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True love is like water, that is the truth after the veil of love has faded and experienced the ups and downs of life, for people who have not paid or have not received true love, true love is a kind of care and care from the heart, there are no gorgeous words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it, love is so plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart.
Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is blending rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness, love is a lifelong thing...
Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist
Done, I hope it helps you with your question, if you are satisfied with o(o...Ha ha.
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Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...
Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...
At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...
When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.
If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.
The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.
It's okay to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person.
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If he loves you too, that's fine, but if it's your wishful thinking, there's no need.
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I think that the attitude towards feelings depends on the individual, and everyone's emotional world is different.
Excessive attachment can be unhealthy, but everyone's boundaries and standards are different. The important thing is to be stupid and find a balance and respect the other person's feelings and choices.
Unrealistic attachment is not a good phenomenon, but having a moderate amount of attachment can express our sincerity, and it is more meaningful if it can be rewarded.
The emotional world is complex and diverse, and distinguishing boundaries is not a simple black and white classification. The focus is not on attachment itself, but on the balance, communication and respect of both parties.
Everyone's situation is different, and there is no set standard. But try to socialize with a healthy attitude, control attachments within a reasonable range, and avoid hindering your life.
It is indeed good to have deep affection and affection for someone, but being too attached can have negative effects. A long-term infatuation and affection for a person may manifest itself as follows:
I often think of that person and miss that person.
Do everything you can to get to know that person.
I often feel that I can't live without that person.
The desire to be with that person is more than reason.
That person has trouble letting go and feeling depressed when he doesn't respond to himself.
But excessive attachment can also have the following problems:
Interfere with normal social life and work.
Becoming more pure and accompanied by intensification, leading to mental and psychological problems.
After being rejected by that person, he fell into a pessimistic mood.
Irrational behavior can damage the relationship between the two.
It's frustrating to cling to someone who can't go any further.
Normal likes are healthy, but not being able to distinguish between reality and ideals often does not lead to good results. Try to face your love life with a rational and objective attitude, and don't be trapped by love.
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Attachment to a person is not necessarily love. Because sometimes it's just because you're clinging to it because you never got it. is very persistent to a person, and most of them generally have a relatively strong bibi liking, but the liking has not yet been sublimated to the point of love.
When you really love someone, you don't just want to get them, you think about a lot of things. There will also be a lot of emotions mixed in, and if you are just very attached to that person, then you don't necessarily love her. Because love is not so simple, when you count the states and really fall in love with someone, you can appreciate the ups and downs.
Maybe for a lifetime, maybe a day or two...
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