After breaking up with my girlfriend, I became friends, but I fought and hurt each other when we met

Updated on psychology 2024-04-30
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Actually, I think it's like this, if you love and then break up, it's basically unlikely that you will be friends, because if you are really friends, you will feel that there will always be a kind of heart in your heart. A layer of veil, the same thing is very uncomfortable, and then it may bring certain emotions into the painting, and then it becomes the two of you fighting with each other and hurting each other. In fact, I think this may destroy your previous good memories, I think that if you really love each other, break up or don't be friends, and with your current situation, in fact, to put it bluntly, neither of them came out of the breakup at that time, this matter.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    For the ex, there is always some embarrassment when you see each other after a breakup, and you can still fight with each other when you meet, which means that you have really become buddies.

    Get along well and don't cross the line, it's a stop loss.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It shows that two people are still dissatisfied with each other in their hearts, so they will lose each other and be unhappy with each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The reason for analyzing every pain I have now should be because I am reluctant and unable to let go, and I don't really hope to have any future and results with him, so I firmly believe that the more pain you have, the more you should face it head-on until you are numb until you no longer feel pain, so when you are not ready, you let yourself be friends with him. Looking at the whole, I am indeed becoming more and more bearable. Friends around me say that they will be healed when they start a new relationship, maybe, but they still hope that they can start a new relationship when they are in good condition, and I hope that I can have this ability.

    In this way, we decided to continue to be friends with the feeling of cherishing our encounters. What about you? If you feel that you can't stand it and don't want to touch this scar, then don't go.

    If you feel that this emotion is more important, you feel that you can bear it, or both sides have been relieved, then it is okay to be friends. In short, it's good for everyone to be happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is long overdue to break up with such a person.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is nothing more than to be expected. But it's a good thing for you, because you can see her old disguise clearly. Ignore it and live your life with peace of mind!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Therefore, it is better to break it up or break it clean.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then you don't want to be friends.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    So some people say that since they have broken up, it is difficult to be friends again. She did this, showing that there was still resentment in her heart. You let go, she hasn't let go, you can't ask others to be the same as you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think so, it means that your ex-girlfriend still hasn't completely let go of you in her heart. Those unpleasant words and words that hurt you are nothing more than venting the unpleasant emotions in your heart.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Personally, I think it's better not to be friends after a breakup, it will feel very embarrassing, and it's hard to do it without minding at all.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think it's really hard for boyfriends and girlfriends to be friends after breaking up, it's impossible to keep a normal heart when facing each other, she should still not let go of you, she has a lot of opinions about you, or don't be friends, both of you are uncomfortable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In this case, it is better to break up completely, your ex-girlfriend is still sarcastic about you so meanly, this is to add to your own blockage, and the quality of your ex-girlfriend is not very good, it is better to stay away from her and give yourself a clean land.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then break up completely, where in the world is there no grass, no women? Be angry with her, so get strong and find the other half of the person who loves you. Good luck coming.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    She may have hurt you during your relationship.

    She has a lot of complaints about you, she used to endure it, and when she broke up, she wanted to say it and let herself.

    Hurry up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Love hurts deeply, because love hurts deeply.

    Don't meet when you are separated, it's embarrassing, and if you meet some people and are entangled, the scene will be even more ugly.

    The past is gone after all, no nostalgia, no looking back.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is often said: It's not that "enemies" don't get together, it's better than a game, and both sides must understand each other's personalities. Breaking up because fate has ended, it is inevitable that love and hatred will swell in your heart when you meet again, and it is indispensable to find a way to ridicule each other and vent the "resentment" in your heart.

    In order not to affect the mood, the way is to avoid the other party, out of sight and out of mind.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I may love you too much, I can't bear you but I'm a little disappointed in you, but I can't change it, and I probably don't want to change it. So the only way to vent your grievances is by hurting you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's normal, the process of breaking up must be unpleasant, so I generally don't continue to be friends after a breakup. If it's hard to meet, don't get along.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It is estimated that this is the so-called happy enemy. The disagreement between each other's personalities leads to a breakup, but they feel that the other party has no problem being friends, but this situation is not good. We often say that it is difficult to have absolutely pure friendship between men and women.

    If she hurts you, it means that she still cares about you. If you continue like this, you're either starting from scratch or you're hurting each other, so I'd suggest you think carefully about whether or not to continue dating.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Love is deeply responsible, and there is a feeling, so there are more words.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It should be, I think you may be waiting for the other party to speak first, you can take the initiative once, ask him if he meets the requirements, if he vetoes you, then I think he just likes to play ambiguous with you, you don't have to waste time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After breaking up for four or five years, now it's just an ordinary friend relationship, occasionally losing each other, not getting back together, and not looking for another partner, will they get back together in the future?

    Do you want to get back together?

    Then go for it.

