I m always thinking too much, I m so tired. What to do?? help me 50

Yes, it does prove that you care too much about her.

But to love her, you have to believe in her.

I broke up with my boyfriend because he thought too much, no matter a little, he felt that I didn't like him anymore, wanted to break up with him, he didn't believe me, he wanted to live with me, but he didn't believe that I would live with him.

With such contradictions, he is sometimes very good to me, but sometimes too unreasonable.

It just makes me want to run away too.

He said he often dreamed that I would turn away and wake up in the middle of the night.

Really, actually, you have to be confident.

I loved him too, but his crankiness bothered me a lot, so despite the love, we separated.

You say you love her, then you should calm down, believe that she also loves you, don't always think about it.

Blind thinking is baseless.

If you have doubts or worries, you can tell her that it doesn't make any sense for a person to think about it here.

In the end, it will only make this relationship flawed.

Do you know it, the most taboo thing about long-distance relationships is to think or suspect each other. When you miss her, believe she thinks about you too. That's fine. It's okay, she loves you too! It's good to be confident.

Try to do something you enjoy to distract yourself!

It's the same with one of my girlfriends. You must be worried about something, tell her, share it together.

I just want to do what I should do today, and it's OK when it's done, and sometimes I think too much and it's useless to waste and forget all the energy and things that should be used, and the gains outweigh the losses.

It is very common for girls to be overly sensitive in relationships, but if they are overly sensitive, it can have unnecessary negative effects on the relationship. If your boyfriend feels that you are overly sensitive and feel tired, here are a few things you can consider to improve the situation:

1.Boost your self-confidence. If you are overly sensitive, it may be because you lack confidence in yourself and trust in romantic relationships. It is recommended that you do more self-improvement things to enhance your self-confidence and make yourself more calm and confident in your relationship.

2.Relax your mind. In a relationship, don't pay too much attention to small things, and don't over-interpret the other person's words and deeds. If you care too much about everything, it can put a lot of stress on the relationship and make your boyfriend feel tired.

3.Communicate well. If you have questions or are not satisfied with something, you can communicate with your boyfriend appropriately, but pay attention to the manner and tone. Don't let your emotions control the process of communication, and try to communicate with your boyfriend with a calm mind.

4.Learn to control your emotions. In a relationship, don't let your emotions get out of control, learn to control your emotions. If you are too emotional or negative, it will make your boyfriend feel very tired and may even lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

In short, it is a common phenomenon for girls to be overly sensitive in their relationships, but if they are overly sensitive, it will have a great negative impact on the relationship. It is recommended that you enhance your self-confidence, relax your mind, communicate well, learn to control your emotions, and face your relationship with a more calm and confident attitude, so that your boyfriend feels more relaxed and happy.

Then don't think, if you can't control it, then work hard, do the housework, get busy and find some entertainment to pass the time.

In fact, I already know the reason why I am too tired to live, so there is no need to think too much, just find a way to solve things when I encounter them.

Actually, everyone can't be affirmed by everyone, it doesn't matter, in fact, it's not a close friend's words, say what's wrong with us, some people answer that they love gossip. In fact, sometimes you suffer from gains and losses, not only yourself is tired, but others are also tired.

Another reason why a person thinks too much is that he is too idle, try to cultivate an interest in himself, or concentrate on his studies or work, a person really concentrates on one thing, and you care about other things.

A person, whether male or female, must first have self-confidence, and self-confident people are the most beautiful. Some things are more downplayed, what do others do about us, everyone has their own life, we can add color, but we can't control it, our own life is the same for others.

Isn't it good to eat, drink, play, and learn, isn't that good......

I'm the same as you, I also have a lot of troubles, I always love to think more, sometimes tired liver pain, I always comfort myself and don't think about it, but after a while, I remembered it, this has been a long time, but I know that everything will pass, I don't believe that I can't get over this hurdle, we can't interfere with ourselves for some things, good luck to you.

There are no perfect people and things in the world. Life is not perfect. Please don't think too much about it, just let it be.

Life is full of troubles in the world, there is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life. Time can't stand still, so there's no need to be sad. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past.

Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed.

After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

Many times we don't live for ourselves, we always care about something that is not worthwhile, forgetting the true meaning of our life, which is ourselves, living our true self, don't care what others think, as long as we think it is right and worthwhile, we do it. Just live your life.

