My boyfriend s dad thinks I m out of town and doesn t like us dating, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-18
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Although you don't live with his father, he will be so affected by his family, and if you are really together, it will be affected in the future! Be prepared! Your business is to challenge the majesty of his father's parents, and he will subconsciously suppress you when he gets married in the future, such as thinking of giving you a dismount!

    Your boyfriend should have a better way to deal with it, he shouldn't quarrel with his family, if he doesn't squeak, it can only be his dad scolding and talking and painting himself, then can he still quarrel? Not squeaking is not only a silent resistance, but also an unshakable determination to persevere! Such a bad father, what is really going to quarrel about, can you afford it?

    Or I don't contact you for two or three weeks, and I am quite depressed at home. When his family sees that he is unhappy, they will be soft-hearted, and most of the fathers are knife-mouthed tofu hearts. You might say: Go, go, go whomever you like! I don't care!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hold on, if your boyfriend is strong-willed, you should be even stronger.

    It's best to ask your boyfriend to take them with you at the right time to do something happy for their second elder.

    Slowly let them accept that your love will be eternal.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The key depends on your boyfriend's determination Boyfriend insists on him, you have to persevere, it's no problem I wish you all the best I want to do it, beauty.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He loves you very much, you love him too, don't give up, sometimes a hug can solve a lot of problems.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Stick to what you hold on! Stand up!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is more than one way, and if you don't want to lose the other party, you can choose to do ideological work for his father, and show your best side to the other party's parents. . .

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Breaking up won't help him, so why not stick to it for the sake of your love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hehe, what do you want me to say, his parents don't want to be happy, will you be happy when you marry?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Dad, as a person who has come over, has experienced more things and met more people than you. He should think that your boyfriend has bad shortcomings, or that your boyfriend is not worthy of you. You can talk to your dad and ask him why he is against it.

    So that you can judge whether to accept your father's opinion or not.

    In addition, every daughter is a little angel from God to the father. I grew up with it in the palm of my hand. Now that you have grown up and have a boyfriend, in the eyes of your father, it is a cabbage that was raised with great difficulty, which makes the pig arch, and you naturally look down on your boyfriend in her heart.

    If it's the second case, you can communicate with your dad well, and create more opportunities for dad to get to know your boyfriend, so that dad understands that your boyfriend is a person worth entrusting for life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Marriage is not just a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families. Every couple in love wants the support of both parents to form a happy family. But there are no absolutes.

    Some marriages will not be blessed by their parents, so we still have to see why our parents do not support them, and what are the specific reasons? If your parents are on the side of loving you, not against them under the guise of loving you. You should also listen to the reasons why your parents are not supportive and communicate more with your parents.

    Sometimes we have to admit that, after all, our parents have traveled more roads than we have ever eaten salt. Parents see things better than we do. Especially for people who are in love, their minds are often hot, and many of the other party's problems will be ignored.

    Only those who have experienced marriage know how difficult it is to change each other. In order to live happily after marriage, it is also important to listen to your parents' opinions. What's more, if you don't have a marriage supported by your parents, your parents' help for you after marriage is also limited. Feel comfortable with each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When a child falls in love, the parents' initial reaction is that they may feel that their child is with someone else, feeling uncomfortable, especially a stranger, and especially a father with a daughter, he will feel that his daughter is mine and should not be taken care of by others, in fact, this idea is also right, too afraid that his daughter will be hurt because men do know men too well, but every boy is different, so the idea still has to be changed.

    In fact, as a child, you must understand your parents more, because they have worked hard to raise you to love you very much, and you are cared for every day, you can also feel the love of your parents, just like when I fell in love with my boyfriend at the beginning, my mother disagreed, but after a period of time, the attitude has indeed changed a lot, you have to take your boyfriend home more to see, help the family do something, because after all, your parents don't know your boyfriend, so let him understand the advantages of your boyfriend, But sometimes you have to tell the truth to your parents, you can't be with your boyfriend, your parents are the best people for you, they will tell you what this man is like, because he is a person who has come over, so the person who sees it is more accurate.

    First of all, you have to understand what your boyfriend's advantages are, for example, his character is better, more capable, that is, he can work hard to make money, you can be your reliance in the future life, and your parents are fancy, generally these are these, because he doesn't want your future life to be bad, or there is no money to spend, that is, try to let your parents understand your boyfriend, what kind of person he is, if your parents feel that he is a person who can be entrusted for life, The parents will also agree that every pair of parents is very attentive to their children, and he hopes that his daughter will be able to live a good life in the future, so that she can be happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Talk to your dad and talk more about the good things in boys.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, you can ask why you don't agree, everything has a reason, and see if there is any misunderstanding, after all, the good cabbage in the house is about to be arched away by the pig, and it is normal to be in a bad mood. Besides, sometimes parents have experienced a lot, and suggestions and opinions can be appropriate. The man can also work harder to prove to the woman's parents that he can give their daughter happiness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You should have a good talk with your dad, and you say I can not have a relationship with him, but you say in a soothing tone, and then after a while you have a boyfriend, and then tell him that you say this boyfriend is not as good as my previous boyfriend. Use the time relationship to slowly communicate with other methods, such as how good this boyfriend is, how good he is, let him accept it slowly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Why does Dad disagree, you must figure it out, and then you can take the next step. In fact, I think parents always want their children to be happy, and your father thinks that you will not be happy when you are with your boyfriend, so your father does not agree. Don't you have a three-inch tongue, it shouldn't be a problem to move your dad.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Talk to your dad from the bottom of your heart, listen to your dad carefully, and then tell her what you feel and think, remember: your dad is your dearest person! I believe that after communication, you should know what to do.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You go and ask your father why he doesn't agree, the average old man will not disagree with his children if he loves his children, or he sees something bad from your boyfriend.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In this case, you have to ask your dad why he doesn't agree with you dating your boyfriend, if he has his own reasons, we should respect him, after all, talking about friends is a fan of the master, and outsiders can see it more clearly.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can ask why you disagree, and then think hard about your dad's opinion.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Think clearly and see clearly before deciding.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I've raised you for more than ten years, and a wild boar came over and arched away with a few sweet words? Have you ever thought about the mood of your old father who has raised you for more than ten years? Unfilial!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Do you like your boyfriend very much? How does your boyfriend treat you?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Why does your dad disagree?

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