Is it for the sake of the family, or for the sake of oneself?

Marriage should essentially be for yourself, even if your family urges, you will be the one who lives with the woman in the end, don't wronged yourself because of your family's attitude, it will be painful for a lifetime.

I think the first thing to do when you get married is to be happy, if you are going to do it, your family will be worried about being unhappy in the future. Don't get married for the sake of a moment. Marriage is a lifelong affair.

You have to meet someone you like and then decide to get married. Then your family will be happy for you. Maybe it's because your fate hasn't arrived yet, so wait!

Passively waiting for the person you want to appear, or not being able to get out of the shadow of love halfway in front of you, this is not advisable and unnecessary. Marriage is not only a responsibility to the family, but also a responsibility to oneself, and it is of course best if the two can be unified, but getting married for the sake of getting married, or getting married in the future, is a harm to the family and oneself. Therefore, it is still necessary to summarize the lessons of previous love, and also communicate or exchange your own ideas with your family members to strive for your family's understanding.

When necessary, I also take the initiative to participate in some social activities to expand my social communication, and maybe the person I like will meet unexpectedly.

I think it's for myself, the other half is the person who has the most life with me for the rest of my life, my parents want me to get married as soon as possible, I will try my best to find my other half, but I don't give in, I know it's a lot of pressure, but I will stick to this principle, and I also believe that I can get along well with my family if I find one.

I think I get married for myself and for my family. The first thing to do when you get married is to live well on your own. Live a happy life. If you live a good and happy life, your family doesn't have to worry about you, so it's also for your family.

This kind of explanation of your heart and the position of your ex-girlfriend. If you really break up completely, forget about him. Don't compare anything to your ex-girlfriend.

Good in life. Adjust your mindset. There's always one for you.

For their own happiness and family. The elders want you to start a family and start a business, and spread the word of incense. This is also their lifelong expectation.

I don't know if you think it's right, if it's right, give it a bit.

Marriage for the family is also for yourself, marriage to have children can be passed on, but also suitable for their own pursuit of love requirements, both are indispensable, to appropriately reduce the requirements for the other half, cultivate love with each other, you can come together, let yourself feel happy marriage, let parents hold grandchildren, is also a kind of love for parents.

Of course, marriage is for yourself, and it is also for life to have a perfect home and inheritance, but in the end, it is also to find the right person for a lifetime.

Of course, marriage is for your own happiness, if you don't love it, please don't do something irrational, so that you can avoid hurting others, and you can also live a peaceful life.

Marriage is for yourself, marriage and childbirth open the door, children will support you in the future, no structure and no children, who will look at you in the future.

Most of it is indeed for the family. Because there are many examples of compromises. In fact, there are many helplessness in living a life, and there are not many conditions for independent choice.

Marriage is mainly for oneself and for one's family, for oneself to find a good partner for a lifetime, and to inherit the family lineage is the tradition of the Chinese.

For himself and for the family incense to pass on the ancestry.

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Preface: In today's society, you will find that some people marry for the sake of marriage, because they have been urged by their parents for a long time. As a result, when young people meet the right person again, they choose to make do with it, and even more people choose to get married for the sake of getting married.

Since the age of marriage has reached for two people, even if there is no love to speak of, as long as there is a stable family that satisfies the wishes of their parents, young people will consider getting married. As today's young people, you should take into account that there are only two people living in the relationship after all, and if two people are unhappy, it is also a matter of regret after entering married life. <>

In today's society, when young people are looking for a partner, they have been in love for a long time. As a result, the age of the two people will get older and older, and for some such people, parents will be anxious to urge their children to get married as soon as possible, also considering that the age of the children has reached the marriageable age. If you don't get married, it's easy to be left behind, which leads young people to choose to marry in order to obey their parents' arrangements.

At any time, even in the face of the urging of their parents, young people should realize that emotional matters are ultimately a matter of two people. Only the foot knows whether the shoe fits or not, and whether the other party is suitable for him, only he is the one who knows best. Even in the face of the urging of parents, they should not get married early, and it should be considered that the meaning that two people give to marriage is very significant.

In the face of feelings, you should think especially carefully, be responsible for yourself, and at the same time be responsible for the other party. <>

The reason why the divorce rate is getting higher and higher is that most young people have impulsive thoughts about getting married. After getting married, you regret that you want to divorce, and then because of the cooling-off period for divorce, you have to consider continuing to stalemate together. Even after the vast majority of couples get married, because of their children, two people live a life without feelings, and such days are very painful for both people.

Because they are old, so the family wants them to get married, to create a family, to have a child, to reproduce a offspring, they are forced by the pressure of the family, they will have to get married, but I advise you to get married or find a love match, you have to love each other's objects, you go to get married, otherwise the marriage will not be happy in the future, and there will be some contradictions.

Some people will get married because their family members are urging them to get married, and some colleagues and friends around them are married, and they feel that they should get married too! Instead of getting married because of true love! Because the probability of meeting true love is too small!

Because the most unworthy thing is feelings, and feelings often have no responsibility to come to be more real. People marry for the sake of getting married, simply because they have responsibilities and obligations!

