Why do you feel that there are many more high quality women than high quality men in the blind date

In today's Chinese society, it is an important way for people to choose a spouse through blind dates to meet some excellent single men and women, but such a process of blind date may be different from the random fate of everyone in daily life. In the process of blind date, they may judge each other's salary, family, and appearance, but there is an impression in the blind date market that there are many more high-quality women than high-quality men, why is this? Let's take a look.

1. Blind date marketNowadays, there are many older men and young women in China, because they can't meet excellent single young men and women in the workplace, they meet more people through blind dates to find their partners. But once you enter the blind date market, you may pay more attention to some more utilitarian standards, such as how the other party looks, how good they look, and what is their height? What about the salary?

Is there a room? is an important criterion for deciding whether to continue.

Second, why there are many more high-quality women than high-quality menWhy in the blind date market, everyone will think that there are many more high-quality women than high-quality men, such a phenomenon should not be consistent with the actual situation, because according to the census data, the number of men is more than that of women, and the reason why it gives people such an impression is that people's evaluation criteria for high-quality men and high-quality women are different. People may have lower standards for judging women's excellence, and the criteria for high-quality men are much higher, because high-quality men must not only have a good education, a good family background, a high salary, but also a house and a car, and a good personality, and for high-quality women, the criteria for judging good character and good looks and good salary are average.

3. Promote equality in the blind date marketPeople have always advocated equality between men and women, in fact, there is gender inequality all the time in daily life, although women will suffer more inequality in daily life, but sometimes women are divided into socially disadvantaged groups. For example, in the blind date market, people invisibly lower the standards of women a lot, and raise the standards of men a lot, which is very detrimental to the conclusion of marriage between the sexes, so it is very necessary to promote the normalization and development of blind dates and promote gender equality.

In today's society, women occupy a large proportion of the market, more and more women are no longer housewives, they have a more independent personality and higher knowledge, so they have higher requirements for their spouses, so there are many high-quality women.

If you want to talk about this question, I feel like I don't agree, why there are more high-quality women than men in the blind date market. If you count the heads, there are more boys than girls, and there must be more high-quality men than women. If you were to say that, I felt like I was going to give you a rebuttal.

The market of free love has never been a fair market, but a winner-takes-all market for the rich and the beautiful. In this highly monopolistic market, it is difficult for ordinary men to achieve their goals through free love, and there are many more high-quality women than high-quality men.

In the blind date market, I feel that there are many high-quality women than inferior men, probably because there are more girls now, fewer boys, and more scumbags.

Nowadays, women have very high requirements for the other half, and in life, all the men who are generally very good already have girlfriends, and there is no need for blind dates.

Because women are very independent nowadays, they know exactly what they want and work hard for it, which is better than most boys.

Because the status of women in our country has improved, and the education level of women has also improved, there are more high-quality women.

Because if the girl's conditions are good enough, the requirements will be very high, and those with similar conditions to themselves often do not like it, and it will be delayed if they pick and choose, while the boy will decide as long as he feels right, and he will not set so many standards.

If you haven't done specific statistics in the blind date market, don't jump to conclusions, there are few high-quality men because they will dare to chase an excellent boy and girl, because it is normal for girls to be not as good as boys, so girls dare to chase boys, but for an excellent girl, there are not many boys willing to chase, which is also because boys are not confident and not good enough.

Now in this society, men and women are equal, so many girls read a lot of books and have a high degree of education, so their requirements for choosing a mate are also relatively high, so you can see a lot of girls in the blind date market, very good but still single.

It's just your feeling, on the platform of belief, there are many high-quality women because their conditions are relatively high, and it is difficult to meet their conditions, so they have been waiting there, or some of them are dragging.

There are more single men than single women, because the national census shows that there are more than 30 million more men than women. However, the judging criteria for high-quality men and high-quality women are different, and high-quality men must have a house, a car, and a deposit

Now in the blind date market, there are more high-quality girls than high-quality boys, because these girls are often more demanding.

Often, high-quality girls are more career-oriented when they first start. There is no time to focus on your own emotional problems. And high-quality girls will have higher requirements for finding a partner. Therefore, there will be more high-quality women than high-quality men in the blind date market.

I think it's just an illusion on your part, maybe in the blind date market, in fact, there are a lot of high-quality men like this.

The main thing is that the girls are getting better and better, and they have a positive and hard-working attitude, which is good, and the boys also have a lot of excellent ones, you can take a closer look.

Because with the development of society, women are becoming more and more powerful, and most of the jobs now do not only rely on men, but also women will become stronger and stronger.

This is just your own feeling, personal feelings, on the blind date market, men and women are uneven, mainly by their own fate, what kind of can you meet?

What does a lot less have to do with you? You can only marry one if you have less, and you can only marry one if you have more, just hurry up and get in touch.

What does it mean to be premium? Can you catch the quality? Only if you are willing to marry him is called high-quality.

What does a lot less have to do with you? You can only marry one if you have less, and you can only marry one if you have more, just hurry up and get in touch. What does it mean to be premium? Can you catch the quality? Only if you are willing to marry him is called high-quality.

What does a lot less have to do with you? You can only marry one if you have less, and you can only marry one if you have more, just hurry up and get in touch. What does it mean to be premium? Can you catch the quality? Only if you are willing to marry him is called high-quality.

What does a lot less have to do with you? You can only marry one if you have less, and you can only marry one if you have more, just hurry up and get in touch. What does it mean to be premium? Can you catch the quality? Only if you are willing to marry him is called high-quality.

