I m always faced with people who are prettier than me.

I used to have low self-esteem, but I didn't just envy beautiful people.

I think the reason for girls' low self-esteem may be that their families are poor, and they have low self-esteem in everything they wear and eat.

If you are still very young (before going to university) you should focus on studying, you are not bad, if you are older, you can dress up yourself, it will be beautiful.

Be cheerful and have things you are good at, such as studying, or the ability to do things after work.

You belong to the inferiority complex, everyone has his advantages, since you have no confidence with handsome guys and beauties, just play with ordinary-looking people.

In addition, let me tell you, if you often play with good-looking people, you will become more beautiful yourself, hehe.

Put a poster of your favorite idol in your residence, and see if she can become beautiful every day, it's not nonsense

There is more to divert your attention, beauty can't be eaten, you don't want to be a star, you don't rely on people, you still have to rely on your real strength, capable people, that's inner beauty!

Believe in yourself, everyone has their own strengths, and others can't compare.

Lack of self-confidence! There must be harmony in love, there must be harmony, there must be pleasure, and there must be grace!

Why do you have low self-esteem, you must have a great figure, that is very enviable.

Think about those people with disabilities, those people can still live so chicly, what else can't we think of?

It's not like the saying "When I complain about shoes, I find that some people don't compare their feet".

People are more popular than people.

Just be yourself, you have to believe that you are unique in this world, that you are the best.

Then trouble the landlord on the **, the eyes of the majority of netizens are bright, look at your description and think you are very good, there is no need to feel inferior or anything, people are the same, you will be something others will not, they are also envious of you, the landlord's sister is not humble or arrogant, come on.

I don't know what to say, I have never felt inferior to my appearance, although I am average-looking. It's just that I feel very inferior to rich people.

You say, "I always compare the good in others with my own faults!" For example, why are people's eyes so big, and why are their legs so thin. Whining.. I'm dead of low self-esteem. "Are you fat? Then don't compare yourself to others! ~

Three stages, 6 turns:

1. Give yourself permission to be sad for a while.

Second, find the gap.

Others start early, practice a lot, and have good brains, and the first two can be improved.

3. Six questions for the soul.

1. Is it useful to be in a hurry?

It's useless, it's just going to be stagnant.

2. Is it useful not to write?

It's useless, it's just that the gap is getting bigger and bigger.

3. Can I narrow the gap if I don't write and don't send it, and I hold back my practice?

Maybe, but because there is no atmosphere, it is easy to give up on oneself, and the gap will be even greater.

4. If you find other interests, can you get around the inferiority complex of reading and writing?

Overcoming comparison and inferiority complex is a necessary quality for socialized learning, and we must cultivate ourselves and find a suitable benchmark.

5. Do I want to win over him, or better than myself?

Communicate together, each beautiful one. Not at the top, progress faster.

6. What can I learn from him? Is it possible to co-create value?

Encourage and praise each other.

Compare high and low - the competitive thinking of involution.

Communicate together, each wonderful - open community learning.

It depends on your self-confidence. If you have a lot of self-confidence, then meeting a beautiful woman will not make you feel inferior. However, if your self-confidence is low, then meeting a woman who is more beautiful than you can make you feel inferior.

A better way is to praise yourself more, such as praising your physical characteristics, praising your talents, and changing your low self-esteem thoughts into positive ones. You can also ask your friends or family for advice or support to boost your self-confidence and thus avoid feeling inferior because of a woman who is more beautiful than you.

Of course it will, everyone has a love for beauty.

But don't have to feel inferior, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses.

A person's mentality is very important, as long as you feel that you are the most beautiful, it doesn't matter what others think of you.

It is important to understand that everyone has strengths and weaknesses, in fact, for people who really know how to live, appearance is a very minor element, and only positive thoughts and actions are the most important. As long as we start from the things that we can do or can control, such as reading more books, cultivating our own hobbies, completing our current main tasks well, and constantly affirming ourselves in many aspects, then you will gradually find that you are still very good.

We can't change our appearance, we can only accept it with the right attitude. A person's self-confidence generally comes from his perception of the world and life, rather than his appearance. Learning to actively explore one's own inner activities, objectively and comprehensively looking at others' evaluations of oneself, and paying attention to the similarities and differences between other peers and oneself can help the development of self-understanding.

If they can adjust their psychological state, their appearance will no longer be a burden and trouble, but a kind of self-resource.

What to do because of low self-esteem.

Dress appropriately.

I often hear such words, "There are no ugly people, only people who are negligent in dressing up", and "a person's appearance depends on appearance for three points and seven points depends on dress", although it is an exaggeration, but people can indeed make up for the lack of appearance through some methods. For example, many people look very ordinary, but after putting on makeup, they look like a completely different person, simply put on light makeup, change a hairstyle that suits their body, choose clothes that suit their figure, and properly cover up some of their shortcomings.

Exercise to stay active.

Whether you are beautiful or ugly, you should exercise regularly to keep your body active. If you don't look good, you have to make up for it with spiritual vitality. No man wants to face a lifeless man every day.

First of all, from your description, you think that the girls you have seen are all beautiful, and from this point, I think you are a very recognizable person around you, and you are also a kind person. However, if you think you don't look good, you can analyze your own reasons first, because finding the cause can better solve the problem.

