What is the psychology of a person who still borrows money from his ex after a breakup?

I feel that it should be disconnected, and I can find a sense of existence from my ex at any time to prevent my ex from forgetting his feelings, and there is also a possibility that his friends don't like him and can only borrow money like his ex, because she may feel that even if she breaks up now, she is a unique existence in front of her ex.

I think he may have a psychology that sees that his ex already has a current one, and is afraid that his ex will forget his feelings for him, and reminds his ex how much they loved each other before through the channel of borrowing money, and even if they break up, they should take care of themselves, find a sense of existence in front of their ex, destroy the current situation, and form a gap in the current psychology, so that the ex can remember himself in this way.

Of course, there is also a feeling that the ex is good here, in order to get back together with the ex. Therefore, borrowing money can slowly re-establish the relationship.

For now, there are some people who think that even if they break up, they can still be friends. Because he thinks that when we are in love, we are so in love, and it will not affect the relationship with the ex after the breakup, even if you can still be friends after the breakup, if you go to the ex to borrow money, it is acceptable, the most afraid is that the ex already has the current and borrows money. If you have a current one, no matter what reason you have to borrow money, it is very bad behavior.

Maybe some people think that even if we break up now, he still loves me, and we still get along in the same way as before.

I think if you go to your ex to borrow money, it's to get a way from him that you can contact him at any time, because if you borrow money, you can borrow it from other friends, and there is no need to go to your ex and get entangled with him, which is not very good for both parties. So I think it's more likely to be in touch with your ex and remind your ex of his existence.

Belch... Sister Ma once borrowed money from her ex. Because I feel familiar with him, and I really borrowed money, and it is not that I will not pay it back.

I always feel that everyone looks at the issue of "borrowing money" very extremely, and always thinks that the character of the person who borrows money is not good. People will have a time when they run out of money, and it's normal to borrow money when they run out of money. And to borrow money, you have to find an acquaintance to borrow money, and strangers will not lend you money.

The friends around you just don't have money, so just borrow it from your ex, it's not that you don't get along honestly, you can still be friends if you break up, what's wrong with being friends and borrowing money?

I don't understand, a lot of people say, don't borrow money from good friends. Belch... Why? It's not like I won't pay it back!

I think that people who say such things must have a problem with their reputation, and they must often borrow money and do not repay it before saying such things, so as not to hurt their feelings if they borrow money from good friends and do not pay it back.

When I borrowed money from my ex, he already had a girlfriend, and, to be honest, we broke up more awkwardly, the kind that still hated each other.

Therefore, I was also under pressure to use money urgently, and I really thought he was easier to talk to, so I asked him to borrow money. I probably didn't think too much about it...

I didn't expect this issue to be discussed in a grand manner. It seems that I really underestimated this matter, no wonder my ex directly rejected me at that time, saying that now that I have a new girlfriend, there are many places to use money, and there is really no money to lend me.

Now that I think about it, is he telling me in disguise that he has a girlfriend, and his money is spent on his current girlfriend, not for his ex, not for the ex who abandoned him!

Uh,I don't think it's anything anyway.,Maybe my brain is too white.。。。

Just sauce purple.

It shouldn't be borrowed, after all, both of them have broken up and have nothing to do with each other.

Of course not, because you have no relationship with him, so don't lend him money anymore, and people who borrow money won't pay you back.

You can lend money to the other party, which means that the other party will borrow money from you when they are really in trouble, and you should lend a hand to help at this time.

It's best not to borrow, after all, the two have broken up now, and the relationship is not as good as before, and lending it to him may not be able to return it to you.

He shouldn't borrow it, because he's just his ex, and if he lends it, there's a good chance he won't get it back.

Your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend asks you to borrow money, and I think it depends on the personality of the person. Some people will borrow, and some people will not. There is a kind of separation from the ex, there will be no more contact, they feel that separation is separation, there is no need.

It's too hard for lovers to become friends. So in this case, you will not lend money to the other party. Even if the other party calls him, he won't answer, and he may have become a stranger or blacklisted by sending WeChat.

There is a kind of separation from the ex-boyfriend and girlfriend, and you can be friends in the future. This kind of person who treats money as a friend may borrow money from the other person. It also depends on the situation, some soft-hearted people.

It may not be said to anyone, there are not some people, he will look at the other party according to the actual situation, whether it is worth it for him to lend him money, there is also a possibility, depending on his own situation, whether he has money, and if he has this condition, he will lend money to the other party.

To be honest, an ex is an ex after all, and he basically has nothing to do with him, and the only relationship is that he has no relationship. I will not borrow money, it is better not to borrow money, it is easy to have disputes, especially this kind of relationship with the ex, it is very complicated. Generally speaking, borrowing money between acquaintances knows that they have to open their mouths to borrow money, but it is more difficult to repay the money.

