Aren t most people married to someone they like?

Dreaming of someone you like getting married means that you have realized that he is getting farther and farther away from you and can never belong to you. In fact, you are ready to let him go in your heart. But humans are emotional creatures, and many times, our minds are shocked by memories and cannot obtain rational judgments.

You see the three of you standing on a very narrow staircase, it's dangerous, you know, such a triangle is not safe, you dream that you are wearing a white wedding dress and his girlfriend is wearing pink, it means that you feel that you still love him to this day, white represents purity, he is in your heart. And pink represents sweetness, as you probably know, he is very happy now.

In the second half of the dream, you suddenly return to the dream of your recent situation. It means that you are not very sure about the person around you now, it may be that he loves you very much, but you can't easily accept him because of your previous relationship. In fact, the emotional thing is like this, just like if you are used to eating rice, and suddenly you want to eat pasta every day, you are not used to it.

You need a process to get used to it, you have to tell yourself, give yourself psychological hints, he is no longer with you, he will not take care of you anymore, he is someone else's man. At the same time, you should give more opportunities to the people around you, and don't turn people away from thousands of miles away.

Everyone has a past, but it is painful to live in memories and hope can be lifted up, and life has to move forward.

People who fall in love with others easily, simple!

People who like you like you too.

I don't choose to marry someone I don't like, I only marry someone I love the most.

The person who brought me the happiest in 2022 was my wife.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Each type of person has its own sense of happiness, and this sense of happiness I feel is so bad that filial piety is not connected, just like Mr. Lu Xun said:

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship, and we want to infiltrate each other through this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.

Although many people are more realistic in marriage and relationship, thinking that they can't find someone they like, then they often choose to find a suitable person to marry, but for me, I will not do this.

First of all, if I choose a person I don't like, but I feel that I am suitable for myself to marry, then I will have a sense of guilt in my heart, because I have not really loved each other, but I choose to marry with each other, this practice is very irresponsible to the other party, it is difficult to really bring each other happiness and joy if I don't love each other, this will affect the other party's life, maybe many people think that feelings can be cultivated slowly, but if you live with a person you don't like for a long time, If the relationship is not cultivated as originally envisaged, then it will only waste the precious youth and energy between each other, which is a harm to both parties.

And from another point of view, choosing a person I don't like, but the right person to marry will make my life a sense of frustration, after all, whether a person is happy or not, the key is whether he is successful in his career, whether he can meet a person who really loves each other, if you find a person you don't like, then your emotional life is always imperfect, you can't get happiness and joy in this marriage, and you will have an irreparable regret in your life. Therefore, for a life event such as marriage, we should try our best to find a person we really like, and the other party also likes us to marry, so that we can make each other feel real joy and happiness in the future marriage.

If you meet someone you like very much, I believe that many people will hope that they can be with each other, after all, the other party is the person they like, and being able to be with the person they like is a very happy and happy thing for many people.

But I don't see that not everyone likes each other, and the other person will definitely like him. There are also times when we meet someone who we like very much, but who may not like us. There are even some people around us, although we don't like him, but we know that he is actually very suitable for us, so some people want to know if you will choose a person you don't like, but is very suitable for marriage?

Probably for a small number of people, they don't. Because for them, of course, they hope that they can find someone they like very much, because for them, they think that being able to find someone they like and be with the person they like is the right choice.

But we also see that there are many people, in fact, although they have met someone they like, the other party may not like him. After a few times like this, they slowly found that instead of finding a person they liked, but not getting each other's like, it was better to waste time to find a suitable person for themselves, because if we can find a suitable person, in fact, this can also allow two people to be together and get along well. It is precisely under the good relationship between the two people, which can allow us to be better with each other, and will also allow the two people with a bad reputation to have a happier and better life.

So we see that more and more people now, if they can't find a person they like, then they will also find a suitable person, because the right person will care and love more attentively, we believe that it is under his care that the two of us, more suitable, and eventually let me have a happier and better life.

If the other party is not the person you like, don't get married, lest everyone regret it in the future!

Being able to be with someone you like is a very happy and happy thing for many people. Limb brother.

I have no feeling of hunger and annihilation, and it is impossible for people with no expectations to get close and start a family.

Yes, although everyone wants to be able to tie the knot with the person they like the most and spend a good life together. ......But in real life, it is very difficult to find an ideal partner, and many times we meet people who are in good condition in all aspects, but we don't like him. Whether you can marry such a person or not, different people have different choices.

He believes that this issue should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. Specifically, it includes three aspects: a marriage without feelings is destined to be unhappy, the person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and love at first sight is hard to find. 1. A marriage without feelings is destined to be unhappy.

Therefore, if you don't like the other person, you can't marry them. The most important factor in marriage is the relationship between each other. ......Only a deeply affectionate marriage can have a happy state and truly reap a lifetime of happiness.

If there is a lack of affection between two people, the marriage is destined to be unhappy. And for people you don't like, you will definitely not have feelings for each other, so of course you can't marry such a person. 2. The person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and of course such a person can't marry him.

The state that suits oneself refers to the state that is suitable for one's own conditions in all aspects and meets one's own needs. ......Therefore, the person who suits you must be the person you like, which is the primary condition. ......If he doesn't like that person, he will definitely not be suitable for him, and it is impossible for the two of them to be together, and he will not be able to marry such a person.

3. Love at first sight is hard to come by, so you can't decide everything simply by liking it or not. Love at first sight, although romantic, is an unattainable thing after all, and for most people, this situation is basically unavoidable. ......Therefore, you should have a realistic attitude on the issue of marriage, and you can't just make decisions based on personal feelings, let alone simply use whether you like it or not as a criterion.

You should conduct a comprehensive analysis and make a rational decision in order to truly find the right person for you.

In real life, although most marriages are the result of mutual affection, there are also some marriages that are not based on mutual affection for various reasons. But it doesn't mean that a marriage with two feelings will be happy, and a marriage that is not happy with each other will not be happy, and happiness is relative.

I don't choose to marry someone I don't like. The first is because there is no emotional foundation. In the eyes of many people, the premise of marriage is to choose a person you like, if you marry someone you don't like, there is no emotional foundation; Second, it is prone to contradictions.

Although it is normal for there to be some conflicts between husband and wife in marriage, a marriage with an emotional foundation is definitely less than a marriage without an emotional foundation, so it is best not to marry someone you don't like; Finally, marriages are prone to breakdown. If a person can marry someone he likes, his marriage is relatively stable, and if he marries someone he doesn't like, the possibility of marriage breakdown is very high.

1. There is no emotional foundation.

Marriage needs an emotional foundation, for everyone, marriage is not a child's play, it needs to be taken seriously, so marrying someone you don't like is completely unemotional, and such a marriage is very unstable.

Second, it is easy to produce contradictions.

If you can marry someone you like, once there is a conflict in your life, it will be resolved quickly, but if you marry someone you don't like, not only is it easy to have a conflict, but once the contradiction arises, it is also difficult to resolve, which is a great hidden danger for marriage.

3. Marriages are prone to breakdown.

Although it is said that marriage is not necessarily perfect if you marry someone you like, but in comparison, a marriage with someone you like is indeed more stable and long-lasting than a marriage with someone you don't like, and marrying someone you don't like is very likely to break down.