After marriage, what should a man do if he is still unwilling to hand over his financial rights?

Rational communication should be carried out with men, and if men are unwilling to hand over financial power, men should be given such freedom.

Then let him share all the expenses of life equally, if you don't pay money, you can't spend money, life is for two people, how can you only let girls spend money, he has to bear at least half of all expenses.

The new civil code law stipulates that in a family, the wife can ask her husband to pay her salary, so you can use this to communicate with your husband.

First: Your boyfriend's reluctance to hand over wealth and power after marriage is not because he doesn't love you.

You can think about it from another angle, if you have dinner with friends before marriage, or even go to play billiards with friends, etc., you can spend money directly. But after marriage, are you willing to hand over the money directly, and you need to ask your wife for money every time you want it in the future? If I don't want to.

Marriage is the best way for two people who love each other to embark on, and two people will support each other and understand each other. Instead of lowering your quality of life after marriage, that's impossible.

If you want fiscal power, you need to consider the following:

1.Your family needs to save money for the birth of a child in the future, because there is a large income expenditure in giving birth, and it is impossible to buy maternal and baby products only by monthly salary, these are not enough.

2.You have a fixed mortgage and need to plan how much you want to pay to the bank each month.

3.Living expenses, such as grocery shopping and cooking, repairing things at home, adding furniture at home, etc., are relatively large expenses.

You can talk to him and save a sum of money each month for future expenses, but you need to set aside enough money for him. Because after all, marriage is a matter of two people, and I believe that this is understandable in the south.

Whether you hand over the financial power or not cannot be used to measure whether a person loves you or not. Don't be deceived by worldly emotional concepts, a man who doesn't give you financial power just doesn't love you. Handing over the financial power is a way to love you, indicating that he trusts you and wants to hand over the fruits of his labor to you, if he doesn't hand it over, maybe he doesn't fully trust you or loves you deep enough, a person loves you in all aspects bit by bit, which you should know in your own heart.

Under normal circumstances, the income of two people after marriage should be put together, and generally the wife is in charge of the financial power, if it is after marriage, each spends its own money, then what is the point of getting married, after all, you are not married, it may be that your boyfriend does not trust you enough.

Love and financial power are two different things, in today's society, only a very small number of people will be completely unconditional and unconditional to love, except for a very few, most people still have to consider the real life, who is more suitable to be in charge of financial power, if two people have a good relationship, in whose hands are the same, it is really not good, then they are in charge of their own.

Why should they give you financial power? I think the fan should be in the wrong position, he is just your boyfriend, not your husband. You're kind of overstepping.

The first thing you know for sure is that you never loved him, you just counted his money. All you have in mind is finances.

Maybe yes, or maybe it's not at ease with you.

It's hard to say that you love him with such thoughts. There is no trust in each other, and we need to continue to run in.

First of all, do you have the ability to manage money, if you have it, you can fight for it, if not, pull it down, usually have you a big spending, he may not be at ease about life.

Normal thing is to divorce the family now.

First of all, you need to ask yourself if you have the ability, if not, it is better to give up the power; In addition, it depends on whether the other party spends money indiscriminately, and if so, it must be handed in. The two of them can discuss the matter.

Then divorce, so like the financial power, find a new one. Let him go with this.。。

Then AA system! In the future, the children will be raised by him.

Not necessarily, just want to be financially independent, if you trust each other, respect and love each other, slowly, he will take the initiative to hand it over to you, don't be too tough, but it will backfire and hurt feelings.

Of course not, you should have a good talk with him, because many men are in charge of the money after marriage, and when the time comes, when the man wants to use the money, the wife will not give it, and they are not willing to hand over the financial power.

It's not that I don't love, I should hope that my finances will be more free after marriage, and I won't marry you if I don't love it.

It's too serious to deal with it, and it's okay if you don't want to hand over the financial power, so it's good for everyone to explain how to share the expenditure in person.

It doesn't have to be love for you, such thoughts are deformed, don't try to control the other person.

Is it love to give the money you earn to the losers?

First of all, it depends on what you are focusing on the hail and locust system, and whether you are married.

Don't think about being in love and take care of every aspect of your family.

In addition, whether you are given all your income and finances also depends on your own ability and consumption.

If you don't have the ability to manage your money, you don't have to spend money in moderation, and no one wants to hand over the management to you, and money is not easy to come by after all.

In a family, the woman does not necessarily have to hold on to the money, she will give it to you if she has the ability, and it is useless to catch Kai friends if she is not capable.

Everyone has to work hard when it's time to spend money, and if you don't make money, even if you catch it, what can you do?

It's best to let things go naturally.

If you want to seize the financial power, you must first hold his heart.