In the experience of people who have come over, it is best to break up with your ex after a breakup, no longer contact, and look at the past maturely in order to move towards the future. If you're married, there's no need to have anything to do with your ex.

This is your basic respect for yourself and your family, and this is a matter of principle.

If you haven't already, you still often contact or friends, look at the character of the food, whether you want to borrow it or not depends on yourself. For me, I might as well be on a case-by-case basis. Now I don't have contact with my ex anymore, but if he calls me.

If the other party really needs help, I may borrow it, of course, it depends on my own situation and whether it is allowed. Such a decision can be made if allowed. If you don't allow it, don't force yourself either.

If you really encounter an emergency, it is better to be together, depending on your financial situation, you can support a little, but you must write an IOU, do not write an IOU, do not borrow, after all, separated, borrowing is love, not borrowing is duty, writing an IOU can go to the IOU to say, **Sign, so that your rights and interests can be protected, I hope it can help you.

If you have an emergency or encounter difficulties in life, you should still lend some, Bi Jing was once a husband and wife, or relatives and friends, and it should be helped.

When you meet your ex to borrow money, see what difficulties he encounters, if he is sick or something, lend him the money, and if he wants to spend with his current girlfriend, don't lend him money.

You shouldn't lend it to him, and it's already your ex, and the other party won't pay you back, and it's even more unlikely that the two of you will get back together, so you shouldn't borrow money from each other.

You don't have to lend it to him, because after all, he's already your ex, and there's no relationship between the two of you. Therefore, borrowing money is love, and not borrowing is duty.

Not necessarily, and there's no need to borrow money from your ex, because the two have already broken up, so don't have too much intersection.

No, you don't have to lend it to him, if you don't want to lend it to him, you just say no.

Just say "your ex borrowed money from you", it's not as simple as you can borrow if you say borrow: your current one is easy to be jealous. Because the person borrowing money from is your ex, your current will definitely have ideas and will be jealous.

There are still some feelings, I am afraid that you will use "money" as a matchmaker and rekindle old feelings.

If your ex asks you to borrow money, you should think about it rationally, and if you want the current one to agree and your predecessor has no bad habits, you can lend money to your ex to see if the reason is sufficient?

What is the principle of not borrowing? It's that your life is very dull, in this case, you lend her money (her), you will also have difficulties, since you are an ex, since you have broken off your relationship, you don't need to help her, make good use of this money, so that you and your current little life is better, isn't it better to Jin's Mountain?

What are the special cases of nuclear lifting? It's that you are rich, the material conditions are very good, and there is no shortage of these money in life, so lend it to her! This not only helps her and saves others' urgency, but also shows your generosity, and also gives you a chance to "take revenge" and satisfy your vanity.

Why not?

The predecessor should show his attitude when he borrows money, since he is so going his own way, the edge is exhausted. Now why should we break the connection and hurt others? Or self-comfort, no longer entangled, ambiguous. Self-esteem, self-love, self-reflection.

The matter of "borrowing money" is an issue that should be carefully considered, and coupled with the color of "feelings", it should be even more cautious, just say that "your ex borrowed money from you", it is not as simple as you can borrow if you say borrow.

First, figure out what your ex is borrowing money for. It is definitely useful for your ex to borrow money, and it is necessary to understand whether it is used for the purchase of a house, a car, and shopping, or for emergency relief such as surgery for a serious illness of a family member. If it's the former, it's best not to borrow, and if it's the latter, you have to help.

Second, it is necessary to consult with the incumbent to obtain consent. On the issue of borrowing money, we must discuss it with the current one, to borrow or not to borrow? Borrow more and borrow less? When is it still there? How? The husband and wife must discuss and reach an agreement, and they must not act arbitrarily.

When Yan Ran should have decisively refused, because you should know what kind of person your ex is, and secondly, since Hui Zao Ran has broken up, you should decisively not contact again. Antecedents.

Of course, you should refuse him, because such a person no longer has anything to do with you and is a stranger, so you should not lend him money again.

If you don't borrow, your ex is in the past, and if the two have no relationship, there should be no debt relationship.

You should decisively refuse. You shouldn't be in contact with your ex, you should block him completely.

You shouldn't lend it to the other person, because you have already broken up, and he is not worth cherishing at all, and this behavior is very inappropriate, so I don't think you should lend it to the other party.

In such a situation, you must think about it carefully, because the two of you are no longer related and have broken up, so there is no need to borrow money from each other.

You shouldn't lend him money, because you've broken up, you shouldn't lend him money, it's best to ignore him, and it's not good to contact him often.