I just graduated this year, and I have a lot of things to do, but I don t want to tell my parents an

I just graduated this year, and I have a lot of things to do, but I don't want to tell my parents anything?

A: Judging from the text of your narrative, you should be an adult, but your gender is impossible to judge.

For example: "I didn't go home to my boyfriend's house", I didn't want them to look for me, and I even wanted to get out of the mother-son relationship because my boyfriend worked in the fire brigade.

Also, there is no punctuation throughout the text, and I don't know which teacher's student it is, which is really difficult to be a teacher!

Parents are their own harbor and the big tree behind them. It is an umbrella on a sunny day and a rainy day, which will shade you on a sunny day and block the rain for you on a rainy day. They can feel your sore spots, because your heart is connected to theirs.

You are no longer a young eagle, your wings are getting stronger, but no matter how far you fly, you must have a place to stay. Because, this was once your old nest.

I hope you can understand this text, and if you are touched, you have achieved your purpose!

Children don't like their mother's nagging, especially children as big as you, they have their own ideas, but adults also hope that you are good, I hope you don't blame your parents when you grow up, in fact, I can understand you if you have this kind of thought, and when you grow up to be a parent, you can understand the mood of your parents. Now I don't want to tell my parents, so I won't say it, but I have to understand my parents.

Through your description, I feel that you and your parents have many contradictions and problems in their thoughts and actions. The problems that parents consider are particularly realistic, and of course there is a deep generation gap between them and you ideologically. If you can't communicate now, you can separate for a while, and both parties will think about it calmly for a while.

In the end, you have to communicate with your parents to achieve a balance and strive to understand and support you.

You can make an appointment with her to talk about your future and her worries.

I believe that your mother is also for your good, and it is better to study hard to have a good way out.

You'll know you'll regret it later, and now I'm afraid your mother won't be able to stop you.

This can be the following:

1.Your family's economic conditions are relatively good, and there is not much pressure for the time being;

2.Perhaps your parents may be in a hurry, but they have not found the right way to communicate with you to express their views.

3.Maybe your parents are afraid that you will increase too much pressure, especially in the current situation of employment pressure, and from the bottom of my heart, I very much hope that you can find a job as soon as possible;

4.Maybe believe in your ability and you will find a better job;

5.Maybe I've been disappointed in you, and I have nothing to say.

But in any case, after graduation, you have to work hard to find a job, because you have entered a new stage in your life, and no matter how difficult it is, you will eventually need to take this step.

The Lord wants to look for a job with a bad smell on your own, and it is not easy for your parents to train you to be a college student. Don't stay at home, go out and submit your resume, apply, and I'm sure you'll succeed.

Not sure what you're trying to ask. Do you feel that your parents are not anxious about your lack of a job, but you are upset by this situation?

If so, I think it's actually quite normal. Because, after all, your parents are not you, and you can't ask them to empathize with your affairs. However, if our emotions don't resonate, it's really easy to feel lonely and feel like we're not supported.

So, you can try to talk to your parents and talk to them about your troubles. However, you also have to learn to adapt. If you don't find sympathy with your parents, you can talk to some graduates who are also looking for a job, and you are more likely to have emotional support and some experience and help from them.

If you look for it yourself, you should rely on yourself.

It's going to be fine.

It's mainly useless to be in a hurry.