I m about to separate from my girlfriend, and I rarely see each other, not a breakup. What should be

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Contact more, call**, text message, surf the Internet, anyway, you can't stop contacting just because you see less. In this way, the girl will feel more at ease.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Sadness is inevitable.

    If he is sadder and sadder.

    Explain that the more she likes you, it would be good for you to comfort and comfort you.

    Personal experience feels.

    Actually, you shouldn't think about how to make him not sad.

    It's how to treat her and how to treat feelings when you are separated.

    so that your relationship can continue.

    Distance is not a problem, it is a matter of the hearts of both of you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Contact the florist and pay the money.

    Let the florist send flowers to him every once in a while.

    You can write on the flowers how much you miss her.

    It's actually quite easy to do, as long as the economy allows.

    You can do whatever you want.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. Keep in touch with each other often. 2. If you really like her, it's best to make a certain commitment to her. Promise not to marry her, so that she can rest assured.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    During the quarantine period, my girlfriend proposed to break up with you because I didn't see each other for a long time, I will redeem it, after all, the two people can be together, it must be because some aspects are more compatible, if you break up just because you haven't seen each other for a long time, it's still very regrettable, so my first reaction is to redeem it. Because the long time I didn't see each other due to quarantine is not a subjective reason, but for the epidemic policy of the corresponding country, so I think it's understandable.

    If my partner mentions breaking up with me, my first reaction must be to save this relationship, after all, it is not easy for two people to be together, and they have been happy and happy. So in order not to regret it in the future, you still have to try to save this relationship and see if it is not good enough to make your girlfriend lose her sense of security.

    Try to save the relationship as much as possible.

    Many people can't bear long-distance relationships.

    stress, so not seeing each other for a long time may lead to a breakup, but this should not be the root cause. We all know that if it's because of the coronavirus.

    If it leads to isolation, the longest is only a month, even if it is a more serious situation, I was infected with the virus after I was isolated, and I was quarantined for half a year, this is all objective reasons, not subjectively rejecting meeting my girlfriend, so I think I can't see each other because of isolation, which is not the real reason for the breakup.

    In fact, I think that being broken up because I couldn't see my girlfriend because of being quarantined, it is definitely not the root cause of the breakup, but just a fuse.

    That's it, so after analyzing the real reasons for the breakup, we will make a decision to see if the relationship has reached the point where there is no way to recover. If there is really no way to recover it, then the long pain is better than the short pain, and the points will be divided, which is good for both parties.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This situation is completely understandable, after all, it is the quarantine period, and it is better not to walk back and forth. Explain the reason to your girlfriend clearly, I believe he will understand you, in fact, you can also use some mobile phones if you don't see each other for a long time** or something. In this way, two people can communicate even if they don't meet, so when it comes to this point, you should quickly get him back.

    Strive for no more such a thing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    During this period, if your girlfriend proposes to break up because she hasn't seen you for a long time, then you have to ask him the reason for breaking up, because there is still a chance to meet for a long time in the future, and you will also try to meet him, make your own efforts, and then let him decide.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because of the isolation of his girlfriend, because he has not seen you for a long time, he proposes to break up, which proves that his feelings for you are not deep at all, or that it is not real, if it is true love, you are in isolation, he should care more about you, he can't wait to come to you as soon as possible, and will use all the time to comfort you in the first way.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If your girlfriend proposes to break up with you because you don't see each other during the quarantine, it means that the relationship between the two of you is not so good, the foundation is not so strong, and the isolation is not the same as a long-distance relationship, and the isolation will always come to an end, and she may just find a reason to break up with you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course, you can't agree to break up, you can comfort her and tell her that although you can't see each other, you can have a ** call, or send a message to chat, if she has to see you, then you can break up, I can't understand you during the quarantine period, and I can't kill you in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In this case, it can only be said that the relationship between the girl and you is not particularly deep, and the quarantine period is not very long, since she proposed to break up, it means that she may not love you anymore. If you love her, you can redeem it, but if she is particularly resolute, I suggest you let it go.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It shows that your girlfriend doesn't love you at all, you should break up with your girlfriend, and if you really love you, you won't propose to break up because you haven't seen each other for a long time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe in your daily life, your girlfriend is too dependent on you, and she doesn't feel safe during your quarantine and wants to separate, you can tell her that your quarantine is almost over, and if you really want to separate, wait until you are done to talk about these things, and try to delay the time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you break up without seeing each other for a long time, it proves that your relationship is relatively weak, because no one can control it because of the epidemic, so you can only say that your girlfriend doesn't love you anymore, so you will say so. If I were you, I would have to say something about it, because after all, no one can resist this kind of reason. If you can't keep it, you can only break up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your girlfriend broke up with you because she hadn't seen each other for a long time, and it can be seen that your girlfriend is not very reasonable. So the best thing to do is to put it down. But if you are unwilling, you can explain to her well and apologize, or you may come back late.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can try hard to win back the other party.

    Because you haven't seen each other for a long time and lack of companionship, the relationship has weakened before you break up.

