I m not in the same city as my boyfriend, and I m very confused

Alas... You're not tired like this. I had the time to ask him in person.

I'm dizzy. You just ask him what he wants. It's that I've broken up a long time ago. As long as he loves you, he should take time out of his busy schedule to accompany you.

Me too, but I'm a boy, my girlfriend is in another province, we also agreed to meet in a year, in the middle of the contact, but the number of times is getting less and less, but we are all supported by the idea of meeting, we have doubted, have hesitated, but never give up, so, you just stick to it, every other time to send a text message to care about him, it is better to meet more, open a **, talk about your difficulties, if he still can't spare time, it means that even if you love each other, but it is not suitable.

In fact, whether to love or not to love is just a decision you make yourself, there is no absolute true love, but there is an absolute habit, leaving or not leaving is like getting up in the morning to make this decision, is it up or not, my boyfriend has been separated from me for more than half a year, eleven to see him, he has been busy, at first I felt the same as you, I can't stand the cold, I can't stand the contact, I can't stand missing, I'm afraid of losing, but in fact he is really busy, the most afraid of long-distance relationships is loneliness, And it's the loneliness of knowing that there is someone waiting for you, but still being alone. Look at your doubts show how entangled you are, you miss him, but you are afraid that he is very busy, which will make you very tired, I want him to tell him, let your time parallel, you are busy when he is busy, you can rely on each other when he is free, this society is so impetuous, what is needed is to have a heart behind all falsehood and exaggeration, believe in your own feelings, analyze rationally, and believe that you will get your own happiness!

If you don't work in the same city as your boyfriend, you can't be separated, love must insist on being separated for a period of time, and then find a way to develop in a city, and the love will continue to be a happy marriage.

Whether to continue to go on is related to your attitude towards this relationship, if you really give your feelings, how can you be willing to let go easily, the relationship between two people is deep enough, and distance is really not a problem.

How to keep the relationship fresh in a long-distance relationship.

Everyone's fear of long-distance relationships is nothing more than that they can't see each other often because of distance, and they are afraid that the relationship will become weaker and weaker. I think that as long as both parties keep their relationship fresh enough, the two of them will definitely go on until they get married and have children.

So how do you do that? Two people can plan for the future, such as setting a goal, both parties promise to meet every once in a while, no matter how busy they are, they will get married in a few years after their jobs are stable, and they often look forward to their married life when chatting, and the two of them work together for this goal.

Trust each other and don't be suspicious.

Long-distance relationships are sometimes cranky because the other party does not pick up their ** in time and reply to their own messages. Especially girls, who are more delicate and think more. To give each other enough trust, trust is also the basis of feelings, always believe that the hearts of both parties are together.

Long-term long-distance relationships do affect the relationship, if you are planning to get married, then you should discuss the future development of the two of you to see which city is more suitable for the development of two people together.

Whoever has a bad job quits and goes to the other city's city to find a job, is your boyfriend's home in that city?

In a new city, if you're feeling lonely, it's a good idea to get a boyfriend.

1. Building an intimate relationship can help alleviate your loneliness. The presence of a boyfriend will make you feel that you are not fighting alone, that you can have someone to rely on when you are tired, that you can stand by your side without hesitation to support you, and that you will care for you when you are sick. A lot of what one person does becomes two people together, and happiness and happiness are doubled.

2. Having a high-quality relationship can reduce your sense of insecurity and become more confident. You can talk to your boyfriend about the unpleasantness that happens in your life, and he can help you analyze the problem and resolve your troubles. In a relationship, everything in life will become colorful, your boyfriend can explore this new city with you, it will encourage you to face the new environment and new job, you will feel a lot less uneasy, and you can adapt to life more quickly.

3. Improve your sense of accomplishment and happiness. When you are in love, the dopamine level will increase, and you will feel extremely happy. On the one hand, I will be greatly recognized by the other party, and on the other hand, I feel very happy to have the other party.

In the process of receiving love and passing on love, our sense of accomplishment and happiness increases, and loneliness naturally disappears.

4. Improve interpersonal communication skills. Falling in love, because you like someone, he is a key to open your heart, you are not good at communicating, you are not good at talking, you are not talkative, and you are eager to communicate with it. In his presence, you are like two people who were before, and you have endless things to say to him.

It's as if there's a magic that keeps you motivated endlessly. In communicating with him, your interpersonal communication skills have improved significantly.