Nowadays, many young people are like this, in fact, this is a selfish performance. If you care too much about other people's eyes and your own reputation, you will be easily sensitive, and you will think wildly. How to adjust, I suggest that you read more books, improve yourself, and you will also make your mind broader, and you will understand that sometimes, in fact, there is not so much trouble for you to think more.

Judging by what you say, you are really an extraordinary person, and if you really answer others as you say.

If you always care about what others think, then I can tell you that only virtuous people will be like you, and the only difference between virtuous people and you is that the only difference between you and virtuous people is that they will use the poor to be good for themselves, and the good will help the world to ignore these unfavorable information. Setting ambitions and ideals can eliminate all your worries now!

Every time you speak, you have to think about the consequences of doing things, and if you do, then don't worry about what others say, can you still turn back time?

It's hypocritical, but it's a pity that that's the principle by which you do things. If one day you can master such a principle of doing things, you will not hate this feeling......

Do what you have to do, and it's only tiring to think about it so much. Why are you so tired? Be yourself and live in the moment.

Go with the flow, be true to yourself, don't take into account what others think, you are the most authentic.

Don't care too much about other people's thoughts, opinions, sayings, and live for yourself!

You've been experiencing things that you remember lately, or you've been experiencing too many things, beware of depression.

Exercise more and find something to enjoy.

Hello! To be honest, I used to be like you for a long time, always caring about other people's opinions, and turning a blind eye to other people's words would make me struggle for a long time; When you are in love, you always care about what others think, and you always think about what others will say in public, and you don't dare to do that; I feel like I can't be happy most of the time and feel tired.

I fell out of love for a while, and I felt more frustrated, I felt that I should enrich myself, so blank myself always made me unable to understand some things, and I was always idle before I would let myself have more time to think about those memories, so I watched a lot of movies with deep meanings, read a lot of thoughtful books, and often thought about myself, establish my own thoughts and opinions, on the one hand, I don't let my brain have space to think about other boring things every day, and on the other hand, I make my mind more mature. Be able to look at some issues rationally.

This is what I have experienced, and it is actually the same thing to give you my perspective through the experience of falling out of love. Why do you keep worrying? Low self-esteem, the brain has too much time to think about these things, and it is not able to look at things more maturely.

I hope you can read more of the better thought-provoking books, recommend "The Road Less Traveled: The Journey of Mental Maturity", "Tear Down the Walls in the Mind", read more good poems, make people suddenly enlightened, give yourself more thoughts, and one point, that is, you have to learn knowledge every day, or your course or your work, gradually your heart is stronger, and you look at things more maturely, and naturally many things that were valued before now seem insignificant.

Caring about what others think of you says a few things:

1.You are not confident in yourself in many ways. But he has a strong sense of self-esteem and is very competitive.

2.You don't have a lot of experience of being successful and being recognized.

3.You yourself have a habit of judging others internally.

In fact, in the end, it is this theme, the question of mentality.

The first thing is to understand what you are living for. Is it to show others and make others agree? I don't think it's all, it's more important to live a satisfying life.

Redefine success and the rhythm of your own life.

Don't think too much of yourself.

Caused by oneself, one is not confident, and the other is vain. You change your workplace! Readjust your mindset, travel light, and live physically and mentally.

It seems that you don't know how to accept it, I used to be similar to you, and then I read a book, and it really changed for me, and I thought about things according to good ideas, and it got better and better. "Meet Your Future Self" is good to see.

This shows that you are an emotional person, usually this kind of person will care about what others think, in fact, sometimes you don't have to think too much, you think too much, it may be something that others don't care about at all, so living is very tiring, tired in the heart, I am also a sentimental person, I like to do things emotionally, but since I have suffered some losses, I have changed a lot, I have my own ideas, I don't care too much about other people's opinions.

Have an opinion, don't be swayed, you are you, he is him, everyone lives in a different way.

Don't live for others, it will be tiring, live for yourself.

There are right and wrong people's opinions, and insisting on what they are right is called living with individuality.

People who don't have personality will not be valued by others.

You are miserable, and you call me the young master microdisk.

Go your own way and let others say go!

1. It is fundamental to eliminate confusion and irritability, relieve psychological pressure, establish a life path, establish good living habits and a nuclear attitude towards life.

2. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easy to be a man, don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.

3. Maintain inner peace, so that you can feel relaxed and content, indifferent to the name and profit, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.

4. Be kind to yourself, so that you can feel lighter and accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.

5. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life.

6. In the process of life change, it is inevitable that you will encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of another village in front of you, which requires you to discover and create the beauty of life and learn to enjoy life.