After five years of getting along, it s still inevitable to break up

It's not so tangled! Do what you think from the bottom of your heart. My opinion is that there are good girls, but the parents will be considerate of you if she really loves you, maybe she also has the hardships of the family, but she easily broke up without fighting, proving that she also yearns for a good material life, and if she reluctantly combines in the future, she will not be happy....If it were me, I would give up....But you have to talk to your parents about work...

It's hard for other people to influence your thoughts, but what you're saying is that she hasn't mentioned your relationship with her to her parents, and she's going on a blind date at the request of her parents and she's going on a blind date, and she's going to break up with you peacefully, which has already been shown to be understandable. She has maintained a relationship with you for so long, and you hardly have to think too much about it in 4 years of college, because you have both thought about breaking up after college, and you have already shown that you have wavered with each other. After entering the society for 1 year, all kinds of life problems and so on, the main thing is material, in fact, women are very vain, and now it is proposed that a peaceful breakup does not exist, and there is no peace in the breakup, because they do not trust each other, is the breakup still peaceful?

Trust includes a lot. This kind of question is not good, you can think about it yourself. As the saying goes:

I'd rather demolish ten temples than a wedding.

The waste collectors are all leading their daughters-in-law together, and the times are different! Not to mention the trend, you can't keep up with it on a rocket!

There are many times more leftover women than leftover men in China!

If it's straight, don't be surprised.

Men, when they have no money, will ask their women not only to look at the present, but to believe in the future; When he has money, he will ask other women to only look at his present and not see the future.

Women, always only look at the future. Whether you are good or bad, rich or not, is not the main factor that determines whether she will be with you or not, the main factor is whether she is willing to take on and accept her own choices.

So, please don't say how realistic a woman is, in fact, she is timid. If I love you, I will be with you, afraid that I will not be able to bear my own choice, and I am afraid that your precious love will deteriorate and rot because of the wrong choice. After marriage, firewood, rice, oil and salt are the most terrible catalysts, which is why parents always want their children to get the best belonging.

It is not just vanity, but a basic guarantee for life, the feelings, responsibilities and obligations of both parties.

Anything can happen in this world.

Sad, unwilling, sad.

Breaking up is a blow to every couple, which is also very uncomfortable, and I believe that every couple does not want to experience this breakup. The experience is that he said he loved you the night before, and he could resolutely break up the next day. I thought we were in a stable relationship and even thought about our future, but all of a sudden it all turned ridiculous.

Suddenly, all the illusions of beauty were shattered. But if you think about it, in fact, if there is anything sudden, you may have already felt from all aspects that he doesn't love you so much, but you have been lying to yourself. The sudden awakening was really sad.

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Don't think about apologizing all the time, if apologizing is useful, then there will be no consequences for breaking up. The other party after the breakup, whether they want to get rid of you now or don't want to ignore you, has nothing to do with you, because you have to know that you are single now. You also need to know that the past is not important, the future is important.

In short, you did what you shouldn't do, so think about why you did it, in addition to emotional impulses, whether there are some of you who actually can't express love. Then you should know the things that you need to supplement yourself with this ability. Don't think that someone will accept you like this, if you think so, then try to give up this relationship and wait for a new relationship, at least the person you want to redeem will not accept you who will not change.

Hello, being able to date for a long time proves that two people still love each other, but the final outcome is separation, indicating that there are still problems between two people that cannot be solved, although the result is very regrettable and sad, but it is still necessary to continue to look forward.