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Maybe it's because when you reach a certain age, your family arranges a blind date and urges you to get married, so you get married casually, and the two of you may not have met a few times, and you don't have any emotional foundation, but your family thinks it's appropriate, and you don't really oppose it, so it's decided.
But I don't agree with this view of love and marriage, in my opinion, in today's society, no one has to rely on others to support, as long as they are willing to work hard, they can also live a wonderful life, so the premise of two people to be together must be two people live happier than one person, more interesting and happier.
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Love is like fireworks, which can only be beautiful for a moment, but the days have to flow for a long time and warm a lifetime. Our whole lives need to get together in a warm home to keep each other warm. The most important thing in the family is a down-to-earth, reliable and indestructible family relationship.
And most marriages are the most suitable for working together in reality and working together for a lifetime. Love is too ideal and perfect, not suitable for starting a family. As long as two people who are not tired of each other, even if there is no love, they still have to form a warm and comfortable home, nest in the sofa and watch TV, or enjoy the flowers on their balcony, or eat together with their children at the dining table.
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There is no love to form a family, this is the tradition left by the history of the Chinese nation, there are too many marriages without love, such as the parents arranged to marry for marriage, which is a precedent for starting a family without love, and now there are marriages without love, most of them are formed in order to rely on each other and form a family.
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If there is no love, there must be other conditions to get married. First of all, there can be no difference in habits. And then when you really quarrel, or think that he is not so good to you, you can also feel in your heart that I don't love him much anyway, and I won't be sad.
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Generally speaking, a marriage without affection is not long-lasting, although it can be cultivated slowly, it will not last. The major events in marriage and life should still be considered, and the impulse of the moment will leave regrets. A safe haven for the two of them, the continuation of love, may everyone have a happy home!!
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If you don't have love, you want to form a family, probably just to want to rely on each other in the future and live together.
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There is no love bar to form a family, so as long as two people are not disgusted, the relationship can be slowly cultivated.
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Without love, to form a family is to pass on the lineage.
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In many cases, it is not only love that constitutes marriage, although it is generally said that it is necessary to have love to constitute marriage. But there is always helplessness, life is not so smooth sailing, and love in marriage is easy to grind clean. So it's not surprising that there are many such marriages.
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Although there is no love, when you are older, you have to get married even if you have no feelings, otherwise no one will want it when you are old, and even if you are not strong, you must have a home.
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Maybe I think that it is not so tiring to form a family without love, but also to rely on it in the future!
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Because of the age, because it is suitable, because of the family's urging, because there is no money, in short, there will be many reasons to get married, but please cherish it if you choose.
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Because you are tired of running around with each other and need a typhoon shelter, you can be together even if you don't have love, and you will have love after being together for a long time.
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Because there is a kind of karma between each other.
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Most of them are for the sake of being able to rely on them in the future
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Love is just a process, but true love should be experienced in life. Your question shows that the two of you have come together without a relationship, so you feel that there is no love, but as long as you believe in knowing how to live a good life, you will naturally feel love after a long time.
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It may be that the age has arrived, and the family has been urging it. There's no way, just find someone to get by.
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Most marriages are loveless because the other party is the right person to marry, not the person you are in love with.
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If you two don't have feelings, how can you form a family, is it someone in the family who asks you to marry, just find someone to marry.
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What kind of bullshit love is there when you are married, all kinds of pressure is out of breath, how can you be in the mood to talk about love, the shelf life of love can only be when you are not married and the two are together. Limited only to ratios.
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There are many reasons, two people don't hate each other.
Two people are just right.
The two people have a common language.
A common social circle.
A common goal.
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e may be to have something to rely on.
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Customs, don't pay attention to them.
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It's easier to find someone to live with.
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Maybe it's an explanation for adults!
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If you don't form a family, will you always be single?
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Two people will not be happy if they come together without feelings.
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The law stipulates responsibilities, rights, obligations, material and economic matters in family matters, and most people form families based on "love". It's a given.
The reason is very simple:
Law is material and materialisticIf there are material interests, there will be "responsibilities, rights, and obligations".
Family is the combination of love and materiality, and love is the foundation of the family"Love" is "spirit", it is a kind of consciousness. Without love as the foundation, only material marriage and family are not strong.
Therefore, when people form a family, they will attach great importance to the value of "love" and the concept of "love".
In my humble opinion).
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If you want to ask a question, you have to tell it completely.
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There is no love at home, how can there be happiness to talk about, there is love to have warmth, is home.
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Love is important, what is the meaning of not even living love in a person's life. Life is a few short decades. Only a third of the time you can truly know how to love and to fall in love.
You can dedicate your life to your family, but you also have to pursue love, he is part of a good life, don't miss love even if you think about it in your heart! Hehehehehe
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Family Matters! Family is responsibility, although it is very tiring, but you can't give up your responsibility to the family for the sake of your so-called love! Later you will find that the family is wonderful....
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Family is important, and without love you can become a loving family.
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In fact, many people have this kind of thought, but most of the old people get married without love, and then they can live together without separation, because of the long-term love, although the current era is different, but there are still a large number of people who are married without love, and then the marriage has produced love mixed with family affection (of course, it has also led to more divorces now).
I wonder how old you are now? But as soon as you get home, you will think of getting married, which is a common and normal thing, and when you are older, the family will start to worry. Because if the girl is too old, it will be difficult to find a partner in the future (boys are better).
