Marriage and Family Help Me Save a Home That Is About To Be Broken Where the hell did I fall 20

The upstairs one is not bad.

It's just that the solution to the marriage crisis generally starts with raising one's own awareness, otherwise even if the so-called happy solution to the current crisis, it can only be temporary. In marriage, the more important thing is the communication between two people, as well as the synchronization of thoughts, the synchronization of status, there is a harmonious relationship in it, sometimes deviates from some distance, but it is never off the track of progress, two people must have some common interests. Look for some of your own problems, pay attention to the deep-seated problems, and never just superficial things, otherwise you may become more and more boring.

What is the crisis? Maybe it's also a question I often ask. When this question is asked, it is normal for the self to think of my grievances, how well I have done, and even make great sacrifices, but if I am trapped in this, it is really not conducive to the resolution of the crisis.

If you want to solve this crisis, one of the key things to understand is, can you still have a normal sex life as a couple? The origin of some crises is from this, in fact, many marital crises are caused by this, but they cannot be paid enough attention by the Chinese people. In fact, this is a very important aspect of maintaining the marital relationship, but it is easy to be gradually ignored in the continuation of the marriage.

Of course, this is only one case of a crisis. Perhaps there are other circumstances that are not known. However, it is necessary to pay special attention to management.

The communication between husband and wife is also a very important part, how to communicate, and the timing of communication? This is a big skill, which needs to be constantly accumulated and explored in ordinary life, but it can't be too casual. In reality, many couples seem too casual.

This leads to the other party's reluctance to communicate, and finally the communication is not good and difficult to communicate.

Another is the synchronization of husband and wife, the synchronization of the rhythm of life, the synchronization of the outlook on life, etc., this distance can not be widened, you can imagine, how can two people who are very far apart in these aspects communicate together, how can they have happiness.

Solving your own problems is a very important step, this problem is solved, how to manage the current marriage or start a new relationship, you will be handy.

As for the financial pressure, and the unnecessary house expenses can be dealt with, so as to reduce his pressure. But in my heart, I thought he was inferior from the bottom of his heart and wanted to prove his ability by buying a house for your parents.

In addition, why can't he watch movies and Western food after marriage, maybe the care he wants is these things that can relax his mood.

The relationship with his family may not be very close, but it is better to respect the elderly, and it is better to be polite than not to communicate.

Even if you still can't change the status quo in the end, please don't be discouraged, a man who doesn't know how to cherish you is worth spending your life?

Stumbled. Maybe you're a perfect person, why didn't you talk about your shortcomings?

There are many times when men don't want to be so brilliant on the outside.

All you need is a warm nest.

Ask yourself if he got it.

It's tiring to work outside, but it's even more tiring if you don't get it back home!

As for you, let go of yourself.

Think about what to do to make the other person inseparable from you, this is the key!

For example, when he comes home, he can smell fragrant food.

Never worry about finding the right clothes for the morning.

When you're tired, you can get home and get back in the bathtub to get comfortable.

If you want to keep a man, you have to let him get what he can't get outside.

That way he'll miss home wherever he is!

Home should be a place where you can forget about any worries.

The most important thing is to support yourself, let him know that you will live well without him, and let him know that you will share the pressure with him.

As for both parents, we must always be grateful, after all, without parents there would be no him.

Personally, I think that the true meaning of maintaining love is nothing more than eight words.

Trust, honesty, gratitude, forgiveness!!

Hope it helps you [Listen to your heartbeat--liutuo87 answers for you]

After reading what you wrote, I feel very uncomfortable, why is there no eternal love in the world, there is no unchanging promise to stay together until old age, but there are so many more desolation, helplessness, and separation.

Marriage needs to be carefully managed.

The two of you have too little communication in life, she keeps throwing pebbles into your lake, but she can't make any waves, she tries again and again, but there is no response, so she is more devastated.

Let's just say the latter paragraph, you sit on the sofa and wash the child's. She asks why you sit on the couch at first and continues until she cries later. During this time, it seems that you did not respond in any way.

There is no interaction between the two of you, like two people who are not related to each other. You said that the child's clothes have been taken off, and the water is here, and it is inconvenient to move back and forth, so you can tell her what you want. Are you too lazy to pay attention to her???

She doesn't feel your love and care. All she could feel was indifference.

My wife has ignored me for a long time. I told my wife the night before yesterday that we had to have a good talk. My wife asked me why I used to go, because she gave up on me a few years ago and didn't feel anything for me anymore.

I asked what you wanted to do, and she said she didn't want to do anything, just keep it as she was, and she didn't want to quarrel with me, she just wanted to raise two children.

My wife said how she used to treat me, and now everything seems to be caused by me.

My wife and I met at the beginning of 12 years, and at first we were very happy with each other, but we quickly fell in love. Because I've always been engaged in technical work, I don't talk much on weekdays, and I don't coax girls like many people. I always thought that silent payment was true, and the coaxing of words was just a superficial thing.

There is sweetness and contradiction during love. I don't have much personal experience of feeling lucky, I have been in a long-distance relationship before, and because I haven't lived together, I haven't known how to get along with my girlfriend in real life. Or after there is a conflict, what is the right way to deal with it.

Now that I think about it, I have always been very quietly leaked.

During the relationship, I quarreled several times, and sometimes I thought, maybe the personality difference between the two people is really big, what I think and what she thinks, sometimes not on the same channel. At that time, the wife cried easily, and when the wife was angry, she would drop things. I've tried, whether I ignore her or continue to persuade her, she will not stop until she finishes throwing things and venting her anger.

And I don't understand and don't support the behavior of throwing things. Once, my wife packed up her things and left the house, humming a song when she was packing up. I thought it was all over.

Later, my wife cried very sadly downstairs, and I took my wife back.

At that time, we all knew that the run-in period with each other had not yet passed.

After a few months of noisy honey, my wife suddenly said one day that she was pregnant.

At that time, I had not bought a house, and my net worth was nearly 200,000 yuan, and my original plan was to talk about two or three years later, and I had my savings, so that I could marry a wife in a beautiful way and get started, and it would not be as shabby as it is now. So at that time, I only considered the practical problem and asked my wife if she could not have this child first. My wife cried and told me about it.

I have heard that a word like this has not been said since. Start preparing for your wedding.

Because I live alone in this city, my family is very far away, so the wedding is discussed with my wife.

At the end of 12, we got married.

After getting married, the friction continued, and my wife mentioned divorce several times, saying that if it weren't for the children, she would definitely not marry me at that time.

During a quarrel, my wife also mentioned that she and her ex-boyfriend used to hug and watch TV together.

Quarrel after quarrel, every time I go to coax her first, otherwise, she will cry for more than two hours in a row.