My boyfriend has no money, so I should always help him with numbness

Updated on psychology 2024-04-11
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This is similar to my boyfriend, but my boyfriend's father is just the opposite of a debt collection A loan, my father doesn't know why he suddenly borrowed so much money The more he makes up for it, the bigger the hole, the family becomes very poor, very poor, and there are three brothers in the family who are in his 30s and don't work Leaving my boyfriend and younger brother to take care of the family, my boyfriend's father sometimes pushes him to ask him for money My boyfriend also has his own things to do and ideals, and he will marry a wife in the future, right?I frown every time I watch my boyfriend talk to her dad...Because every time his family pushes him, he asks for money, and my boyfriend is a very hard working person and very filial, after that, right?

    I told him that family is important, but it is necessary to be appropriate, and it is impossible to pay off those debts in the family, and the profits will never be over, and now no one goes to his house to collect debts, because his father is hiding, and I myself don't say a lot of money, but there is a basic mutual help to pay, but I may have a different method than you, I will not give money to the other party, and at the same time, I will accompany the other party to find a solution, to put it mildly, are you sure that you are his future wife?Even if you say that you have paid for it, you have never thought of giving it back!You also have to take care of your quality of life Since your boyfriend has an income But the money may be used by his father I think this problem, your boyfriend has to communicate with his father by himself Otherwise, the money your boyfriend earns can't be saved at all, and you can also communicate with your boyfriend to see how to solve it It's not filial piety to keep the money for the family to use What if the money is squandered?

    Our solution later is to stop giving money to his family, so that you can also maintain your income You can also save money Of course, this also needs your boyfriend's approval to be feasible, in fact, it mainly depends on what your boyfriend thinks and attitude to look at these things, but I think that many things are given and done for a long time There will be a habit, appropriate help I think it's OK But if it's too much, I don't think it's OK, I know you feel sorry for your boyfriend But men still have self-esteem, don't let him feel like charity So His father's part still has to be solved, otherwise he can't have no money all the time, and then you have to keep taking money to your boyfriend, right?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, you said that you spend millions a day, but you should have written it wrong. If you love each other, you should insist, not whether you give money or not, but let him understand that people can spend 500 a day, and they should be able to spend 5 yuan, and men should be mature and strong, and they will be able to get better one day. You should be his spiritual strength.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you want to marry him, help him, because in the future it will be a family. He doesn't give you enough security to make you unsure if this kind of person is worth marrying, so think again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Help him! I can no longer indulge my boyfriend's spicy spicy so that he understands cherishing and giving up,

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This kind of soft man, dumped as soon as possible, will eventually hurt you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. He always asks you for money, and there are two tendencies, the first is to fake money, and money is the appearance of being rich, but there is no money in reality.

    My boyfriend is very rich, but I can't stand it when he asks me to give him money all day long. Why did he do it.

    Are you sure he's rich? Have you seen the assets under your name and the monthly income receipts?

    If the appearance of money has not been confirmed, it has not been verified, and there are many people who have pretended to be rich in these years.

    He always asks you for money, and there are two tendencies, the first is to fake money, and money is the appearance of being rich, but there is no money in reality.

    The second is that you have money, but for some reason, you can't move, for example, you are frozen by your parents and have a falling out with your parents.

    He doesn't have any money to work with, and he doesn't have much income himself.

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  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    My boyfriend is very rich, but I can't stand it when he asks me to give him money all day long. Why did he do it.

    Hello, I am your exclusive counselor and listening therapist. As a full-time **, I can answer your questions wholeheartedly! So far, I have served more than 1,000 people on major psychological counseling platforms, and the counseling time has exceeded 1,000 hours.

    Please give me a little time to type and reply to this question My boyfriend is very rich, but I can't stand it when I ask him to give him money all day long. Why did he do it. In a situation like this, where the boyfriend is very rich, but always asks you for money, this kind of thing is uncomfortable for anyone, and he does it for the following reasons for our reference

    1.The first is that your boyfriend doesn't love you enough, because under normal circumstances, a guy likes a girl very much and will behave generously, especially someone like him who is not short of money. 2.

    It is also possible that although he has money, he is more picky and doesn't want to pay anything. 3.In the end, he wants to test you, if he knows that you know that he is rich, then he wants to test your feelings for him in this way.

    Basically, the above three situations are <>

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. The key to seeing whether a man loves you or not depends on what he does for you. People who really have you in their hearts, even if they don't have money, will want to make you happy.

    Obviously, this boy is not mature enough, and he is too clever to reach out to you for this and that, which is not an element of love in itself, but a kind of dependence. Breaking up is a wise choice. I just want to say that for a boy whose material desires are higher than that of a girl, if the ability conditions are not enough, it can only be a waste of time to reluctantly develop.

    My boyfriend is very rich, but I can't stand it when he asks me to give him money all day long.

    The key to seeing whether a man loves you or not depends on what he does for you. People who really have you in their hearts, even if they don't have money, will want to make you happy. Obviously, this boy is not mature enough, and he is too clever to reach out to you for this and that, which is not an element of love in itself, but a kind of dependence.

    Breaking up is a wise choice. I just want to say that for a boy whose material desires are higher than that of a girl, if the ability conditions are not enough, it can only be a waste of time to reluctantly develop.

    If I don't give him money, he will be disconnected and disappear.

    This kind of person obviously doesn't love you at all.

    He's more interested in your money.

    And he is very rich, and he often shows that he has a company, why do you cry poor to me.

    A poor man who cries in front of you will never love you.

    He always contacted me again when I gave up.

    I said I didn't have any money, and he said okay, okay, he went out to earn money, and promised to buy me a mobile phone bag.

    He doesn't love me, why doesn't he let me go.

    This kind of person is very selfish to be honest.

    Did he buy those things that he said he bought for you? It's just lip service.

    Then why is he showing, he has a company, he is an executive, I don't understand. In the end, it was the other way around and took the money from me.

    Because to find superiority in front of you.

    Find a sense of superiority in front of you to satisfy your confidence, but what, if he is that kind of iron, he will not pull out a dime to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not really true to you. If he really loves you, he will definitely find a way to help you. Even if it's to find someone to borrow money. Such a person is not suitable to be a boyfriend.

    Still be cautious.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What do you want such an unreliable boyfriend to do? Let's break up. You can find a more suitable one.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello, if you or your friends are in need of money, you can consider taking out a loan to relieve stress, and at the same time, you should do what you can and work hard to make money. Now there are many ways to apply for a loan, you can apply for a bank loan through a mortgage, and a more convenient way is to apply for a personal credit loan.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You're right to do it, don't spend any man's money before marriage! Otherwise, it won't be clear in the future!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    That's because you understand that it's not easy for a person to make money, plus you don't know what it will develop into in the future, and you don't want to owe him so much money debt, so as not to be unable to repay it in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You are a good girl, you don't want to owe favors to others, and you can support yourself. You feel sorry for your boyfriend. His money didn't come easily.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because I subconsciously didn't have a future with him, I didn't want to owe him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This can only show that you are a good girl with three positive views and kindness.

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