Isn t it normal for me to always like men who are much older than me?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-10
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No. This is quite normal. However, if you want to think about the long term, you should think about how much older he is than you?

    Is it appropriate for you to be together in the future. Will his age have an impact on your later life? After all, you like men who are older than you because you compare women.

    There is a certain dependence on him. If it doesn't affect your life. Then you are brave in love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's normal, don't feel embarrassed. In fact, many girls are like this, and they like men who are much older than themselves. Because they feel that such a man is mature, steady, secure, and knows how to deal with people.

    After a certain amount of social experience, it can exude a charming charm!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is a normal thing. In fact, there are many people who think this way, and I am too, and many of my friends are like what you said, mature men will give people a sense of security, and a kind of masculinity, not like the little boys.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, maybe you belong to the little woman type, like to be cared for by others, originally a mature man, will take care of people.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe, you may not have any sense of security, really, it will be more secure to find someone older than yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find a bigger man who will take good care of you, maybe you need too much love

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Go your own way and let others say go, you are yourself, don't let others control you, you are NO1

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, mature men give you a sense of security.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because I feel safe! It's normal.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You may have a paternal complex.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Personal preferences are different, so why put yourself on the scales of the masses?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is because such a woman is very mature, and at the same time can take care of herself, and feels that such a woman is more attractive, so she likes women who are older than herself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A woman older than himself is more able to feel sorry for a man, and he can be considerate of a man, because a woman's mind is more mature.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    On the one hand, it may be that this woman does not look old, she does look very young, and then he is very mature and can take care of this man, and there is also a possibility that the man cannot find a more suitable girl than himself, so he will find an older one.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A woman older than herself knows how to take care of herself.

    Men like women who are older than themselves, their inner sense of dependence is relatively strong, they are more eager to be taken care of and cared for, and they are less willing to play the role of taking care of and caring for others.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because there is an old saying, it is said that a female junior holds gold bricks. It means that women will be helpful to men's careers, of course, this is also a superstition, or choose according to your own preferences.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It may be that some men feel that girls older than themselves are more mature and more in line with their aesthetics.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Summary. Good afternoon, dear! It's normal to like men who are older than you, and there's nothing abnormal about this, because you may feel that some people who are younger than you are the same age can't get a sense of security from them, and the fact is that young men in their twenties are indeed unable to bring security to others, on the contrary, older men, such as men in their thirties, may be more able to bring a sense of security to girls.

    Hope mine is helpful to you, thanks! 

    Good afternoon, dear! It's normal to like men who are older than yourself, and there's nothing abnormal about being as bright as being blind, because you may feel that some young people who are the same age as yourself Jingkong can't get a sense of security from them, and the fact is that young men in their twenties are indeed unable to bring a sense of security to others, on the contrary, they are older than oak, such as men in their thirties, maybe they can bring a sense of security to girls. Hope mine is helpful to you, thanks!

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  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As a guy, I don't think age is the only factor in deciding whether or not to like a girl. In other words, there is a good chance that a guy will like a girl who is older than him.

    First of all, age is not an indication of maturity. Although some girls are older than boys, they may be more mature and stable than boys, with life experience and depth of thought that do not match their age. This kind of worship psychology is also pursued by many boys.

    Secondly, sometimes boys also have a kind of psychology of being taken care of. For example, some girls may be more attentive and caring than boys. This feeling of warmth and softness will make the boy accept the fact that the girl is older than him with peace of mind.

    However, there are also some boys who are hesitant because of the age difference, thinking that Ling Li, a girl of the same age, can understand him better. At this time, the key is whether both parties really like each other, whether they have common values and hobbies.

    In conclusion, I don't think age should be the only factor that limits whether a guy will like a girl older than him. The final choice should be based on personal feelings and understanding of the other half.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My brother is much more powerful than my father, and because my father died early, my brother became my father. So, my brother and father complex are very serious, so I like a mature man who is older than me, but this kind of love is destined to be difficult, what do I get in the end?

    The eldest brother is like a father. When my father left, my brother was already a teenager, and he and his mother rushed to do heavy work such as buying rice and carrying briquettes at home, and it was also his job to take me to kindergarten. My mother supports two children by herself, and she doesn't have time to care about me at all, so my relationship with my brother is deeper than that with my mother, and I rely on him very much.

    My brother is 8 years older than me, and when I went back to my hometown to visit the grave this year, my brother said to me in front of my father's grave: "Dad loves you the most, don't make him feel uneasy, he is almost 30 years old, and it is time to start a family." "I cried with my head down.

    Later, my mother, sister-in-law, and niece all left, and I lost my temper with my brother, "Why do you say that I don't let my father feel at ease?" None of you love Daddy more than I do, and none of you love me more than Daddy! ”

    I was 15 years old when my brother fell in love, and the first time I saw the woman who later became my sister-in-law, I was angry. Although she treats me well and often buys gifts to please me, I just can't get used to seeing my brother care and love her so much. Since then, I have often been angry with my brother, feeling that he has ignored me after he has a sister-in-law.

    I know that I don't make sense, but my brother is not happy when he gets married, and I always involuntarily regard my sister-in-law as an imaginary enemy.

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