How to face people who can t get along with you

Since you can't get along with you, why should you have to face him for yourself?

The best way to do this is not to face him and let him figure out how to get along with you. Leave the question to him, all you need is to weigh the pros and cons of doing so.

Know what you want, and if it's not relevant to what you want, what do you care about him? Why bother yourself. If he has a close relationship with what you want, you might as well be more tolerant, because when you get what you want, you have already won, and he is just a flaw or obstacle in the process.

Hope it helps.

If you are together every day, you don't pay attention to him, you have to treat him like a friend, so that he can't see that you have an opinion on him, but you have to be nice to her, just have a number in your heart, be nice to her on the surface, move her, I believe that there is no iron-hearted person in the world, there is a good saying: can offend ten gentlemen, do not offend a villain, the villain does not like to hear a word, he will keep in mind, a little profit she can't get him uncomfortable, speak carefully in front of him, small cheap just let him get it, don't lose big because of small, the prime minister's belly can support the boat.

It is inevitable that you will encounter people who are not in harmony with you in life, so calm down. Ignore her presence!

Give up associating with such people.

Just get by, make your own profit or be safe.

If you can't alleviate the conflict after trying to communicate, try to avoid it

First, based on the thing itself.

Is you wrong or is he wrong? Is he misunderstanding you or are you influencing other people's interests? There is always a reason for everything!

If what you do is right, and he can't understand and accept this reckless behavior, you can explain it to him, react to your superiors, and even respond to the human resources department to help you resolve the conflict!

There is often a typical contradiction that is understood and distorted by everyone, for example, you are the controller of the company's principles, at this time the conflict between others and you is often not aimed at you but your position, if you are really wronged, you have to learn to raise him to go against the company's management philosophy, and roast him on the fire, then the unlucky one must be him!

In the workplace, what should you do if you meet someone who is working against you?

2. Gather self-interested influence.

If he is really a scoundrel, you just need to see through and don't have to be filial piety, if you can't get along with the quality of others, then you really can't get along with yourself; What you need to do is get the majority and isolate the minority. That's fine!

In the workplace, what should you do if you meet someone who is working against you?

3. A good attitude is not forbearance, but your attitude towards solving things.

Mindset is the subconscious behind your behavior, and the degree of your temper tantrum can indicate the degree of your lack of emotional intelligence. If you are rational and calm, you can't see the fight in your eyes, and you can't hear right and wrong in your ears, it means that you are a battle-hardened old fritter; If you are angry and impulsive, it only means that you are helpless in the face of strife! (I'm too embarrassed to say incompetent!)

In the workplace, what should you do if you meet someone who is working against you?

4. Warning of personal attacks on you.

If the insult is beyond the scope of the workplace, if it's a personal attack only on you, you can give a positive warning, or you can do what the other respondents say: big mouth, fuck him

People are often embarrassed by themselves, so they must learn to reconcile with themselves. And there are many ways to reconcile with yourself. Such an approach can be chosen.

Just as human beings' search for the truth of the world is divided into the macrocosm and the microcosm, the process of personal growth and cognitive iteration is also divided into seeking the truth inward and seeking true knowledge outward. Only those who seek the truth, accept their own imperfections, and reconcile with themselves can be peaceful and peaceful; Only those who seek true knowledge, refuse to compromise with their own shortcomings, and can't get along with themselves can break the shackles in "raising the bar to find faults" again and again.

Is it reconciliation or a balancing between man and self? This philosophical reflection has traversed the long river of history, stirring up the vortex of thinking, so that people often fall into the dilemma of accepting themselves and questioning themselves, and they are stagnant. Dayou incarnates as a traveler walking in the ** city in Kazuo Ishiguro's "Inconsolation":

Everywhere is foggy and misty, everywhere is known to be blocked, there are lights and lights, and everywhere is ......struggling

We might as well follow in the footsteps of the philosophers to experience a "bar-raising life". Socrates, the leader of the Three Masters of Ancient Greece, once said, "An unexamined life is not worth living."

He practiced this philosophical thought all his life, and was willing to sacrifice his life for the spread of a philosophical way of life. Socrates is unable to live with himself, with his precious life, and he must dedicate his sincere love to philosophy. The saint is like this, and so is the fool, there is a deep question in the episode of the world-famous inspirational movie "Forrest Gump":

How many journeys does a boy have to walk to become a man? "On the road of growth, we must go through the passage of time and the test in the passage. Growing up is a match, and with the answer to one question after another, even ordinary people can live a smooth and wonderful life in a self-raising life.

In front of the face or cavity of time, a great doctor, no matter how deep the pain, the scar will be healed.

Because time is the best healing medicine, it can cure all the pain in the world. In Yu Hua's "Alive", he wrote this sentence: "Nothing is more convincing than time, because time can change everything without notifying us".

Because time allows us to see everything clearly, and we can take everything away, so it's okay to get along with whomever you can't get by, and don't get along with yourself. You must know that in this life, 99% of the troubles are found by yourself.

When a person stubbornly gets into the tip of his horns, life becomes a piece of chicken feathers, and life is condensed into twists. Zhou Guoping once said: "Many pains in life stem from blind competition."

In the hearts of people who are obsessed, it is like hiding a fire, burning themselves all the time. And people live for a lifetime, that is, they don't have trouble with themselves. You must know that the world is like a book, page by page is turned over, people should look forward and turn less historical accounts.

