My boyfriend is very good to me, but I don t love him

I hope the landlord still musters up the courage to explain your true thoughts to him, you can't bear to say it now is actually unfair to him, two people together don't have that heart-to-heart feeling, why bother to be reluctant, you and he are wasting each other's time. Feelings can not be forced, "twisted melon is not sweet", his consideration for you now may as well be said to be a kind of compensation for what he has hurt you, he may feel that the guilt of hurting you drives him to make up for it with his current love, which is also a kind of almost self-deception. So, landlord, maybe you will have a happiness that truly belongs to you.

He may just be a passer-by in your emotional world, since the landlord deeply dislikes him, then show the courage and courage to explain to him, you say that you don't like him in the pile of women, maybe it's just an excuse for you to try to leave him, the real reason is that you don't have that lover-like feeling for him!

Some things barely came. Not to mention love. If it really doesn't belong to you, then learn to give up.

Don't give up an entire grassland for a single piece of grass. There is a lot of truth in what others say. A door shut.

Then there must be a door open for you. Since the person you love doesn't love you, then try to give up. If someone really loves themselves, what's not to do?

Trust that His love touches you too. You'll love him too. Because he is worthy of your love.

I used to naively think that the whole world would never fall in love with anyone else in my life except him. But it wasn't until I was about to part with the one who loved you that I realized that I had already fallen in love with him. There could be many reasons why you can't forget that person.

Maybe I really love him. Maybe people have the mentality that what they can't get is always good. The love for him is long gone, just nostalgia.

When you lose, you know what you really want to cherish. Figure it out. Love also has to be worth loving.

Others say that love doesn't need to be reciprocated. But I think he's wrong. Love needs to be reciprocated.

And it's a 100% return. Because that kind of love comes forever. will also be happy.

It's not just one person who is sad to give. We don't need that kind of love. That's just torturing yourself.

Think about it ...I'm sure you can understand.

You are moved rather than loved, since you don't love him, you have to leave him, otherwise you will fall deeper and deeper, and each other will be hurt, telling him the truth is to be responsible for yourself and sincere to him. But you have to pay attention to the way, it is difficult for the average man to accept being rejected.

Don't let yourself live in repression, release yourself! You can just say to him, I don't love you anymore, and let everyone have a new start!

1.You can be with him, which does not rule out that there will be long-term love, but, I think when making this decision, you must take a comprehensive look at the person's character, there must be no shadow in the past, and the attitude towards life is positive and healthy, because I used to have a boyfriend, who was similar to you, and I didn't like him, and I was confused with him, and then I found out how unwise my decision was (I can imagine it, it is simply unreasonable, and my thinking is different from ordinary people), and then I was very nervous + afraid to break up.

2.Not with him. When making this decision, the landlord must confirm that he is a decisive (not arbitrary) person, he can live a wonderful life, he will not rely on the love of others, and believe that he will meet someone who loves him and admires himself, it is only a matter of time.

You can give each other a chance to love, give him a chance to love you, see if you will like him, if you are sure that he is not your dish in this life, then, it is okay to refuse him euphemistically, say that we are good friends, meet the right person, it is not easy to be true to you, you should cherish it, you miss the opportunity to do it again.

There is a guy who likes me very much, but I don't have a feeling of liking him, what should I do.

He said that the first time he saw me, he was very moved, and his heart beat faster when he talked to me. I usually don't have much contact with him, I don't know him, so I don't feel anything about him, I don't like him, I don't hate it, but I think he probably likes me too much, and I very much hope that I can respond to him, which puts a lot of pressure on me and makes me always feel breathless. But when I think I'm 25 years old this year, I don't know whether to accept him or reject him.

I'm afraid I won't find someone like him who likes me so much and I like it too. What am I going to do?

He is 26 years old, he has never been in a relationship before, and so am I, I have liked me for almost two years, and I didn't know him when I first invited me to dinner, and I didn't agree, probably because of his self-esteem.

After that, there was no news. Later, more than a year later, I found someone and said that he still likes me, I am very moved, and I am ready to try it, but I am the kind of person who is easy to fall in love with over time, and when I think that once I agree to him, I will basically not change in the future, and I always feel a depressed feeling. There shouldn't be any big problems with his character, my personal conditions and him are similar, and the salary is okay, in a first-tier city.

There are no problems with work, buying a house or a car. But my family wants me to go home to work, and I like the environment of my hometown, so it is impossible for him to go to my hometown with me. I don't want to ride a donkey to find a horse, either refuse or accept.

I talked to him once, and he said that I guess it will be difficult for me to find a boy who likes me as much as he does in the future. It's really tangled

If a guy loves you very much but you don't like him, how can you become your boyfriend if you don't like it? Since you don't like it, then you can have two choices: first, quickly explain your thoughts clearly to the boy, don't continue and waste the boy's feelings, otherwise it will only harm others and yourself.