    So as long as you can really care about this girl, do some practical actions, and move this girl, so that you can redeem it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, I think that being broken up because I can't meet my girlfriend because of being quarantined, it is definitely not the root cause of the breakup, after all, two people can be together, it must be because some aspects are more tacit, so my first reaction is to redeem, in response to the country's epidemic policy, so I think this is understandable, if the girlfriend really can't understand and has to break up, then break up.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Your girlfriend is more depressed and has nothing to do during the quarantine period, you should care more about her and help her share her inner anxiety. If you don't do this, then you definitely don't love her, and you should accept the woman's proposal to break up with you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because of the epidemic isolation, you haven't seen each other for a long time, and your girlfriend proposes to break up, which means that your relationship is too weak, such a girl, such a relationship has nothing to be nostalgic for, just break up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    During the quarantine period, your girlfriend proposed to break up with you just because she had seen that for a long time, and it is better to break up with such a girl. Because this is just an excuse put forward by the girl, he just wants to break up with you, yes, such a girl should not have any nostalgia.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I can tell him, it will always pass, and it will not be permanently isolated, and I will wait for you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you really can't get by, you can call ** and tell her to discuss it with her After all, you want to be together No matter what, she should understand you If you are really forced Then I think she should have an outside heart! Of course, that's my guess, you don't care.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is no way, this quarantine period is a special situation, there is no way to avoid it, I think your girlfriend is very ignorant, completely considers her own thoughts, does not take into account her feelings at all, is a little selfish, and recommends breaking up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I must understand my girlfriend's feelings. The breakup proposed by the girlfriend is not a real desire to break up, but an emotional confusion caused by this period of isolation. This feeling of the girlfriend should be understood, and the two of them should work together to solve the problem, not run away.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This situation suggests that you accept the breakup decisively, at least between the two of you, he does not have the most basic understanding of you, so if you don't break up now, you may have to wait for the same result in the future because of some things.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think that if your girlfriend proposes to break up with you because you can't meet and talk to each other during the quarantine period, you should try to find a way to meet the other party as soon as the lockdown is lifted, so that maybe the other party will dispel the idea of breaking up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    During the quarantine period, the girlfriend proposed to break up because she did not see each other for a long time, and the isolation is a force majeure thing, which is basically rare, and if the girlfriend proposes to break up because of this time, there is no way.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Agree to break up, because the girl has proposed to break up with you, indicating that she doesn't love you anymore, and when she brought it up, she had already made up her mind, saying that she wouldn't see each other for a long time, this is just an excuse, not her heart, in fact, because there is no love, so she broke up with you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Maybe your girlfriend has a better candidate, and if she still loves you, it is impossible to break up with you in just a few days. The breakup must have been premeditated and may have been thought out a long time ago. It is recommended that you have a good talk with your girlfriend, and break up if you really can't do it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In love, we also need to pay attention to fate, when we don't meet that person, we don't have to worry, sometimes too anxious, will only let yourself quickly fall into the trap prepared by others, and the whirlpool of love may make you lose your way. Love needs a certain test, sometimes don't make the wrong choice because of the impulse, the person who loves you will make you feel the presence of love. What should I do if I want to break up with my current girlfriend and am afraid that I won't meet a better one?

    If one of the two people has the idea of breaking up, then the two people will not feel happy together at all, and they may meet better after separation, it is only a matter of time. <>

    One. With the idea of breaking up, it is difficult for two people to move on.

    In a relationship, we have to go through a lot of periods, and the happiest moment may be the happy period and the hard-won flat period, which means that the relationship between two people has reached a certain period and can live together. One of the two people has the idea of breaking up, then this relationship can not go on many times, love needs to go both ways, a person's love is not love, it will only make two people feel the despair in love, instead of tormenting each other together, it is better to let go of each other's hands, so that each other can come out of this relationship earlier. <>

    Two. It's not that you can't meet better, sometimes you just don't want to let go.

    After ending a relationship, many people are afraid that they will not meet someone better. In fact, many times it's not that you can't meet better, but you don't want to let go of this relationship, you are used to being with each other every day, and you don't want to get used to another person, so you are very resistant to being with others in your heart. Therefore, this period should open your heart, love also needs to pay attention to fate, since it has not come to us, we should not urge ourselves.

    The above is just a personal opinion, so what do you think about this issue?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In a relationship, if you feel that you can't get along with your current girlfriend, then you must break up early. Since you don't love each other, don't drag each other.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Then you should break up, which means that you don't love her anymore, but you want to use her as a spare tire, which is very irresponsible.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It is recommended not to break up with your girlfriend, be sure to apologize to your girlfriend, and be sincere.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    An inappropriate relationship will eventually have a time when it can't endure, and the two can't come together and can wave goodbye in the end. What do you do in the moments after you break up? There are a lot of memories between you, whenever you eat or go shopping, recalling the previous moments when he was by your side, it is inevitable that there will be some sadness in your heart.

    And the ** in the mobile phone, that is your eternal memorial, what will you do with these ** after breaking up?

    Some people will keep it as a memento, after all, they love each other, and there is grace between the two of them, and they teach each other many things and truths. If this is unacceptable for your new girlfriend, I think you should consider the possibility of you being together. If it were me, I wouldn't object to my boyfriend leaving his ex-girlfriend's **, keeping it as a souvenir and proving that you really love it.

    I don't care how good your past is, I just need you to be good to me now.

    Even if you tear up your ex-girlfriend's ** in front of your new girlfriend, you shouldn't secretly think of her when passing by somewhere. Nor should anything come to mind in mind. So, you might as well generously tell your new girlfriend and leave her ** as a souvenir!

    Because I want to cherish you even more! In fact, everyone has a past, and a ** does not mean anything, some are just beautiful memorials. After all, it's the person you love, so be kind to someone else's.

    If you don't have that memory, or if you want to start a new life, then we can respect your choice to delete **. Because it's an inevitable thing, and you don't want to stay in the shadow of the past and not be able to get out, it's all up to you. That's it, hope.

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