In the face of emotional betrayal, how is true forgiveness?

When the other party betrays, the first thing to do is to be braveLet's face it. The fundamental way for an individual to live happily is not to expect everything and everything he encounters in this life to go well, but that he must learn to reject what he does not accept. In the face of betrayal, some people have no choice but to accept it because they don't have the courage to say "no", but their hearts are particularly tormented, so in the end they can only choose to compromise and comfort themselves, and accept the betrayal of the other party.

Considering the differences, you will understand that you have the courage to say "no" to betrayal. Temporary losses are understandable, and as the betraying party, you have to give yourself a date even if you want to redeem the other party who "does not want to turn back". Otherwise, you have been saving for three or five years, and I am afraid that this is not recovery, but self-inflicted harm, and even incompetent compromise.

Being strong is actually positive energy, and it is an active energy. Those who are not completely defeated by betrayal must have a very large energy and be a positive positive energy. They accept reality instead of fantasizing about "how nice it would be if all this didn't happen."

Don't think about the past, don't think much about the future, just focus on solving the present. Instead of dwelling on "why is this happening", they keep asking themselves "what to do". No one will nervously accept the betrayal of the other party.

If the other person continues to betray and betray repeatedly, if you don't even have the courage to say "no", it must be your own problem.

They don't waste a lot of time and energy emotionally. They only think about how to solve the problem and how to solve the problem is a preferred outcome. Therefore, their thinking will be clearer, unlike many people, when they think about this, they are a mess and distracted.

Because they focus on solving problems, they give themselves a concrete solution and then see what they are lackingThen work hard to improve yourself and equip yourself with problem-solving skillsThat's growth.

True forgiveness is not about forgetting the past, but about remembering the past all the time, but treating it as human nature and trusting the other person completely.

True forgiveness means that you have let go of your betrayal of him and choose to forgive, and you will never mention it to him in the future.

Letting go is true forgiveness. When you feel nothing in your heart, you really forgive him.

What is the best course of action in the face of the "betrayal" of a lover? Are you still thinking about forgiveness?

Would you forgive someone who betrayed you? Undoubtedly, then I will never forgive a person who betrays me, because if he does this kind of thing, then it is unforgivable, even if he has a last resort, then I understand the other party, but it is absolutely impossible to forgive, just like the mirror is broken, then there is still a crack where there is a crack, then there must be a gap in the heart, forgiveness is basically impossible to forgive, if you understand, then it is possible to understand, but forgiveness is impossible.

Unforgivable. If you do this kind of thing, then it is basically a thing that cannot be forgiven, because many times although we will encounter some forced things, but this does not mean that we can forgive the other party, because we have done this kind of thing, then we have done this kind of thing, then it cannot be forgiven for any reason, after all, what we do is to do something, and things have happened, then it is basically unforgivable, because betrayal is the most hateful thing.

Understandable. Of course, there are many times when betrayal is due to some unavoidable reasons, then I can understand the other party, but basically I can't forgive the other party, I believe that anyone who is in some unavoidable reasons, then will do this kind of thing to betray things, but it can't be forgiven, because some things can be forgiven, but betrayal is a thing that can never be forgiven.

From the point of view of a person who betrayed me, then his behavior has made me very cold, so let this kind of behavior appear is an act that can be understood, but can never be forgiven, betrayal can never be seen.

Don't try and force yourself to forgive a man who betrays your travel socks.

Encountering betrayal, demolition is already an established fact, but also a tragic result, if you force yourself to forgive, isn't it unprincipled, right and wrong?

Betrayal can never be truly forgotten, let alone truly let go. The only thing we can do is to make ourselves more and more peaceful and less concerned.

Trying to heal the pain with the emotion of "forgiveness" is obviously not the best way, but it will make you fall into deep self-blame and remorse, why should you be so cruel to yourself who has been betrayed?

Perhaps many people think that "forgiveness" is the highest state of forgetting, but I would like to say that in the face of betrayal, it is impossible to use "forgiveness" to forget. No one can really forget the fact of being hurt.

But whoever wants to forgive the betrayal of the type of Lu is not wide-hearted, but reluctant.

Instead of being a "seemingly saint" who is "fake detached", it is better to face your emotions truthfully and accept the current situation: don't try to forgive, don't try to get rid of it, time has the most wonderful effect on any pain, what about slowing down?

Respecting the principle of emotional dissipation and emotional dilution, and bravely going through these processes at what stage should be experienced is the greatest release for yourself.