What does a lot less have to do with you? You can only marry one if you have less, and you can only marry one if you have more, just hurry up and get in touch. What does it mean to be premium? Can you catch the quality? Only if you are willing to marry him is called high-quality.

What does a lot less have to do with you? You can only marry one if you have less, and you can only marry one if you have more, just hurry up and get in touch. What does it mean to be premium? Can you catch the quality? Only if you are willing to marry him is called high-quality.

What does a lot less have to do with you? You can only marry one if you have less, and you can only marry one if you have more, just hurry up and get in touch. What does it mean to be premium? Can you catch the quality? Only if you are willing to marry him is called high-quality.

What does a lot less have to do with you? You can only marry one if you have less, and you can only marry one if you have more, just hurry up and get in touch. What does it mean to be premium? Can you catch the quality? Only if you are willing to marry him is called high-quality.

What does a lot less have to do with you? You can only marry one if you have less, and you can only marry one if you have more, just hurry up and get in touch. What does it mean to be premium? Can you catch the quality? Only if you are willing to marry him is called high-quality.

What does a lot less have to do with you? You can only marry one if you have less, and you can only marry one if you have more, just hurry up and get in touch. What does it mean to be premium? Can you catch the quality? Only if you are willing to marry him is called high-quality.

What does a lot less have to do with you? You can only marry one if you have less, and you can only marry one if you have more, just hurry up and get in touch. What does it mean to be premium? Can you catch the quality? Only if you are willing to marry him is called high-quality.

What does a lot less have to do with you? You can only marry one if you have less, and you can only marry one if you have more, just hurry up and get in touch. What does it mean to be premium? Can you catch the quality? Only if you are willing to marry him is called high-quality.

Now there are indeed fewer high-quality blind date men than high-quality blind date women, because high-quality men are very sought-after, they are very good in all aspects, and they already have their hearts, but high-quality blind date women, due to the higher mate selection conditions, the average boy is not eligible, so high-quality women will be left.

The reason why there are more high-quality girls than high-quality boys in the blind date market, I personally think that the key is that these high-quality girls themselves, their own conditions are relatively superior, including higher education, higher income, and appearance and appearance are more outstanding, naturally such girls, for mate selection standards are also relatively high, for the other half of the requirements, including career, age, family background, education, appearance, etc., the requirements are relatively high, more comprehensive, Even for the man's character and the degree of care about himself has a lot of requirements, naturally such girls seem to be more high-quality, but it is difficult to find a boy who really satisfies him, or because he is too strict about one or two details, often a good marriage passes by, and for most boys, often hold two people, roughly the same, will choose to be together, get married and start a family, the concept of love naturally leads to the proportion of such high-quality girls is getting higher and higher, And such girls often have a view of love, that is, they would rather be single than compromise their feelings, which not only makes such high-quality girls more and more in the blind date market, but also gets older and older. Therefore, for this part of the high-quality girls, I personally think that we should adjust our own concept of mate selection, and reduce our mate selection standards to a certain extent, so that we can try our best to find our own happiness, after all, for actual life, it should be realistic and rational.

Individual phenomenon, in fact, high-quality boys and girls are almost the same: first of all, we have to clarify what kind of person can be considered a high-quality boy, have a house and a car, knowledgeable, and funny. So how can you be a high-quality girl, financially independent and not dependent on others, have your own opinions, can afford to buy a house, can afford to buy a car, I think such requirements can't be matched.

If both parties are measured by this standard, you will find that, in fact, quality boys and girls are almost the same. Jumping out of the blind date market: If you jump out of the blind date market and stand in a larger environment, you will find that high-quality boys are often either more important than their careers, or they already have girlfriends.

Many boys, unless they have reached a certain age, or want to fall in love, they generally don't go to the blind date market, and most of them are connected by friends or family members. Higher and higher education: The higher and higher the education a person receives, the more independent her self-consciousness will be, so it will be less important for marriage.

In other words, she prefers to get a soul mate of the spiritual contract, and this invisibly increases the difficulty and has not been found. Finally, due to the urging of relatives and friends, the family may go to the blind date market in a hurry.

That's my point above and I hope mine can be helpful to you.

In the blind date market, it is normal for there to be more high-quality women than high-quality men.

In terms of the age of men and women, blind dates mostly talk about the appearance of men and women, men are talented and rich, women are young and beautiful, and they can get by in all aspects, and marriage can be achieved. This reflects a psychological trend that men tend to require women to be young, good-looking, and lower than themselves in terms of education and income, and the psychology of this reaction is that men will not look for someone better than themselves, because they can't hold it, but women can't look down on anything worse than themselves, so a man looks for a b woman, a man looks for a c woman, and a man can't find it, because a woman definitely can't look down on a c man, even if men all over the world die, they can't make do with it, and everyone's social status, education, and three views are too different.

When it comes to the age when you need to go on a blind date, most high-quality women have good education and income, many have houses and cars, not to mention that their own conditions are not bad, and many are better than men, so that men will be quite stressed, because they have lost their self-confidence and absolute advantage in the face of B women and C women, A women have become his competitors, he has to measure in all aspects, where he can beat A women, in the future, if A women make greater progress than themselves, how can he face a man's income is not as good as a woman's, The social status is not as good as that of women, how to balance the psychology, maybe you have to accept the marriage model of the female protagonist and the male protagonist, after all, the female earns more than herself, and the fool makes the female give up her career, and the female is also unwilling, so you can't maximize the interests of the family.

Times are changing.