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1. Have a long talk with the other party patiently. Pay attention to the time and place. (It's best to sit down and communicate with each other while walking or finding a western restaurant).
2. Give him his own choice, either to improve, or to give up on you.
3. Give him more encouragement, his current state is only temporary, he can say his hardships, but he can't live such a decadent life. This is not him, and it is not what you and his parents think of him.
4. There are ways and means to slowly transform, in other words, to get back the feeling you once had when you were in love.
5. The worst plan, even if the two parties break up, can you guarantee that there will be no other shortcomings in getting a boyfriend in the future? So improvement is number one.
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Think for yourself, if you can accept him and tolerate him, if you feel that you can only play games, do nothing, achieve nothing, and it is difficult to support your family, then the long pain is better than the short pain.
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Your boyfriend only plays games every day and doesn't want to improve, you should take the initiative to communicate with him and hope that he can change. You must have your own career so that you can continue your relationship.
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I was relieved when I saw my boyfriend, it's okay if it's not my husband, so it's still good to live together before marriage, you can find a lot of problems, you can be like him, don't clean up.
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has no responsibility at all, if he is a rich second generation, it will be another matter.
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Do boys love to play games? Does your boyfriend play games?
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Summary. First of all, we should also express our understanding of the situation of boys playing games, because games, as a place to discover their inner emotions, are actually really popular with boys, and the pleasure they can experience in this process is sometimes not understandable by girls. First of all, we should express our attitude appropriately, and we can show him that our mood is affected by his behavior of playing games.
We feel that we are not valued in his heart, so we feel very bad.
First of all, we should also express our understanding of the situation of boys playing games, because games, as a place to discover their inner emotions, are actually really popular with boys, and the pleasure they can experience in this process is sometimes not understandable by girls. First of all, we should express our attitude appropriately, and we can show him that our mood is affected by his behavior of playing games. We feel that we are not valued in his heart, so we feel very bad.
In fact, you don't necessarily dislike him playing games, you just dislike him ignoring you in the process of playing games. So when you show that he has to play games appropriately and cares about you, I believe that he will be able to further understand your feelings and consider you.
The only way is to dispel all his concerns and make him feel that you are a very attentive person, so that he will not be suspicious anymore.
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Me too. But don't take it to heart, there will inevitably be times when two people get along. If you put up with it and think about it, you'll find that what you're arguing about is actually a small thing.