What are the reasons why you can be friends with most people?

Things are gathered by like, and people are grouped. Although this is not entirely true, just like I have a lot of friends, many of them have a different personality from me, and even they have a bad temper with others, but they can get along with me better, because I have a more relaxed personality and can become friends with many people. Learn to be tolerant and considerate, learn to be a person and speak.

People with good popularity are always easy to integrate into a collective, not because they were born with the characteristics of good popularity, but because they know how to find channels to establish connections between people, and discover the common hobbies and values of everyone in the channel, and find people who can resonate with themselves. They will show their personal charm to attract the people around them, and resonate with others, and then gain a popularity.

People with good personnel are wiser. There is a division of friends, not a type of person who does not force himself to be a confidant and friend, only an ordinary friend, and can help. If the difference between the three views is too big, do not make deep friends or do not make friends, and stay away.

Don't be a saint, be a flesh-and-blood person, love and hate clearly, dare to love and hate. Be sincere with your friends, be happy for their happiness, and give each other a sense of security. Treat them as your own people, regardless of gains and losses.

The grace of dripping water is reciprocated by springs. Don't ask others of your own standards for how you behave. Positive energy points, try to bring positive energy to others.

When others have negative energy, accompany them to be sad, make suggestions, and listen to him complain and vent.

Dating is related to whether you are good or not, everyone likes beautiful things, likes things that are beneficial to themselves, from a utilitarian point of view, the better you are, the more you can bring fulfilling benefits to others. Sima Qian once said, "The world is bustling, all for profit, and the world is bustling, all for profit." In school, you study well and can help your friends learn and progress; In society, you have a certain status and can be helped by Zhou Xuan.

Although I don't support this utilitarian view when it comes to making friends, why can't it be a motivation for us to make ourselves better?

If you just want to make some ordinary friends, then you should treat people and things more for others, empathy, see the potential difficulties of others, help others quietly, see people's hearts for a long time, others will naturally see your character, and subconsciously choose to approach you or alienate you.

You have some specialties or hobbies, and you will make some like-minded friends, just like I like to read, I joined the school's reading club, and thus have a beautiful encounter and companionship like poetry; I love to write, so I have made friends with each other through writing, and I have made some friends who also love to write, and some people who like to read have come to me to recommend good books and become friends day by day.

Because of enthusiasm and sincerity. When I communicate with others, whether I am familiar with them or not, I always communicate very sincerely. Let others be willing to talk to me and be willing to tell me what they think.

Be a good listener, and I smile in the mirror every morning when I wake up, find the perfect smile, and keep it for the day. Let everyone see my beautiful smile. That's why my children around me like to talk to me, and naturally there will be more friends.

I think people who can be friends with a lot of people are good-looking. And with a smile on his own, he will be patient and enthusiastic about everything. Be self-conscious, know when to retreat, speak and do things to make people feel comfortable.

Non-aggression. Do not encroach on other people's interests, do not plunder the fruits of other people's labor, and do not touch other people's cheese. It has value in itself.

Interesting personality.

There is a famous saying in the West that there are no eternal friends and no eternal enemies in the world, only eternal interests. People will meet many people in the world, and some people will become partners; Some people become friends; Some people are just passers-by. No matter how friendly a person is, it is impossible to turn all the people he meets into friends; No matter how ignorant a person is, he will not offend everyone, and anyone will have a few good friends.

Even beggars have a few poor friends. For ordinary people, due to the constraints of time and energy, there will only be a few close friends, and more are just acquaintances. Life is inseparable from friendship, but it is not said that the more friends the better.

Maybe the "bosom friend" who used to talk about everything later became his strongest enemy; Maybe that "general friend" helped you at a critical moment. Friendship is the most difficult thing for people to grasp.

'Umar relayed that the Prophet said: "There is indeed a group of people among the servants of the Lord who are not prophets or martyrs, but on the day of resurrection, all the prophets and martyrs envy their position before the Lord." "Everyone asked

Who are these people? The Prophet said: "These are those who are dear to those who are not related by blood or money because of the Word of Allah."