Today's young people are financially independent and don't want to bear the burden of marriage, but their parents are persecuting them to get married, and they get married, so there are many sticky people now, just to get married, to cope with their parents.

I think it's because today's parents want their children to get married early, and they hope that they can hold their grandchildren as soon as possible, and children who are urged to marry are easy to get married for the sake of getting married. It is also possible that these people have been hurt by love, and they want to find someone to live their lives with.

Marriage is a testimony of two people's happy feelings, a continuation, a sublimation, and now there are many people who get married just for the sake of getting married, mostly because of the urging of family members and the constant urging of relatives and friends.

Because people's ideologies are very conservative, they all think that it is not okay for a person to live a lifetime, so it is also their choice to get married when they reach the age.

Maybe you just want to get married and complete a stage that should be completed. He may not love you and marry you just to be responsible for you. Rather, it was his family that put a lot of pressure on him, and he had to do it.

Because many people are forced to get married because of the pressure of their parents, they get married for the sake of getting married, not out of their own volition.

Because it's not easy to meet the right person now. Especially men. There are more men than women. Therefore, there are more men who marry for the sake of getting married.

Mainly because this society is too impetuous, and no one has the patience to seriously fall in love.

Because people nowadays have a faster pace of life, they sometimes don't think so much, and when they reach the age when they should get married, they just choose to get married.

Because these people have to get married because of their parents' wishes, in fact, they don't want to get married.

Why do some people now marry just for the sake of getting married? I think they must be eager to get married, because they are older, and they are forced by the pressure of their families, so they want to find a woman to marry.

Nowadays, people are very open-minded, and in a materialistic society, many people get married for the sake of getting married.

They may feel that they are old and must have a family, or they may miss the opportunity to get married in the future.

Why do some people now marry just for the sake of getting married? Some people don't get married for the sake of getting married, marriage means that two people get along, friends come to the top, so they need to get married, and some are.

Because these people feel that marriage is the same as anyone else, and they feel that marriage is just to complete the task, so they will choose to settle.

Because he didn't find a suitable one, and he was getting older, his family began to urge. There is no good way but to get married.

Marriage for the sake of getting married.

Now urging marriage and blind date are very hot topics, and the two acts of urging marriage and blind date are for the same purpose, that is, to get people married as soon as possible. There are many parents who will force their sons or daughters in Gyeongju to go on a blind date, and their son Chang Shu and his daughter can only choose to go on a blind date under the pressure of their parents, and they also hope to find a suitable marriage partner as soon as possible. For these people who are forced by their parents to go on a blind date, blind dates and marriage are both tasks.

Of course, there are also people who are motivated to get married out of their own psychology. For example, in the TV series The ideal life of love, Dai Xixi is a marriage maniac.

What to think about those who marry for the sake of getting married?

I don't think these people are wrong in their choice, because for them, marriage is just a goal, and it doesn't mean anything. And what life will be like after marriage, they should also think about it before making such a decision, if they can't accept the life of marriage for the sake of marriage, then they should not get married for the sake of marriage in the first place. For me personally, I feel that marriage is a contract, a contract to want to spend the rest of my life with another person.

So I personally think that marriage is a very sacred thing, representing one person's identification with another.

Surely a person who marries for the sake of marriage will not be happy?

Many people feel that this kind of person who marries for the sake of getting married, their life after marriage must be unhappy, because the personalities of two people have not gone through a long period of friction, and it is difficult to completely match, but in this world, it is not excluded that things are destined. In many romances, there are also many stories of getting married and then falling in love. I think that although it is a kind of artistic creation, art is all in life, and there must be couples in life who get married first and then get along slowly, and find that the other party is really suitable.

With the continuous development of society, the life of citizens is becoming more and more affluent, but the number of older single men and women is also increasing, but parents hope that their children can get married and start a family as soon as possible, and hope that their children can find a good home, so they often beat ** to urge their children to marry, there are many young people in order to cope with their parents, they will choose to get married as soon as possible, and this behavior is to marry Liang and Yu, and in the end it may be a chicken feather.

Two people need an emotional foundation to get along with each other. If some people get married for the sake of getting married, then the relationship between the two people is definitely not very strong, if once they encounter contradictions in life, it may evolve into conflicts and fights, so now the divorce rate in China is getting higher and higher, it is because two people get along with each other after an oak rolls up, only to find that they are not in harmony with each other, and often worry about some trivial things, so two people feel that living like this is a kind of suffering, and it is better to choose divorce as soon as possible.

Don't get married for the sake of getting married, the reason why parents force their children to get married early, the purpose is to hope that their children can be happy, if young people in order not to let their parents worry about and hastily get married, this will make themselves unhappy, marriage must be based on the premise of love, so you must not have the concept of rushing to get married, you must keep a normal heart, if you don't meet your true love, you would rather choose not to get married.

Marriage is a very sacred thing, many people who get married because of marriage end up living an unhappy life, so before getting married, we must think clearly, not only to face the pressure exerted by the outside world correctly, but also to follow their true inner thoughts, to contact more of the opposite sex, love is impossible to wait, the only thing we need to do is to keep looking, not to let ourselves be confused and lose the goal, let alone to get married for the sake of marriage.