Faced with her husband s betrayal, pain and humiliation

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Are you sure about this? Such a man is the most important thing, women give birth to children for him and take care of the family, which leads to today's figure is out of shape, and people are old and yellow, but they dislike it. This kind of thing can't be too extreme, extreme is not good for anyone, if it were me, I would choose to divorce, but for you, I will not recommend you to divorce, because it is better to demolish ten temples than to break a marriage.

    It is recommended that you have your own financial **, work ability, take care of the children and family in the same way, just ignore his existence with him, and do not need to talk to him too much. You should dress up beautifully, be generous, not showy, and go to work every day to make yourself confident and happy. Make more friends and chat more.

    Do you still want to win back his heart? When he sees a different you, a confident you, and a vibrant you, he will still be moved. He is with others because other people's wives are good.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, you should calmly analyze whether you have the ability to live independently, and if you have a good job or a good career, you can choose to divorce. If you don't have an income, you can only try to get it back, and from your own point of view, you can dress up more, buy some beautiful clothes, be charming, and men like these. If that doesn't work, you can talk to him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A wife is not as good as a concubine, a concubine is not as good as stealing, stealing is better than stealing, this is a classic, no matter how divorced a woman is, she doesn't have to worry about getting married, she either endures or leaves, there is no need to mess with him, after all, no matter how much trouble you make, it is the end of divorce.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In a family, whoever has the financial ability will have the final say, if the financial power is in your hands, everything is easy to say, why dare to betray you, it is because you feel that you are dispensable, so you should be good to yourself first, the flowers that should be spent, clean up yourself neatly, enroll in classes to study, and improve yourself is the most important thing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I still have to think about it, not to mention for the sake of the children, but for the sake of yourself to divorce early, what is there to hesitate about.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Ninja, boy! If you want to make trouble, you can only leave.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Are you sure? Don't think about it casually, maybe it's just a colleague, if you really look at your husband's attitude of admitting mistakes like this, if it's still like this, you have to make your own plans.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let's talk calmly! Talk about not being able to leave! Don't be angry with this person and act irrationally, think more about the child.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Divorce, let him compensate you for your losses, and if you don't agree, go to his unit to report him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is nothing to be sad about, feelings are in a process of growth and change, not a fixed form, and the natural weight is not the same, so some people are happy, some people are unhappy, some feelings are deep, and some feelings are average.

    For your problems, when you are not aware of it, there is a period when each other has suitors, in fact, because your relationship is not mature enough, and there are already some uncertain factors, both of you are not firm in the previous relationship, and there is no tacit understanding and trust, so each of them begins to want to reposition their feelings.

    But this does not mean that there is no affection between you, it can only be said that it is not deep, there are some problems, and when he knows that someone is pursuing you, it actually inspires him to attach importance to your feelings, and when people have a sense of crisis, they will feel the weight of their inner feelings more clearly after losing, so they will be angry, and finally you will experience the beginning of a new relationship, and gradually push to the marriage.

    For such a thing, in fact, many people have experienced, not who betrayed whom, but only two people and this relationship are immature, for now, if you say whether he really loves you, then you need to feel yourself, how you get along now, how is your living state, this is a real feeling, good is good, bad is bad, at the same time you should also correct a concept, love is mutually supportive, not the result of which person unilaterally pays, if you say today is still measured by love or not, It's more meaningful to measure whether your life is healthy and whether there are problems.

    Happiness Bodhi Garden, the guide to happiness lost.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since you chose you and had a big fight with that boy to prove that he likes you, don't be careful, as long as he is usually very good to you, don't worry about the past, cherish it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think he still loves you very much, maybe his pursuit of someone else is really arranged by his family, you should trust him, if he doesn't love you, he won't quarrel with the boy who pursues you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It seems that he is not betraying you, he is trying to take care of your feelings, otherwise he would not have gone to fight. It's over, so let's live well.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Your husband loves you, otherwise they would have separated at that time, and they wouldn't have fought with others, and they might have been pressured to date that girl. Don't get entangled and cherish the happiness you have now.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Did you not get a marriage license? Out of wedlock? This is very bad for you, you should be clear: it is a man with nine flowers, a man is very possessive, if you love him, for the sake of the child to have a father, it is better to get a marriage certificate as soon as possible. Men can't do without restraints.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No matter what happened to your husband before, as long as he loves you and your family now, then it is also appropriate to forgive him, as long as you are doing well now.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You really don't need to be with such a husband, it's best to think about divorce right away.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    He should really love you, maybe he was really forced to do that because of the helplessness of his family. But you still have to see how he treats you in the future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Emotional issues are illogical in a sense.

    Marriage is nothing more than love, sex, and responsibility.

    The way a husband and wife get along is the same as the basic principles of interpersonal relationships: tolerance, understanding, and communication.

    It is recommended that you find out the real cause, and there is no way to close the crack without addressing the root cause.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't pursue the past; Now it's best for two people to live a good life together

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    But I think it's not good for him to behave like this.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If my husband still wants to be home, I still give him a chance, after all, I have children.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Let him pass the past, and he can love you now. Don't think about it too much.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's so depressing, how can men be like this!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The point is that do you love your husband? Your husband sighs for you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In the face of her husband's betrayal, wives must not do these things because of pain.

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