Not long after the breakup, what was it like for an ex to have a new relationship?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-20
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel like my ex is such a scumbag.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Expectedly, he didn't love me with his heart, and I didn't want to give first. I only have one question to ask myself, am I stupid? Why start a relationship with him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I believed in him too much, and I thought in my heart that he just broke up with me, and he wouldn't start a new relationship right away, but he was seamless, and he didn't make it clear when he broke up with me, and he went on a blind date at home.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Suddenly found that he was like a joke, ridiculous, and wanted to go to him, thinking that he really had nothing to do with you, and turned around and fought with others, and then he was very angry, and had the urge to beat ** and scold him, I want to say, I wish you to be so poor all the time, no house, no car, no one wants, lonely and old, and then think about it, forget it, write here, just vent, why bother to entangle.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    At the moment when I knew, I must have thought too much in my heart, would the two of them have been in touch before they broke up, and was I kept in the dark by them? But I advise you not to think about it, after all, you have broken up, don't make yourself angry with him anymore, no matter what he does to him, it has nothing to do with him now.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I didn't expect that I was quite pathetic, can't I choose a boyfriend, I will have a new love so soon, and I suddenly feel full of a sense of failure.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's a spare tire that the scumbag found in advance Okay, it's expected, I really feel sorry for the incumbent, I don't know when I'm going to become my ex, girls, let's have a snack, everything the man's parents urge to get married, that boy doesn't necessarily really like you, and they won't be together for long.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is a feeling that whether he has ever liked me, whether my position in his heart is important or not, at this time you will also feel that this man is a special scumbag, and there is also an urge to find a partner.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I would think cranky, and I would think that I was once in a relationship and I was just a person who was stupid and my ex was just a person who watched my jokes.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It can only show the unwillingness in your heart, one day when you meet a better person, you will find that you are actually very stupid now, only unhappy people will often recall the past.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's normal, as long as I really give in every love, she leaves, and I won't keep it, because love is mutual, you don't love me anymore, I don't need to be in love with you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Thinking about everything I've done for my relationship, there's a sense of frustration that I've wasted my good time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's all false to say that he is not sad, and even if he doesn't want to reconcile with him anymore, he can't stand that he has a new love so soon.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Very simple! She doesn't take you seriously at all! But don't hate, everyone can choose their own life! In my opinion, whether she has a boyfriend or not has nothing to do with you! The world is impermanent!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Most people don't necessarily love each other, but they are unwilling to make them sad about your breakup, but sad about how he can find someone to replace you, which is not scientific.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It shows that he has never really loved himself, so he doesn't have to take it to heart, since he is already a stranger, why bother if he falls in love with someone else soon.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After the breakup, the feeling of finding that the ex quickly liked someone else was probably that he felt that his vision was really getting worse and worse, and such a person could like it. Once, I mentioned breaking up, and the man said, "I'll wait for you, no matter how long you're long, I'll wait for you, I love you."

    Later, I saw them walking hand in hand, and I wasn't particularly sad, but I just thought, well, how could my vision be so bad before, and I fancy someone who is so duplicitous. After all, I broke up because I didn't like it, so I wasn't particularly sad, but I was a little lost.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's as if one of your objects suddenly changes hands, and whether you like it or not, whether you give up first or you give up first, you are unhappy anyway.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is because you didn't fully come out of this relationship after you broke up with your ex, or you did serious damage in your previous relationship, and you haven't felt the joy that heart-to-heart brings you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because I am in a new relationship, I sometimes keep some habits with my ex, and I will unconsciously remember that my ex was good to you, so sometimes I feel sad.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because you feel that your efforts are not rewarded, and you feel that you are about to succeed, but in the end you fall short, so you are particularly unwilling.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because falling out of love hits a person hard, and it can also make a person feel very inferior, and it can also make a person very depressed.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This is because there is no return for the affection, so you will feel very sad and feel very unworthy.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Seeing your ex again after a breakup mainly has these experiences.

    The first experience, the appearance of meeting your ex after a breakup, depends on the reason for the breakup: emotional or non-emotional; Helpless or annoying; Active or passive, varied, if the former situation mentioned above meets again, there should be hope: relieved, let go or continue the front edge; If the latter is really a passing cloud, they will not meet again.

    The second experience, for the ex, in fact, for most of us, whether it is remembered by chance or after a chance encounter, the heart will be more or less mixed. We no longer delve into what the two of us separated for, and in the end we still didn't make it to the end. There may have been regrets, sadness or resentment.

    But after a short or long time of polishing, even if they suddenly meet at a certain moment on a certain day, or pass by in a moment of surprise and panic, I have to admit that they are already familiar strangers A and B at this moment. No matter how ups and downs our hearts were at that time, since it is a thing of the past, we should be relieved and wish her all the best. Don't look back on the past, cherish the happiness that belongs to you in front of you.

    The third experience, to see who said hello first, generally the first to say hello can't forget the ex, whether it is to let the other party know their current situation, or want to know the other party's current situation, they are still concerned. If you don't meet your ex, you won't know if you still have this person in your heart, and it feels very easy to meet you suddenly - because you won't fall in love with him now, so you won't regret breaking up.

    The fourth experience, I don't want to meet, if I really meet, I will pretend not to know or pretend not to see him, I hope he is doing well, but I hope he is not too good, when I see the moment I see my ex, all kinds of old things come to my heart, as if I am in another world, and now it is not important!

    In the fifth experience, my ex and I were in two different cities, and the possibility of a chance encounter was very low. But I think since you asked this question, then you shouldn't have completely let go of your heart, maybe you still want to meet your ex by chance, and subconsciously still want to meet your ex. In fact, this is really painful, if you have a current one, it is also unfair to the current one, I personally feel that you have to let go of leaving, don't worry about it, this is a good arrangement.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Seeing your ex again after a breakup is an inexplicable feeling, first of all, every bit of two people being together will come to mind, and secondly, there will be an unnatural feeling.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Seeing your ex again after a breakup, it should be very embarrassing and complicated in your heart, out of reach, the most familiar stranger, and then recall a lot of things when you were together!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Seeing your ex again after a breakup, to be honest, this is a sign of self-confidence, and if you see your ex, you must fully reflect your superiority, and feel that he feels that he is actually very good now.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    After the breakup, if you happen to see your ex let go of your heart, you won't feel anything anymore, and if you can't let go, you will think of the time when the two of you were together again, sad and sad.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When I see my ex again after the breakup, I feel that this ex's words may not look as good as before, because he is no longer my object.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Seeing your ex again after a breakup should be a breezy feeling, after all, everyone has been separated and has a new life of their own, so you don't feel it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's an experience full of memories. It will remind you of all the memories and contacts of two people in your mind. At the end, I will feel very sad.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If it was my ex, I would still be very happy to see her, I would take her out to play, I would take her to eat delicious food, and then we separated.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It is very embarrassing that two people have no topic, but two people will deliberately find some topics to talk about, which is very uncomfortable.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's a very embarrassing experience because it's very painful.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Either he doesn't like you for a long time, and just doesn't have the right reason to break up. There is also a kind of he has never liked you at all, but now that the novelty is over, he seeks the next one.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In fact, he was afraid that he would regret the breakup, or that he was afraid of himself. The relationship with you will not be forgotten by him, so he needs a new person to come into his life and divert his attention.

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