Then, from your description, the friends around you said that you are beautiful, I think this must be the truth, young lady, you should not deny yourself too much, after all, everyone will say the same thing about good-looking people. I think this should be similar to that of my young lady. For example, when the people around me say that I am good-looking, I will also feel this way, I feel that I am not good-looking, and I feel that the people around me are much better looking than me.

At this point, I think the reason why I don't look good is because of low self-esteem, lack of strength, and excessive self-denial. Therefore, I began to learn a series of activities such as makeup, dressing, and reading books to force myself to become good. Therefore, the young lady can also enrich herself through these activities, see more of her own strengths, don't magnify the shortcomings of her body too much, come on!

Finally, from your description, you have come up with this question, you said that you are not particularly unconfident, in this way, I want to say that young lady, you are just a little unconfident, not particularly unconfident. Sometimes, when the people around you say that you are beautiful, it is an affirmation of your appearance, after all, today's society is an era of looking at faces, and few people will say that the people around you are good-looking. Only good-looking people will say it.

This is a normal psychological phenomenon, I feel that I am good-looking, and I feel that others are better than myself, the two points do not conflict, you just need to be yourself.

No, you have to always believe that you are the most beautiful.

Because, everything is your heart and your reality is at fault, what others say, comforting words, are just superficial words, unable to enter your heart and communicate with your inner self. Why bother. No one is perfect.

Why should you have low self-esteem, people who are better than you also have their own shortcomings, but you don't find it. Isn't it, you look at everything out there that is excellent, maybe you have a bad temper, or a quirk (I assume that) and so on, and you don't see it, because you always compare what you see to other people's excellence to your own. So you can't tie the knot, are you not very competitive and competitive, friend.

There's no need to compare yourself to others. If you want to do it, you have to be yourself. There is no need to compare yourself with anyone.

Because everyone has their own character, their own excellent side, and their own deficient side, it just depends on how you treat the deficient side. And you see the lack of self-esteem as inferior. Wrong.

Just think about it, everyone has their own strengths, don't compare your own shortcomings with others' strengths, believe that you are the best, not to mention that no one is perfect.

I see that people who are better than me hate him! But seeing someone who is not as good as me will pity him!

But don't feel inferior! Low self-esteem can lead to a person's failure! What's the big deal, everyone is different! You have your own merits, at least he is not as good as you in that regard.

How do you know he's better than you? Maybe he still envies you and thinks you're better than him?

If you feel that others are excellent, what is the use of low self-esteem, work hard to develop yourself, and keep up with excellent people!

When jealousy and low self-esteem are in place, it shows that his height is within your reach.

Adjust your mindset and deal with it calmly.

Your good points have come out, and when you are sad, you will express the unhappiness in your heart, don't underestimate this, this must always be prepared in society.

To tell you a word:

To be honored, look at authority!

Always pretending to be strong on the outside, but weak on the inside

How can it be, if you are born with poor conditions, you won't live.

1. Your competitive heart is understandable, because everyone has a love for beauty, but it is not appropriate to feel inferior because it is not the first, because there is only one first, if everyone is like you, then there will be countless people with inferiority in the world. The merits of a person are many, and good looks are only one aspect, which does not outperform others, and you can also strive to surpass others in other aspects and create conditions for pride. There will be no sadness of inferiority.

2. Know yourself better through "jealousy". Perhaps, because we have lived in such a family since we were young - our parents always compare ourselves with others, we are very afraid that others are better than us, and we are afraid that we will not be recognized by our parents, so when we are inferior to others in some aspects, we will be jealous. Jealousy, in fact, reflects the desire of your heart, you can see what kind of person you want to be through jealousy.

When you are jealous of someone, you can think about what you are jealous of him, what you are jealous of, that is, what you want to have. You can also summarize whether you are not jealous of more than one person, and when you summarize the characteristics of these people you are jealous of, you will find that they may have a common characteristic, and this trait is also the trait you want to have. Therefore, you will find that your jealousy is not actually related to other people, but you yourself have some shortcomings in your heart, but these shortcomings are reflected in other people, so you will be jealous of them.

Then, don't be afraid, don't rush to get rid of it, just feel it. Then, discover the missing part of yourself, the part of your heart that you desire. The most important thing is that you need to take action, to make up for these shortcomings, to work towards your own aspirations.

When you are acting, when you don't have those missing in your heart, when you get closer and closer to the expected self, jealousy will naturally disappear. It will certainly take a long process, but as long as you believe and persevere, you can definitely do it.

3. We need to learn to treat other people's evaluations correctly, each of us is different, and each of us has our own set of evaluation standards in our hearts. When others meet our evaluation criteria, we will like, recognize, and support each other; When others don't meet our evaluation criteria, we dislike, deny, and doubt each other. On the contrary, when we meet the evaluation criteria of the other party, the other party will recognize us; When we don't meet the other person's evaluation criteria, the other person will deny us.

Therefore, you will find that whether the other party recognizes you or not has little to do with you, but whether you match his evaluation criteria. But we can't control other people's thoughts and behaviors, and we can't meet the criteria of others every time, and we can't meet everyone's criteria.

Hello, you should change your mentality, don't have inferiority, look better than the average person in appearance, there are more things to do in life, don't compare everything, there is no end to the things that are compared, in life, you should pay attention to the inner cultivation, read more, books, enrich your science, knowledge, understand some interpersonal communication, to help the people around, people who need help, so that you can be recognized by the people around you, when you praise you, you will be in a particularly good mood at that time, I wish you a happy life.