Finally, I hope that everyone's love comes from love, followed by the need for pants. Good love can help everyone reduce loneliness, it can be icing on the cake, and it can also be a blessing in the snow. Falling in love can help each other become better, and it can also give support and encouragement to each other in difficult times, and a good love will eventually enter the palace of marriage, which can affect a person's life.

You should have a boyfriend, who can better comfort yourself,, and don't feel particularly lonely.

Yes, after having a boyfriend, you can ensure your safety and not make yourself feel so lonely.

If I really like him, I will choose to continue to be together, but do the following:

1. Express your emotions and let the other party know.

Be sure to let the other person feel your emotions, care about her emotions, and share your joys and sorrows with each other every day. When you encounter happy things, you laugh with her, and when you encounter sad things, you cry with her.

Don't think about thinking of a solution to the problem that the other person is facing, and you may not be able to think of a solution every time, all you need to do is to be a listener, no matter what problem you are facing, stand with her, show your preference, your understanding is fine.

2. Be yourself and don't think about binding each other.

Because of your questioning, even if she doesn't do anything out of the ordinary, she will start to consciously process what she says to you because she is afraid that you will think too much, and she can't say it directly. In this way, the more you ask, the more you hide, the more you hide, the more you ask, a vicious circle is formed, and it is difficult to get to the end of such feelings.

3. Be confident in the future and have expectations in your heart.

It is important to understand that every separation is for the next reunion, as long as you work hard, there will be a day when you live together, but before that, you must have your own ideas for the future, you must have a clear goal, and you can't let the other party face aimless waiting.

Try a long-distance relationship first.

1. It's not scary to be in a different place. The remark that you can divide quickly from another place must be the main reason for your fear, but it is actually biased. But the example around me is that most of the couples I know who are together after the college entrance examination are separated, but the only two pairs of long-distance relationships, including me, are not separated, and they are quite comfortable.

Whether the distance can be insisted on or not, in fact, distance is not the decisive factor, but the relationship between the two is. If you don't have enough feelings, getting along in the same city, in the same school, day and night won't help. If the relationship is enough, you will not wonder if the other party will be abducted by a beautiful little girl, because you trust him enough and have enough confidence in his character.

2. Being in a different place actually has some hidden benefits for you. First of all, if you and the other party are in the same city but can't meet each other every day for work (for the student party, it's in the same city but not in the same school), in fact, it may not be as good as being in a different place.

Let's communicate as much as I can, and if the relationship is good, I will always go on with him.

Whether to break up or not depends on the couple's relationship and future plans, it is okay to be separated for a while, but how long will it take to live together again? Or do you hardly live together anymore? Feelings are something that will change over time.

If two people have just graduated and gone to different cities, but they are determined to work in the same city in three or five years, then they can continue to talk, and if not, they may have to think about it.

But having said that, there are not a few people who are separated and end up in love because of distance, and if objective conditions cause obstacles, separation may not be a good choice, and feelings still need to be ...... carefullyA breakup is undoubtedly painful, but it may be a better option in the long run.

If you and your boyfriend are not in the same city, it depends on whether you love him deeply, if you are willing to give up your job in order to be with him, and have familiar friends around you, away from your loving parents, I personally think it is a risk.

Of course, you can also choose to stay in the local area and live in your own familiar area, if the other person has to choose between your parents and him, then he is also a very selfish person, and the person who really loves you will not let you fall into a dilemma.

It's better to let him come to your city and live with him, so that at least you won't have nowhere to go because of a quarrel with him later.

Choosing to live in his city is equivalent to betting everything on the other party, once the other party changes his mind, it is difficult for you to get out of this relationship. So you should still choose to stay in a place that you are familiar with.

If you are not in the same city as your boyfriend, you have to work together so that two people can be in the same city in the future.

Let's take a look at the development for a while. If the relationship is stable, you can consider going to his city, or let him come to my city to develop together.

If you like it, even if it's a long-distance relationship, you're willing to do it because you like it.

See which city he is in, compare it comprehensively, and finally discuss a good solution with him.

I won't choose, especially after getting married, and I find that the distance really can't be too far.

Try a long-distance relationship first, and if you find that your relationship has been hurt, you can choose to go to his city or he to come to your city.

If you can, two people should work together to choose a common city to work hard and create better conditions for themselves and each other.

The two of us will work together to live in the same city in the future and form a happy family together.

It must be how hard it must be to go to the other party's city for development, and it doesn't feel good to be in a different place.

Do your best to go to a city with him, because the feeling of a long-distance relationship is really uncomfortable.