There is light on their faces, on the tower of light: they are not afraid when they are afraid, and they are not worried when they are worried. ”

As the saying goes: "Tigers and leopards are unbearable to ride, and people's hearts are separated from their bellies." "Man is the most terrible creature in the world.

Maybe the person who called you a brother one moment will let the pin council say that you are worthless the next moment. No one could have predicted all this. There is only one strong relationship, and that is like-minded brothers in the Lord's way, who are friends with the merciful Lord.

The Merciful Lord said, "Truly, the merciful Lord's friends, there will be no fear and no worries. ”（10：

62) Wen Ma Stone, Tu Mu Yongfu.

Friends become shared responsibilities, often because they have experienced common difficulties, faced the same challenges, or shared goals and values, and other similar experiences. This experience can lead to a closer understanding and trust in each other, which in turn leads to a deeper friendship.

In the process of facing difficulties or challenges together, friends help each other, support and encourage each other to overcome difficulties and challenges together, this process can not only unite deeper feelings between friends, but also cultivate more tenacious, brave and determined qualities.

Pursuing a common goal or value together can bring friends closer together. The common goals pursued by friends can stimulate each other's positive motivation and entrepreneurial spirit, and achieve a higher value of life, which will also make friends more united, form common values, and form deep friendship bonds.

In summary, the process of sharing between friends can build a true friendship, condense positive emotions and goals in life, and establish a deeper level of mutual trust and connection.

As a child, the reason for becoming friends was simple. Maybe I have a common interest in hobbies, Jun lives in the west of the village, I live in the east of the village, and when I want to play table tennis, I can make an appointment at school from afar. It may also be because of the proximity to home, the ability to talk about everything, and the farm work can often be done together.

Because I know enough, I feel at ease.

1. Along the way in life, I have met many people and made friends. But later, some friends became passers-by, some friends turned against each other, and some friends never saw each other again, which was sad. There is a saying, this time, that time.

No one can stop in the past, and no one can stop for you.

Growing up, I found it especially hard to be friends. The years are changing, people's hearts are changing, and the former "dragging the family to meet each other" is just a later sentence. Your life is very different from his; What you want to talk about is not on the same channel as what he wants to hear.

2. No matter where you go, as long as the other party can leave a warm memory in your heart, so that you can recall it, and still feel that those years were not in vain, it is enough. It's not that they are separated for no reason, but the three views have long been different, and their hearts are gradually estranged, and they slowly withdraw from each other's worlds.

Don't be surprised at the fragility and transience of friendship, when the tide of time dissipates and the stone that symbolizes the truth of adult friendship comes to the surface. The truth of dating for adults is just three words: light, cold, and far. Friends, less is less, more often.

3. When you miss the days when the two of you used to stay together, you should also understand that such two parties are destined to separate, and it is better to let each other go than to force them together to increase their disappointment. Just say goodbye quietly, and go to each other's path before the two have a greater conflict, but leave the friendship at its best.

The reason why friends are friends is because they understand each other and take the initiative with each other. He keeps an eye on your news and is willing to listen patiently to see what can be done for you when you have something. And you, too, always remember each other and keep in touch.

4. In the end, many relationships are all about interests and each other's values, compared with the beginning, there may be less love and sincerity, and more reason and thinking. To this day, the truth is still the same. Under the interests, it is difficult to have true friends, whether we are willing to mature or not, the other party may have matured a long time ago.

Gradually, it disappears, just a symptom.

5. When a person no longer meets your needs, and a person can no longer keep up with your pace, you will consciously or unconsciously abandon him, and at the same time, you may also be abandoned by others. We will eventually become the old people of the mountains and rivers. What is a friend?

People who come together based on similar emotions or common interests. Therefore, it is also possible to drift away due to the divergence of interests and emotions that are no longer there. "Don't drag your friends on the road, look for friends on the road.

Everyone has a personality and a direction in life. If you force yourself to walk with someone, you will lose yourself. As a person who focuses on reading, if he devotes a large part of his energy to managing the world, he will be disturbed by the world and will not be able to be a "bystander of the world".