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Accept the facts. Many people face a breakup, because they have just broken away from the intimate relationship, both physically and psychologically, our body is not willing to accept such an outcome, and our brain is not willing to accept it.
So, in order to alleviate this pain, we will deceive ourselves, including coming up with all kinds of reasons to prove that the other person still loves us, using various methods to show that it is still possible between you, and even someone will force each other to die and threaten the other person to continue to be with us.
Although this may provide temporary relief from our suffering, it will not be conducive to our growth in the long run. When facing a breakup, whether you will get back together in the future or not, you should learn to tell yourself: we have broken up, everything is in the past tense, and I have to learn to accept this outcome.
Don't blame yourself too much.
After we break up, we are also prone to a kind of wrong psychology - self-blame, we will blame ourselves for the fault of the breakup, and feel that it is because we have not done a good job that leads to the departure of the other party.
We like to blame ourselves because it gives us a psychological hint that if I do those things well, they will come back to me. However, the breakdown of any relationship is not a one-person problem, and a breakup does not mean which of the two is bad, you are simply not a good fit.
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What is the situation in the world? Straight Christians promise life and death.
I'm going to chant again.
I want to forget but can't forget, that's the most painful thing.
Ay. I've been touched by all of your questions lately.
Hey, I'm so worried. Ay. Ay. end
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This is from Xue Zhiqian's song "Where I Seem to Have Seen You" "It has something to do with you, I don't feel it after watching it, if you really dare to ask the author why he is guilty." ”
Explanation: I don't feel anything for you anymore, and I don't feel any pain in what you do. All the enthusiasm has faded at the beginning, and the indebted person will be especially brave, you have broken my heart, and you have done so many things that I don't want to face, how can I still feel guilty?
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The meaning of self-atonement is what the lyrics are meant to be. Perhaps it is also a portrayal of the author's mood.
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You can't forget the memory, try to divert your attention, after a long time, your heart will be filled with other things, and you will be fine.
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I like it, it's a bit of a fake phenomenon, and I don't like it when I really get in touch with it.
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I haven't met yet, and it's an online dating.
Brother, I advise you not to be stupid, who knows what the other side is thinking through the computer.
Even if she is sweet now, she is bold, lively, and cute, but when she really comes face to face, it's completely different.
It's better to find one in life, online dating is eighty percent unreliable.
If you're convinced, then don't post it, if you want to make a come, then give it a try.
But then again, there are a few times in life.
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Pay attention to revision and strengthen memory.
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Don't be nervous, relax yourself, you can do it!!
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It's just a competition, won't you not participate, the high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination are important.
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It is recommended that you look for the topics of previous competitions on the Internet, which will be helpful to you.
There are also competition magazines, which are available in the library.
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At this time, there is a substitute and you will forget about him, for example, a boy who is very good to you next to you, you walk together, and finally you will slowly focus on the object, and the previous ones will slowly forget.
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Go after him, do you have to wait until you are fifty years old to know and ask a question that I have had a crush on him for fifty years?
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Then forget about him, or find someone to replace him right away.
Some things have been suppressed in my heart for too long, and it is also a sad thing when I can't find someone to talk to. So I came to the end of the world, and on this warm winter afternoon, I really wanted to write my own story here. I don't know if anyone has seen it, but for me, it can be said to be venting, or it can be said to be commemorating.
I've been relatively smooth since I was a child, and I've studied very well since I was a child, and I'm a relatively well-behaved girl at home and outside. Only in 05 and 06 when I just graduated. I was in the field, because of work, and because of a relationship that ended without beginning, my mood has been very low, and the economy was also very embarrassed during that time.
Sometimes they only eat one meal a day and live a life where their biological clock is completely turned upside down. Sleep during the day, surf the Internet and read Baby Anne's books at night. At that time, I especially liked the books of Baby Anne and Guo Jingming, and the more I read them, the more I felt that the sadness in my heart was flowing backwards.
Sometimes he wanders the streets aimlessly at night. I even learned to smoke, the first time I smoked, I was choked, but when I was sad and wronged, I smoked a cigarette, I felt very cool, I liked it at once, I felt that smoking was really a good thing, no wonder so many people couldn't quit... Many people around me probably won't believe that I used to smoke cigarettes.
I can't look back on those unbearable days, and now I can't figure out if I had depression at that time. At that time, it seemed that they still liked to chat QQ on the Internet, and at that time, it seemed that people also liked to chat blindly on the Internet. Unlike now, most of them are invisible, and even if they are online, they don't bother to talk to strangers.
I can't remember when I added his QQ.,I just remember that the reason why I added him was because I liked his personality signature very much.,My intuition tells me that this must not be copied from the Internet or a book.,But I wrote it myself.,The writing is very smooth.,And I think that this person must be very delicate to write such words.。 I like guys who are emotionally delicate. It felt good, so I added him.
He was quick to add me, but no one spoke. At that time, I was still blindly immersed in the embryonic relationship that ended without beginning. It's not okay to be sad about it, naturally I'm not in the mood to take the initiative to talk to others, it's when others take the initiative to talk to me about Q I speak.
After a while, I vaguely remember that it was May of '06, when I had just changed jobs, and my mood gradually calmed down. Once I went to an Internet café with a colleague to surf the Internet, because I never played any games, I was really bored and remembered that I had added such a person before, so I said hello to him, and the other party quickly replied. During the chat, we learned that he was two years older than me, was in the same city as my hometown, and was studying for a doctorate at a prestigious university.
I remember that the conversation was very happy, and I felt that he was a very sunny and cheerful boy, and he was also very talkative. It's a pity it's not my type. I was 21 years old in '06 and hadn't really been in a relationship yet.
There are still many beautiful imaginations about love. The kind of boy who is calm, wise, doesn't talk much, and is a bit of a city attracts me more.
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In fact, there are only two ways to forget, the first is time, and the second is empathy, and you are suitable for the second way.
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If you don't meet, you will have a sense of mystery, and it will arouse your curiosity, maybe it is her words that move you, or maybe it is to see her ** is the type you like. There is also true love on the Internet. As long as you come up with sincerity, the Internet and reality are the same...
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Tell yourself that she is just as beautiful as you imagined, that is an illusion, just take it as a dream, wake up from the dream, and life has to go on! Find a time to take a break and make yourself cheerful.
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Online dating, start a new relationship and naturally forget, so there is a saying, I will remember you and love others.
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Isn't that person you didn't meet important? You don't know anything about him. His image may not be true, but his words must be true.
He may bring you joy, he may bring you warmth, but his life does not belong to you. Maybe you don't need to forget, just hide it in your heart.
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You're not stupid, you haven't met again yesterday! I can't forget yesterday! If she can't forget, she must have n reasons that she can't forget, give her a chance to find out the n reasons and write them ......Compare them one by one and think of a way to ......You can do it, you must do it.
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I thought of an **, I fell in love with her in the mouth of a friend, an elf-like existence, and finally met it, but I didn't know what to do.
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