Shakespeare once said, "Look forward, don't look back, as long as you have the courage to face it, look up and you will find that the gloom is only a short rainy season".

Books should be turned backwards, and people should look forward.

Time is the best healing medicine, which can heal all the suffering in the world. So don't get along with yourself, everything is the best arrangement.

Summary. People who can't reconcile with themselves only see themselves who are worse than others, and can't see their own merits. Therefore, it is necessary to first psychologically agree that everyone is different, that everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and that you are no exception.

Find the specialties that you think you are good at and the best way to express yourself, you don't need to compare with others, as long as you think they are specialties, and after finding them, you can strive to make these specialties shine enough to make yourself shine.

Good. There are some ways to kiss and kiss.

1.Find your own sparkle and try to make it shine.

People who can't reconcile with themselves only see themselves who are worse than others, and can't see their own merits. Therefore, it is necessary to first psychologically agree that everyone is different, that everyone has advantages and disadvantages, and that everyone is no exception. Find the specialties that you think you are good at and can best express yourself, you don't need to compare with others, as long as you think they are specialties, and after finding them, you can strive to make these specialties enough to make yourself shine.

2.The vast majority of people need to work hard to get what they want.

3.From comparison to non-comparison, let concentration serve the goal.

Very, very sensible, rational perfectionist.

Being others is because of your perfectionist complex, and being yourself is also because of your perfectionist complex. However, being strict with others is because you are demanding, and being strict with yourself is not only your high requirements, but also a little inferiority? Do you feel like you're not good enough?

And this is not good enough to compare with your perfectionist theory, but with those you think you do well, people you envy or even envy. Are you inferior to them? What can I do to be like them, no, to be better and more glamorous than them and attract everyone's attention?

If you have a self-assertion and a desperate desire to shape your ideal self, you certainly don't want to be obedient in everything. There are some things and opinions that you disagree with, but the appearance of a good girl and your character, mainly your personality, it affects your appearance and your choices, and the appearance of a good girl and your personality force you to accept things and opinions that you do not agree with sometimes?

If your situation is similar to what I said, then the solution: first, look at yourself correctly. Since you calmly look at yourself and others from the perspective of a bystander, then look at yourself more calmly and objectively.

Analyze your strengths, your weaknesses, your strengths, and your weaknesses. After that, instead of making a plan that is as detailed as possible to fit your ability, gradually change what you think is bad and need to be changed. Remember, take it step by step and never rush for quick success.

You have a desperate mindset to succeed, but, too much, it's not good. Second, for the "inconsistencies between the inside and the outside", if you can't express your true views in your heart unimpeded, which actually makes you feel depressed or even aggrieved, then why not change? Let your watch gradually become the same as your inside.

Even if they can't be completely united, at least they can stop being so extreme. Try to express your opinion, try to say what you really think. If you don't want to abandon your image as a good girl, then, try to be as tactful as possible about the ideas you want to express.

Remember, a good girl doesn't mean that there is no self-assertion, it doesn't mean that you obey everything, that's not a good girl, that's just something that can leave a good impression when you meet for the first time, if you've always been just a child who only knows how to be obedient, then after a long time, everyone's impression of you will be, ah, this child is very well-behaved, that's all. No one would have a deeper impression and evaluation of a child who is just, ah, very well-behaved. Far less likable than a smart, well-behaved child.

To put it mildly, the idea that you were supposed to protect what you think is a good girl is a mistake that doesn't fit in with your demanding theory of the perfect idea.

Be yourself, be smart and be yourself.

In the end, actually, there is nothing wrong with reason. What's more, you're not completely rational. Hehe.

I was like this when I was in high school, it may be caused by the pressure of studying, there is a saying, people to observe there is no fugitive, water to clear then there is no fish, the same truth, and then went to college, all the ideas have changed, I think everything is very beautiful, so I summarize a word is "mentality", this key depends on what kind of mood you use to look at things, different moods and mentality will have different results, you might as well hint at yourself every day, everything is good. Over time, the mentality will change for the better.

This is the feeling of a person who has come before...

Because everyone has certain requirements for themselves, and if they don't meet this requirement, they will get angry with themselves, that is, they will "can't get along" with themselves. Sometimes, this kind of difficulty can be like a way to release stress.

I remember when I was in junior high school, there was an exam where I thought I could do well, but I didn't expect my grades to be a little worse than I imagined.

When I got home after being criticized by the teacher, I showed my report card to my mother, but I didn't expect that she didn't scold me, and said that the reward I had promised me would still be given to me.

However, I myself declined the reward, and I promised my mother that I would not go out to play this summer and concentrate on my studies at home.

In fact, I am angry with myself, but because of this anger, I feel that I am slowly feeling comfortable, as if I have an explanation for myself.

Sometimes "can't get along" with yourself, which is also a kind of behavior of seeking attention. This kind of performance is most often seen between couples, and many people "torture" themselves to get each other's attention.

The other party didn't do what he asked, so he lost his temper and didn't eat. This is to let the other party coax themselves, and then they will eat obediently.

Sometimes, I hope that I can have higher requirements for myself and be able to remember this "lesson".

Once, when I was a child, my mother told me to boil water, but I ran outside to play with the gas on, and completely forgot about it. Then, the pot is all boiled dry. Fortunately, my sister came back halfway, otherwise I don't know what would have happened.

My mother didn't hit me, but I hit my left hand 20 times with a ruler. I just want to remember this lesson, because it's not a joke.