That's why the old people want you to get married sooner.
Suddenly it feels like mine doesn't seem to have a positive problem with you, okay :
If you really think about it personally (that is, the family is not in a hurry and no one urges), it is because a person's life is tired and lonely, and he wants to find someone to compensate, he wants to have a love life, and he wants to form a family by himself to live a life that he has never experienced.
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Marriage is for life. Find a companion to live with and support each other. Legally registering a marriage is to protect both parties to the marriage from entanglement, and there can be a way to adjudicate.
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It's all traditional thinking that is causing trouble, and sometimes it's time to talk to those old people.
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Marriage is mainly to raise the next generation, and then it is the matter of both husband and wife, and reproduction is the key to the survival of any species, and it is right that traditional thinking guides it this way.
Of course, the current situation is that there are many people, you don't need to raise children, and the state doesn't even encourage it, if you can't find a suitable one, just go alone, take it, it's a matter of two people, the risk increases, and the complexity is high.
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Traditional thinking is harmful.
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Because they have been through the vicissitudes of time, they understand the importance of money.
Perhaps, they don't know how to love, they don't know a marriage, and it is possible to be happy only if there is love.
However, they are also right, because without the economy, there can be no happiness in this marriage.
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The deeper you love, the deeper you hate. This classic vulgar plot is not a misanthropic plot. I want to watch TV series about this kind of TV series and see what people do.
To distinguish between love and hate, not all hate is love. They are like hens and eggs, you can say that a hen lays eggs, but you can't say that a hen is an egg. Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose.
Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Giving up what should be given up is helplessness, giving up what should not be given up is inability, not giving up what should be given up is ignorance, not giving up what should not be given up is persistence. Love also needs to be calm.
Human experiences are different, and running-in has become an essential process, and we can only maintain the integrity of love if we are tolerant and peaceful with our lovers.
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But after being together for a long time, for the sake of the child, there is a heart to deal with. Maintaining married life. After all, there are some people who can't say it, but they can't say it, and they will divorce if they say it's divorced.
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Do you have a good relationship, I advise you to think twice about what you do, if you are sincere to this family will not be without love, people have feelings, as long as you really pay the decisive return.
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Yes, there is no home of love.
It's very lonely and painful.
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A family needs love, love is called home, but some things are not perfect, but they can be changed, don't be unhappy, life is short, don't live in unhappiness, be kind to yourself, be happy with yourself, and infect your family to make them happy.
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Home is a home built by men and women together, in today's society, men and women are combined together, they are walking together voluntarily, no one is forced, married to form a family, men and women have to take responsibility for all parties, love is a performance, can be cultivated, both parties must understand each other, home and everything is prosperous.
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A place with love is home, and a shell without love is an empty shell. There are people waiting for you at home, no matter how far you go, you will also run in the direction of home. Because there is love, there is affection. Home is a warm harbor and a home.
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Home is made with love! A home without love is not called a home, it can only be called a nest! A home is a place where a person's life needs and personal needs can be provided. For example, caring, warmth, and even venting. Home is also a place of proof, proof of the person's abilities.
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There is a place where your relatives live to call home, home is a warm harbor for a person, and it doesn't need much space, as long as you think of a person at home to remember yourself, when you come home from work, someone asks you if you are cold and tired! This will make you realize the existence of happiness, the home is very plain, as long as you can see the smiling faces of your relatives every day. It can give you the warmest feeling, no matter how far you go, how long you go, even if it is a foreign country at the ends of the world, you can't get out of the concern for it.
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A home without love may be called home, but it is incomplete, just a place to rest. The necessary condition for being a family is to love and be loved, of course, love is not to take, love is to care for each other, tolerate each other's shortcomings. Use your wisdom, kindness and sincerity to infect this family, and prop up this crumbling and broken home from the ground up.
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A home without love can basically not be called a home, only by loving each other, caring for each other, and caring for each other can it be called a home. But now for some older families, some of them are no longer love, and most of them live together for the sake of children and responsibilities. Some are family affection, not love.
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Home is a kind of home, a harbor where the heart rests, it can give anyone a warm feeling; Home is not only a place where you can sleep and eat, but also a place where people can feel happy and experience the ups and downs. Home, in the dictionary, is an ordinary word, but in real life it is a very important place for everyone. Only when there is a home can there be love, and there is love to have a home, just like the song "I want to have a home, a place that doesn't need much to ......This lyric should be the best interpretation of home.
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A happy family atmosphere is created by all family members. Husband and wife are not in harmony, children are too rebellious will affect the family atmosphere, only husband and wife love each other, mothers teach each other, fathers and sons are filial, this is the real love of the home.
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A home without love is also a home, but there is no warmth in this way. As a family, it is necessary for many people to form a family. Love is not taking, love is caring for each other and tolerating each other's shortcomings. Infect this home with your wisdom, kindness, and sincerity.
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A home without love is better to live with a group of strangers, at least the strangers will feel the warmth after a long time of contact. Home should have love and warmth, home is a harbor of love, and a family should support each other regardless of whether they are rich or poor. Care for each other.
There is love to have affection, family affection is the most precious, if even the most basic love is gone, what is it called.
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Family? It is created by husband and wife, parents, and children. Love? It is also about true love for each other. If there is no love, the family will soon be scattered, and the family will exist in name only.
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