Second, you can think about it seriously, take the guy seriously, find out how good he is, respond accordingly, try to love him, maybe you will fall in love with him.

You can give each other a chance to love, give him a chance to love you, see if you will like him, if you are sure that he is not your dish in this life, then you can politely refuse him, say that we are good friends, meet the right person, it is not easy to be true to you, you should cherish it, you have never had the opportunity.

Follow your heart, if you don't love him, then tell him sincerely, the more time will hurt him, it is better to cut through the mess quickly, tell him earlier, because there is nothing wrong with loving you, I hope he will know as soon as possible and find his happiness as soon as possible.

You have to think about this, you don't like your boyfriend, this is the happiness of your life. If you don't like him. You can leave him, you can get used to it, and if you're sure you don't like him, then you have to leave him.

Don't put your life's happiness on your boyfriend, then you won't be happy.

Like is to like, not to like is not to like, express your own point of view, don't force it, it's your life that is delayed, far-fetched life is not happiness, the emotional world, there is no right or wrong, acceptance and rejection are reasonable, there is no reason to ask others to accept the affection you give, give yourself confidence, and make decisions that don't let yourself regret.

This question is a bit tangled, your boyfriend is good to you, provided that he is your boyfriend, it's normal to be good to you, but I don't understand if you don't like him very much? I don't like him very much, why should I promise to be his girlfriend if I promise to be in love?

If you love, you love well, if you don't love, you just say that you let others be free, why drag it out like this? You want him to be your boyfriend and you don't want him to be nice to you? It's obvious that you don't love him enough, but why go on?

Since you don't love it, make it clear, there's no need to drag others like this!

I don't know what the reason is why you don't like him, I personally think that finding someone who loves you is much stronger than finding someone you love, if there are no big shortcomings, I think you should try to accept it.

If you really can't accept being with him, then separate from him as soon as possible, so that it is good for him and you, you can go and find your own happiness, and you don't have to delay others anymore.

I don't like my boyfriend, but he loves me very much, what should I do? I don't like people. You have to be separated from him right away, because. You can't hurt your boyfriend. very decisively proposed to break up with her.

Love should be mutual, if you really don't like each other, it's better to tell as soon as possible and end the relationship.

I don't like my boyfriend, but she loves me very much, what should I do? In this case, you know you don't like your boyfriend, how do you talk to him about a relationship? If you really can't do it, if you don't like it, then you have to tell him.

If you are looking for a friend, you have to find someone who loves you, because in this way he will be good to you, if you only look for the person you love, he doesn't love you, do you think he will be really good to you.

If you don't like your girlfriend, but she likes you very much and loves you, then you should stop hiding your true thoughts and you confess to her.

Have a good talk with him and let him choose.

I don't know if I still love him, but I can judge it according to whether I am considerate of each other everywhere, see if his eyes are full of love, and whether he has a good relationship with boys.

A girl has a heart for a guy, and she won't abandon him in the most difficult situation for a guy. She will help you when you need it most. Because she is sincere with you, she wants you to live well.

Whenever a boy needs help, she will do her best to help and meet all the boys' requests.

1.You can be considerate of boys everywhere. If a woman can be considerate of you everywhere, then it is obvious that she is sincere with guys.

If a woman is affectionate to a man, then she will be considerate of him everywhere. If a guy is happy, she will be happy too. If a guy is upset, she will follow.

As we all know, when a woman wants to endure her feelings, think about boys everywhere, and serve the happiness of boys, then it shows that she is very attentive to this boy.

2.Looking at the boy's smile is full of love. When a woman falls in love with a man, the way she looks at the man is completely different from the way she looks at others, and women will show strong passion and love for the guy she is interested in.

The eyes are the windows of the soul, and whether a woman is sincere to a boy or not can be seen from the eyes of a woman who likes men. If a woman loves a boy deeply, then her eyes are full of love and hope, and every move of the boy will be remembered by the woman. Conversely, if a woman has no feelings for a boy, she will not look at the man.

3.Basically, there is a good relationship with boys. If a woman has a crush on a guy, then she will basically have a good relationship with you.

No matter how strict your rules are, she won't care and will keep her promise to you. The person who truly loves you will not break her word easily, she is so dedicated and focused on your feelings, even if she doesn't love you one day, she will become your best friend.

You should look at your own reaction, and if the other person feels particularly angry after staying with other friends of the opposite sex, he is still in love with the other person.

You can be separated from your boyfriend for a while, if you miss him very much, it means that you still love him, if you don't have any feelings for him anymore, it means that you don't love him anymore.

You can choose to calm down for a while and think about this before deciding not to be with your boyfriend, otherwise it will be a disservice to both of you.

won't be jealous, won't miss him, he's the same whether he's there or not, maybe it's just not love.