    After four or five years of breakup, I can still be ordinary friends, and I don't have another look, I think there is still hope.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This situation is uncertain, that is, it is possible to get back together, or it may not, who will be sure what will happen in the future? You may become familiar friends but not get back together, or you may be emotionally in place and get back together, I think it's better to let it be! Emotional things are not clear.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Maybe they're all waiting for the other party to take the initiative.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's too late to say anything, and whether it's true or not, it has nothing to do with you. Now that you've been friends, you've found a new girlfriend. It means that you don't like him anymore, so you don't have to care about his opinion.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, the ex-girlfriend is a friend again, it is unreasonable in itself, if she does not have the intention of getting back together, she will not see you again, and you have found a new woman, he reacts violently, there are still feelings, he can't accept that he really loses you, and now you let go of your feelings, she is very uncomfortable, if your feelings are because of her abandonment, then he is waiting for you to beg him again, but unfortunately you let go, the original relationship, but unfortunately it really hurt him!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    He still hasn't let go of being friends with you, maybe he still wants to get back together with you, that's why he did that, you didn't understand what he meant, and both of you misunderstood.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It must be that she still likes you, she is very angry when she sees you looking for a girlfriend again, she is willing to be friends with you again to give you a chance, but I didn't expect you to give the opportunity to another woman. Your ex-girlfriend loves face and wants you to take the initiative to comply, but she didn't expect the ending to be like this, of course she was angry, but your ex-girlfriend also did it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think she just can't bear to break up with you, that's why she says you're disgusting, and I think since the two have broken up, they shouldn't be in contact.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    No, she's talking angry, she won't scold you if you don't find another new girlfriend, it's because she didn't get you, so let's get rid of yourself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Because you still broke up with your girlfriend after breaking up, which caused your girlfriend to feel that you still like him, of course you should be scolded, and you must be decisive if you want to break up.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Judging from what you said, after your ex-girlfriend became friends with you, she wanted to get back together with you, and she would say that after you found a girlfriend, you should choose your ex-girlfriend or watch your girlfriend and watch it yourself.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Do you think you can still be friends after you break up? I can't still let go of the explanation, and my current girlfriend knows that she must be angry, so if your current girlfriend is still meeting with your ex-boyfriend, you will also be angry, and if you break up, you will be separated, and there is no reason to be friends when you meet.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Probably or not, it's all about what you think.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In fact, your ex-girlfriend promised to be friends with you again, in fact, she wants to be with you and get back together. So I heard that you found a new girlfriend, so he will be so angry, so he will scold you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    What a friend. Scold. That's self-destruction. If you are friends. So. It is possible to be single for the rest of your life. Would you like ...

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's always awkward or embarrassing, right? You're still grinning.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You damn it, you're absolutely wrong, she's cold, it's because she still loves you, she doesn't know whether she should continue to be friends with you, don't do it, she wants to see you again, do it, and feel very sad, the lover suddenly becomes a friend, it's hard to accept in a short time, but I think you share it with her, it's a relief for her, she can find a more suitable one, because at the very least, you don't even understand a woman's behavior, if you want to be really good to her, don't go to her, being friends after the separation is just an excuse to deceive yourself,

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    After all, the previous relationship was special, and it will take a transition period to return to an ordinary relationship all at once. The landlord's attitude may make her feel frivolous. After breaking up, you still have to keep a little distance.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower!

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    After a breakup, they can still be friends, which shows that each other is very generous, broad-minded and not narrow-minded, and there are certain feelings, and no one can still be friends if they have no love.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Generally, there are not many friends after a breakup, and it is not conducive to finding a new love partner, and sometimes it is very embarrassing, and it may break the connection! If you break up, it's best not to come and go! Seriously looking for your partner who truly belongs to you!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Look at how deep the previous contradictions were. In the past, when we were together, it was only vague love, or I simply thought that the other party had any shining points, so if you fall in love together, it will not be embarrassing to meet again after breaking up. There is no deep affection and understanding of each other during this time, so there is no sadness or regret even if you break up.

    But I have been in love for many years, even to the point of getting engaged and married, and if I want to break up for irresistible reasons in the future, I will feel happy and awkward when I meet again. See how the two of them are doing after the breakup. It depends on whether the two people who broke up met awkwardly, and whether the two people found their own happiness after breaking up.

    Broke up for many years, if both people already have half and happy families.

    Then it won't be embarrassing. Because you are doing well now, everything from the past will become a good memory, and you can sit and chat together after meeting. However, due to the parting of the year, if one of the parties can no longer find a suitable spouse and the current life is very painful, then when they meet again, they will not only feel awkward, but also have a deep sense of guilt and anxiety.

    Isn't it already put down. Don't you still have feelings? Two people who love each other very much are not together, and after breaking up, they find another partner, but if they still can't let go of each other, it will be awkward when the four of them meet on the street.

    How can two people who swore to be together forever not be embarrassed when they are now with someone else? But the past is the past. No matter how much you reminisce, you can't do anything that makes your current lover sad.

    Otherwise, your life will be even more regrettable. It depends on why you broke up before. The reason why many lovers break up is that they can't always be separated from that relationship, and they quarrel and fight every day.

    Then instead of torturing each other, it is better to let go of each other's freedom. As long as there are a lot of things on, you can rest assured. Because you are indeed not suitable.

    When we meet again, no one is sorry for anyone, and everyone can face each other calmly. But because one party is in love with someone else, if you have to break up, it is not embarrassing to meet again, but annoying.

    It also means compounding, doesn't it? Not all lovers can't get back together after a breakup. Unless you are sorry for each other at the time, the breakup is also not allowed to be objective, so it is better to try again.

    Many people have hands that are distributed under gift money, various rules and etiquette, or they did not have enough material conditions to give each other a stable life before, so they separated their hands under the threat of their parents. When you meet again, if the conditions for marriage are ripe, you will not be embarrassed, but happy. Because I finally have the opportunity to be with each other again.

    Emotional message: Two people who break up peacefully can also live happily after breaking up. Because there are no contradictions, there are no resentments and embarrassments.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    We'll meet again later. It is actually very common and normal for each other to feel more embarrassed, because each other is no longer in that kind of relationship, and it seems not so easy to meet again and return to the position of friends, so everyone will feel embarrassed.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If you feel very embarrassed after breaking up and meeting again, in fact, this is really a normal thing, you will definitely feel very embarrassed, because you have already broken up, you are equivalent to a most familiar stranger, you don't know, where do some things come from, say that you are strangers, do you, you are actually very familiar, say that you are acquaintances, and there is no common topic between you to talk about, so you can only stand awkwardly and stupidly.

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