is recommended that you find a way to calm yourself down, the cause of the problem is **, you must find it clearly.

Falling out of love is a normal thing, and in this era of fast food, breaking up is also commonplace for many people, and we also have to accept the facts and shift our attention.

Everyone is hopeless and helpless at times, and you must have felt hopeless when you read this experience. It is precisely because of the illusion of life that people will be disappointed and hopeless. Despair is a very scary feeling, what should you do if you feel hopeless!

How can you overcome this uncomfortable feeling?

Method steps.

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When you are desperate and helpless, when you are afraid in your heart, let yourself cry out loud! Crying is a kind of emotional release, it's easy to cry, right Cry, cry, think about how desperate you are, think about how you can't see the future, what more meaningful thing is there than crying at this time.

Crying is a kind of emotional catharsis, and after crying, I still feel that life is a little hesitant, what should I do in the future. Life needs a plan, at this time, please take a pen, list the things you are worried about, the frustrations you are encountering now, and write them down on paper. Then think about how you should solve these problems.

It's not that it will be completely solved, but then you should have a plan for how to weaken these problems.

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Confide. If you still feel uneasy and a little desperate after making a list of work plans, then quickly find a close friend to talk to. Maybe when you grow up, your friends are busy with yourself, and we don't seem to have any friends around us, but what I want to tell you is that friends, good friends, he has always been there, at this time you need him the most, and he also hopes to appear when you are helpless to reflect his value, so hurry up and talk to a friend, tell him your suffering, your worries, your helplessness, and your despair!

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If the people around you can't enlighten you, then you have another choice, which is to let go! Then choose to be free and give yourself a little time, believing that time can heal the wounds of your soul. It's a great choice to travel, or to shop, dress up, or indulge in games and forget your worries for a while.

Hehe, as long as the mood is refreshing, what about temporarily stopping the pace of progress!

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How desperate, can you talk about it.

Then find hope again.