I liked someone who was 12 years older than me and he had a family! What to do???

Are you unilateral? Or both of you? Unilaterally, you have every reason to leave him, and you have no reason to continue.

If both parties like each other and you can't leave him now or don't like him, then please think about the consequences of everything, I think the possibility of a result is very slim. Unless, you don't care about being his lover, then in that case, he will end your relationship one day. You won't hurt too much either, because it's fruitless to think about it.

If you just from the perspective of feelings, you are not wrong, everyone has the right to love, if he does not have a family, you can tell him your feelings, but there is no if in life, only but! From an ethical point of view, you must not make mistakes, because many examples have proven to us that this kind of third party will not end well, no matter what kind of purpose she is in, love or not, you think you have so much perseverance to withstand the pressure from all sides??

Give it up, there is a generation gap, it's not suitable.

Abandon! There's no reason, just because people have families, that's all.

It's good that it's just love, not love. If you love it, you're done playing! But whether you like it or love, give it up! He has a family, do you want to be a third party?

Give it up! Now it's not fashionable to be a third party, are you sure to be his wife?

Why did you like him? What is it about him that attracts you? It's not your fault that you like someone, but you have to know that he is a person with a family, and you can't do it, and besides, you destroy other people's families like this, and you have the characteristics of betraying morality, Chinese!!

Trust your feelings, and if you like her, just say it to her.

On the premise of respecting her family and loved ones.

No way??? You'd better give up!! People have families!! Let's go to another city!!

I advise you to blow it anyway. There is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

How can you have a family? Today's children are really ignorant

Cut the Gordian knot!

Acting as a third party 99% has no future.

You tell me? What do you do if someone has a crush on your dad?

Do you think the referee on the pitch will be able to shoot???

Hello, I'm happy to answer your question, for your case, it is recommended that you change jobs, or take a period of leave to adjust your relationship, because you and he are destined to have a fruitless relationship, he will not give up his family, I think you are not willing to destroy other people's families and make a name. So you have to leave him, so it's good for both of you. Remember, the way to forget a person is time and a new love.

It's better to work from a different place!! After all, he has a family and children. Like is not love.

Whatever you think, anyway, he just doesn't eat the tender meat delivered to the door.

He has a family to do, and multiple chicks playing is an opportunity.

And you are different, you will have to get married and have children in the future and form your own family, but in case you have his children, it is the life of a single mother, and you are disliked everywhere.

Even if you don't have children and are old, no one wants them.

It's a good life to be ruined by yourself. What's wrong with being a normal person.

Since you know that it is impossible to forget him, to like someone again, this feeling is only short-lived, maybe you will find a better one in the future, you will think that I was so stupid and stupid at that time, why did I like him, everything must consider the consequences, will he abandon his wife and children for you? If not, then aren't you a junior? If so, do you think you're worthy of that kid?

So that he didn't get his father's care since he was a child. Decide immediately, make a decision, change your job may be helpful to you, look at the outside world, in fact, there are many handsome men and beautiful women.

Far away from him, love is fragile in the face of time, you haven't seen it for a while, you will forget, you can read the book of hypnosis, self-hypnosis, it is very effective, I used to come over like this.

Ha, ha, ha, I really can't resign, play games and chat online, how to face your future husband with such poor concentration, knowing that there is a wall in front of you, and desperately bumping into the Internet, what is that? _?

A kind of blind worship, if you think about it, if he's a good person, he won't give you a chance, and he says he likes you, and I think he wants to do something else with you, because I'm that kind of person, very attractive on the surface, silent and humble.

Let's leave, there is nothing to get married in this situation, cut it off as soon as possible, and if you really don't want to leave, then treat it coldly.

If you know it won't work, stay away, just find one.

If this is the case, I advise you to leave your job and stay away from him, time will dilute everything, and then you will naturally slowly forget about him.

Then you just wait to hurt your family, even if you succeed, you are still a little two, and at the same time hurt his wife and children's family......Simply cut off the year. Otherwise, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

Brake! Scram!!! It's dangerous....... Good thing you didn't step on the gas.

You have seen that everyone has said that you will change jobs, so I will not say it, my opinion is the same as everyone else. In fact, I have just said goodbye to my third anniversary relationship. Do you think I can put it down? I miss him too. What about these. The real society is the reality.

Changing places, or changing jobs, I used to be crazy about a girl who had a boyfriend, but in the end I ......Change places, time is the best medicine!

Change the environment. Or find someone to fall in love with. It's the best way.

Let's change jobs.,Don't insist on fruitless love.,Time is the best healing medicine.,After a long time, you'll slowly forget.。。

Get out of that place, or sooner or later something will happen.

Your end is ultimately a tragedy, give up.

I definitely don't want to have a new love, find two people to be happy together....

It's useless for you to bother with this kind of thing, only a quick knife to cut through the mess is right.

Maybe it's a dream! You have to be sober.

You don't know if he has a home or not, so it's better to find out.

That's easy to do, women chase men across the veil, and you're young and beautiful again, you can catch it in three or two, but if you want to destroy other people's families, it's not good to be a junior, the most in the world are men, I advise you to find another one.

What do you like about him? What can he do for you? It's important what he thinks, you know? I personally don't approve of love with a large age difference. Over time, there will be disagreements. It's up to you.

Give up immediately, there is no grass at the end of the world, and find another single.

Make a decision immediately, cut the mess quickly, don't cut it and mess it up, it's not realistic, don't deceive yourself and cover your ears and steal the bell, this is not good for anyone, and I feel pertinent and forget to adopt it.

It's better to let go right away, it's good to start with, it won't work out.

You give up and find someone better than him, there are many.

Then don't like it, don't lose your life because of him.

Don't let yourself sink deeper or you will get hurt. It feels like you can go back now.

If you like it, you can do it, but in the end you may not have anything.

Give it up! Don't go and ruin other people's families, find a single boyfriend.

You only have Momo's like, and you can't destroy the family of the person you like.

Give up, don't destroy other people's families, that's not good.

Don't bother him, or his wife will hit you in the face.

There are many peach trees in the world, why hang yourself on a tree with a crooked neck.

Don't care how long it lasts, as long as you have it.

, I advise you to forget it, find someone who loves you more, don't be a junior.

Inconclusive emotional opt-out.

Be a blue face first, do what you want to live, don't wronged yourself.

Is it true affection? Or is it just appreciation.

Have children? Figured out the consequences?