I recently fell in love with a colleague, but he has a girlfriend, but he is not engaged or married,

Girl, forget it, someone has a girlfriend, and they're going to get engaged, so don't worry about it, and even if you try to get him, he will only think that you are very humble and won't take you seriously, or just be friends, someone will love you.

Then hurry up and tell him that I like you and that he doesn't like you, so don't bother others. Don't regret it or anything.

Don't spoil others, even if you get along with him, he will meet someone better than you?

It's normal to pursue what you like.

Look at his attitude towards you, if you are intentional, you can hint if you don't want to....Then don't waste time and energy on him.

Happiness depends on oneself.

Don't be cowardly, it's everyone's right to pursue their own happiness Not to mention that if you are not married, you can get divorced even if you are married You say yes.

Tell him directly that you like him and want to fall in love with him. Don't let him right away. Give him a few days and listen to the results. Whatever the result is.

If that guy can give up his girlfriend and be with you, do you want that kind of person? His girlfriend's today is your tomorrow.

Hint to see how he feels about you, don't do things you regret, it's better to pursue than regret, so as not to leave regrets.

Figure out if you're more attracted to him than his girlfriend.

The point is to make him interesting to you....Otherwise, it would be self-inflicted....

It is not illegal to take love without getting married.

Don't spoil his happiness!!

Those who have been married can dig up, let alone those who are not married.

If you like it, don't be a third party.

You can pursue it fiercely!

Then it depends on whether the other person likes you too.

The subject is engaged to her boyfriend, and the subject is worried that other female colleagues like her boyfriend, so she is asking for trouble.

It's normal for good people to have other people like it, and it mainly depends on whether you can hold it. Since you are already engaged, it means that you recognize each other, want to stay with each other for a lifetime, and your relationship is relatively stable.

You should trust your boyfriend and trust that he will be true to his feelings and not be so inferior and feel that he will be snatched away by other female colleagues.

You are so worried about your own lack of confidence and distrust of your boyfriend, this kind of psychology is unacceptable, you are suspicious all day long, and you are very bad about your relationship, so be confident.

You are engaged to your boyfriend, and you are still worried that a female colleague likes him, it doesn't matter, someone likes him and it doesn't matter whether you are engaged or not, because others like him, it's someone else's business, and you can't care about it. You just need to make sure that your boyfriend only likes you, and even if there are a thousand and ten thousand people who like him, he only likes you, and that's it!

Be a good self, we can't change others, but we can try to be the best version of ourselves, so don't lose yourself in love.

This kind of worry is asking for trouble, and if you don't feel secure, no one can give you anything.

First of all, you can think about what was your original intention in agreeing to marry your husband in the first place? This is important, now that you are married, what about your family life now? Happiness? It's also important that your current life isn't what you want.

After thinking about the above, you can compare it with the person in your fantasy, what exactly are you expecting and fantasizing? Whether it's his handsomeness, humor, manhood, or something else, you need to think about whether you want to replace your husband's good with these.

The next question you have to think about is what will happen to him if you are really involved in his life, what will it bring to his girlfriend, what will it bring to your own family, all of this you have to face and you have to face. If you feel that you are exchanging your husband, family, and current happiness for that imaginary him, including all kinds of blame and pain that may arise, if you feel that this exchange is worth it, then you should be brave enough to do it. Otherwise, I advise you to abandon this unrealistic idea as soon as possible.

That means you don't like your current husband.

It is still advisable to make a decision early so that it is good for everyone.

I feel that since I am married, I must be loyal to my family, liking and falling in love are two different things, don't destroy your existing family because of a momentary impulse, think carefully, which may just be caused by a moment of loneliness, relax more, care more about your husband, and put more heart on your family, it will be fine, I feel. You are the one who loves your love and loves your husband.

There is no doubt that there is no love for the current LG. However, I still advise you not to fall in love with someone so casually. To put it mildly, you still don't understand what love is. Don't fall in the same place twice.

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