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Anonymous users2024-02-08I would like to ask, "How long have you been dating?" ”
Because love is divided into several periods, there is a period of time when it is the same as you said, dull!
A mature and true love must go through four stages, and that is 1Codependent2Counterdependent 3
Independent 4The time required to transition between the interdependent phases is not necessarily and varies from person to person.
The first stage is coexistence.
This is the time of love, and lovers always want to be together no matter when and where.
The second stage is anti-dependency.
When the relationship is stable, at least one of them will want to do what he wants, and then the other party will feel left out.
The third stage is alone.
The fourth stage is symbiosis.
At this time, a new way of getting along has been formed, your other (her) has become your closest person, you support each other together, create your own life together, you will not be tied to each other together, but will grow each other.
However, most people can't get through the second or third stage, and choose the way to break up, which is a pity, many things will be fine as long as you communicate well, don't be too individual, don't think too much, trust each other, so first.
The second and third phases will be shortened. It is not easy to meet and fall in love with your loved one, don't give up easily, two people get together because of fate, know each other because of heart, really cherish this blessing, don't say that breaking up is not for no reason.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Can you be more specific?
I think there is no love, just because everyone has been together after all, so they are reluctant to break up.
Forget it, divide it.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06That's because they're used to each other's presence.
And have you met someone you like more!
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Anonymous users2024-02-05That's the end of fate, sooner or later, it's because the other party knows each other too well, and it doesn't feel interesting, that's why it's like this.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Love has been sublimated into family affection.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03If you are reluctant, don't divide it, and if you divide it, it will be uncomfortable, and it is better to be quiet.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02How to say it is also a lifelong thing, be realistic.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01Summary. Kiss will be happy to answer your <>
After being together for a long time, I want to break up and am reluctant to break up because I still love each other. I love each other in my heart, I usually encounter some contradictions, I want to break up, I will recall that I was very happy with each other, and I am reluctant to break up.
Pay too much, unwilling. In this relationship, I have paid a lot, although sometimes I want to break up, but when I think about my own efforts, I feel very unfair, and I am reluctant to score. People have feelings, it's normal to be reluctant, it's not easy to fall in love, it's even more difficult to be together, you can't divide it, tolerate each other's shortcomings more, maybe there will be different results, cherish this fate, if you really can't stand it, be ruthless, don't hurt and torture each other.
After being together for a long time, why do you want to break up in the lull period?
Kiss will be happy to answer your <>
After being together for a long time, I want to break up and I am reluctant to break up because: I still love each other. I love each other in my heart, I usually encounter some contradictions, I want to break up, I will recall that I was very happy with each other, and I am reluctant to break up.
Pay too carefully and rent too much, unwillingly. In this relationship, I have paid a lot, although sometimes I want to break up, but when I think about my own efforts, I feel very unfair, and I am reluctant to score. People have feelings, it's normal to be reluctant, it's not easy to fall in love, it's even more difficult to be in rough trouble, you can't divide it, tolerate each other's shortcomings, maybe there will be different results, cherish this fate, if you really can't stand it, be ruthless, don't hurt each other.
Kiss the following is for your expansion [Taipai Shiheng happy]: want to break up and reluctant to share, this is that you have been together for too long, and your heart can not be willing to break up, all this is done because your heart feels that the relationship for a long time, once you break up, you can no longer get it, all the feelings are like this when you break up, but the return key is as the saying goes, you must be messed up, since you have broken up with me, you should let yourself break up decisively, Don't let your feelings hurt in any way.
In fact, the most important thing is what your own heart thinks Your experience is similar to mine, which makes me have to fall into deep thought, this kind of thing is not your responsibility, I think a man should be like a man, take the responsibility, if you are afraid of taking such responsibility, don't touch you, isn't it, now blame you for running away Such a man is not worthy of forgiveness But there is no perfect person in the world Who doesn't make mistakes It's good to know that mistakes can be corrected Fortunately, in the end, he woke up and may feel regret or feel that there is still a place for you in his heart It's right that you don't take ** Give him a lesson A man just doesn't let him be too spoiled It is to let him know that some things require courage and responsibility to face Put your hand in your heart Ask yourself if you are willing If you really can't let go, you can give yourself and him a chance But colleagues must also learn to protect themselves Don't let yourself get hurt easily You also have to think clearly After all, some things don't go back if you say don't Say don't break up Then simply Are you sure that's the one you want No matter what, I hope you do well Be brave, it's not a big deal, I've experienced it, just take it as a grind of growth, come on.
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At this time, you should be firm in your ideals and beliefs, and then set a direction and goal for yourself, and continue to work hard in your own direction, and don't think about those things that confuse you.
I've encountered it, my ex made me want to give up, but sometimes I was reluctant, I think it's better to give up, because since you already have this idea, it proves that this person is no longer worth your nostalgia.
Hehe, you don't care about the score, I hope it can help you. What you like and what you do is everyone's own right, love does not distinguish between rich and poor, what two want together is affection, not money, money is indeed important but not omnipotent, ordinary is beautiful, nothing is more important than freedom. Everyone comes to this world with nothing, but they take too much with them, cherish it.