What is the purpose of struggling? How to choose the road of confusion?

In order to live a better life in the future! Hang on! Resist the pressure!

Take the road in front of you in a down-to-earth manner, don't think too much, otherwise you will put too much pressure on yourself.

Establish big goals first, and then set some small goals, and achieve your goals step by step.

A person's life is not dull, and it is necessary to find one's own goal

It's normal to be confused in life. Because of confusion, we can better think about ourselves and the surrounding environment, and have a clearer and firmer direction. This may be a necessary process for human growth and maturity.

Find a piece of paper, list what you want or want to do one by one, and then sort it, determine what you want or want to do the most, and then determine what you should do or do, just do it. Don't look for things that are vague in the distance, but concentrate on what is clear at hand. Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion, so you can't say what work is good and what work is bad.

Many people who make achievements actually start small, work hard, and then succeed. As long as you like a job, and the job is especially suitable for you, and can maximize your strengths, then it is a good job. I'm not much in favor of not getting a job if you can't find it.

Of course, it is good to be able to choose a job while being employed, but it is difficult to choose a job at the same time as the employment situation is relatively severe. In this case, it is not necessarily a good thing to find a job first and then choose a job, in the process you will find that you have accumulated a lot of social experience, accumulated a lot of vocational skills, and now enterprises are more and more interested in experience. So gain experience first, which will also help you find a better job later.

When I graduated, I was not clear about my future plan, and I wasted a valuable opportunity to enter a high-quality company through school recruitment. After working for a year, the two companies had business problems respectively, which made it difficult for them to become a high-quality company. For a while, I blindly studied English and marketing theory on my commute to work every day, and after a few months of studying, I made no substantial progress at all, and I was in a bad mood.

Now I realize that the reason why I haven't made progress is that I don't even know why I want to learn these things. When I found out that the company I wanted to work for was so good, I suddenly felt a lot brighter. The next thing to do is to check the job requirements of the company's target position, improve little by little, and strive to get up early to realize the idea of joining.

No matter how much theory is said about finding the goal, it is not as good as truly experiencing it. After all, "what you get on paper is shallow, and you never know that you have to do it." I hope that people who are still confused can also find their goals and work hard with a sense of direction.

Read more books. Books are the crystallization of wisdom and thought, and they are the most precious treasure of mankind on this planet. As the saying goes:

There is a ** house in the book, there is a thousand Zhongsu in the book, there is Yan Ruyu in the book, and there are many cars and horses in the book. Every book has wisdom in it, as long as you read it carefully, all the confusion in the world will be solved.

Communicate more. The reason why a person will have a sense of confusion in life is because he has encountered confusion in his life, and the knots in his mind cannot be solved, and he is in a state of confusion. At this time, ask the people around you, and you will get a different answer.

Among these answers, there is always one that suits one's own state of mind, and there is always a thorough thinking.

In a different direction. Life is like a play, and every character is different. Even if we can't become generals, there is no way to lead thousands of troops to attack cities and plunder land, so it's good to change our thinking and be a god of food.

The world's thousands of ingredients, in their own hands, transformed into all kinds of delicacies. It is also a kind of success, a different kind of beauty in the world.

Think hard. Thinking is a perception of our life and the world, a kind of internalization. When we feel lost and confused about the direction of our lives, the anxiety and anxiety in our hearts can be imagined.

At this time, we need to think, think about our own life, and think about whether our main direction is realistic and feasible. To find the breakthrough that breaks the silence, only then will the sun shine in front of us, and we will not be blinded by the dark clouds.

Find your starting point. The reality is cruel, but it is by no means immutable, as long as we are patient, find the right angle of our own, make full use of various advantageous resources, and make a combination. Slowly, we will gradually form the conditions to change the current situation, and quantitative changes will eventually form qualitative changes.

Take a step back and open the sky. When we can't climb the peaks of a thousand mountains, try to exit the original walking route and walk around. Although there are many detours and hard work on the bow back road, you can still reach the peak of glory.

We are very confused and at a loss, but as long as we look for our own advantages, one by one, it is 30 in a month, and 365 in a year......My God, what kind of divine presence would this be? So, there's no way to move forward, we can try to take a detour.

The most perfect thing is to be able to combine the ideal with the reality and find a job that you love the most. When there is a difference between the ideal and the reality, in the face of reality, as long as you can get food and clothing, and have a certain income, you can get material enjoyment from it, and proceed from reality to do a job that you do not like the most. Do the work you don't like to do "good enough", and then talk about what ideals to chase.

Gradually realize your ideals, do the work you don't love the most, and work hard in the job you don't love, earn enough money, solve the problem of eating, and then go to do the job you love the most. Ideals and realities can be both. But you have to have a plan, you have to give, you have to be persistent.