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Hello, I see that your idea is that you don't want to end it as soon as possible, and you want to continue to maintain. In fact, everything has to be fate. In fact, loving someone does not have to be on the lips every day, the key is to look at his actual actions, I hope the following information will be helpful to you, only represent personal opinions.
Love is not just a theory, but a practical action, from the heart.
Love is selfless, and that's how it is.
It is recommended that you watch flash "Are you willing to sacrifice for him like this"
Be honest, tolerant, understanding, and caring for your lover. It is recommended that you watch flash "Wait a minute", hoping to find out their shortcomings and shortcomings, and may this kind of vulnerability not be reborn on itself. And absorb their merits.
Love needs to be 100% pure, and nothing can be mixed with it, not even one thousandth, one thousandth.
Love involves responsibilities and obligations. If you love someone, don't give it to him, she makes excessive demands: 1. If your mother falls into the water at the same time as herself, which one to save first, I can only tell you that it is very foolish to ask this question, and mine is of course the one closest to me.
2. If I want the beautiful Tianshan Snow Lotus on the cliff, can you help me get it? (There are 3 results: 1. Maybe he will tell you wisely that no matter what any result will be, he doesn't want to hurt you, he just wants to bring you happiness.)
2. Maybe he, she didn't take it and left you.
3. Perhaps, one of them left you forever in order to get that flower, leaving you with pain for the rest of your life, spending it in regret, self-blame, remorse, and sadness.
This is just my speculation, and it is recommended to do less and try not to do things that harm others.
Wouldn't it be great if two people were happy, so why bother that one flower? If it were me, I would never pick that flower, no matter who loses the other person in order to pick that flower, it may bring a lifetime of pain to the other person, why bother. If you love each other deeply, you should give him, she will bring happiness, will not give him, she will bring pain, and use the limited time to take care of, care, and love him as much as possible, her.
So be cautious when doing this kind of thing. If you love someone, you should be happy with him and her! When he, she suffers, you share it with him, with her!
Blessings are shared, and difficulties are shared).
If you're in a relationship, I wish you the three-quarters of your life soon!
If you are married now, I wish you all the same! Happily married.
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You first have to think about whether he really loves you and doesn't love you, then it's good to break early, but if you love you and like you, it's a very happy thing to pay for love, others can't help you, the most important thing is to see how you see each other, think about whether you still have hope to be together, if you have the time to change your mind, this is a matter for two people, don't bear it yourself, find a chance to talk to him!
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Anyone's relationship will have a process, you are now the most dangerous period of boredom, if you are sure that you really love him, please grasp it, love each other with your heart, and create a little romantic surprise from time to time, so that this period will be spent safely, I wish you happiness.
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Tired! I just want to let it go! I'm tired too! Let it go too! It's good to know though! But there is no emotion!
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Try to see if you miss him if he ignores you.
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The difference between men and women.
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It's not good, a person who is emotionally numb, has experienced too much, and his personality will become more suspicious and insecure, so he treats feelings very casually and perfunctorily, Leo Tolstoy once said: Love is business, Xu Zhimo also said: She left ruthlessly with an oil-paper umbrella.
Therefore, people who are emotionally numb will not live well, but you must firmly believe that the moment when a hard stone is pierced by a drop of water, once the opening is opened, there will be endless tenderness.
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People who are emotionally numb are indifferent and cold in their hearts, they will not take the initiative to give, and they will also turn a blind eye to the efforts of others.
Only after a person is bruised in love will he be disappointed in love, hide in his own world and heal alone, unwilling to open his heart again. I used to be an emotionally numb person, and after being dumped by my ex, I began to become depressed and indifferent to the pursuit of the opposite sex. People who are emotionally numb are victims of love, and their hearts have long been full of holes.
First, people who are emotionally numb are generally hurt by love, so they no longer believe in love.
At the beginning of love, everyone has expectations for love, but after appreciating the style of love, they also understand the cruelty of love. When you can't stay with the people you love, you will feel a sense of loss and numbness, and you no longer believe that there is really love in the world. In fact, this kind of person has a very poor inner tolerance, they hide in their own world and are reluctant to come out, and it is easy to stab others.
Second, people who are emotionally numb will not give their sincerity, and it is difficult to meet true love again.
Once a person decides to seal his heart, he will no longer give warmth to anyone, and if you humbly please the other person, you will only be hurt by love in the end. Love requires the dedication of both parties, being evenly matched with each other, and standing on an equal footing in order to have a heart-to-heart exchange. If the balance is out of balance, in the end you will only fall to pieces in love, and the other party will not have the slightest distress.
Third, women must not fall in love with people who are emotionally numb, once they feel the indifference of the other party, they must withdraw in time.
Women should have sharp eyes in love, don't fall in love with someone who is numb by nature, he will only live up to your sincerity and cannot give you eternal love. A man who treats you as his life, on the one hand, will give you tenderness and care, so he is reluctant to let you be sad and sad. A woman should cherish the man who loves you, and never give her heart to someone who is emotionally numb.
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Those who have become emotionally numb are not having a good time right now. Because this kind of person has a very poor inner capacity, they hide in their own world, they are reluctant to come out, and it is easy to stab others. When encountering people who are emotionally numb, they will not give sincerely.
Nor will they show warmth to anyone. But man is a social animal. Without family and friendship, the flow of love will be barren.
So his life will be very boring.
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People's emotional intelligence is very important, sometimes far more than the importance of IQ, so to speak, those who have become emotionally numb, can not live well. History tells us that people who are truly successful in their careers and who do great things are people who have great emotional love, otherwise they will not be long-term. As ordinary people, although they can't do earth-shattering things, but they respect the old and love the young in life, those who respect the leadership in their work, unite comrades, work hard, and be aggressive, no matter what, will be respected by people, and life will not be bad!
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Those who have become emotionally numb are still living well. Be able to see emotionally. Such a person will not go to the tip of the horns, and it will not be very painful, so it will be very chic to live.
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No, there is such a thought, which means that there is no numbness!
It's just that you haven't met someone in your life who can know and accompany you?
There is no feeling of love for others, and there is no feeling of love for others.
I have a deep understanding. That's because of the injury.
The performance is lukewarm.
The kind that doesn't care much about anything, doesn't have any requirements, but not everyone is the same, and some people just don't care much.
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Emotional numbness can be the cause of getting caught up in the trivialities of life.
For emotion, that's what people say needs to be managed.
1.Husbands and wives should understand each other, look more at the advantages and less grasp the shortcomings. In daily life, especially in the face of wealth, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, there are many trivial things, and there will be various contradictions and discords.
2.In daily life, don't often compare your best friend or colleague to your other half. Contentment and happiness is the true meaning of life, feel that the other half of life is not hard enough, then you often blow the wind in your ears or plan carefully, first improve yourself and don't just ask the other half, so that you may find that when people really want to change, it can only be useful if they burst out the power of self-change, and the imposed accusations and constraints can basically only be superficial.
3.Look at the sparkle of your partner. For example:
There are some men who don't express their feelings, but their hearts are very passionate, and they want to give you gifts but always buy something they think you like, at this time you can tell him what I want, which is also very good, some men don't pay attention to festivals or rituals, but if you ask him to do it, it's good to ask for more, and you can get used to it. If you always want to find someone who understands women very well, there is a high probability that you will meet a scumbag, most of the good men can cook for their daughters-in-law, do laundry, work hard, and take care of children to do housework, but there may be fewer flowers, so it will also give people an unromantic feeling.
If you are hurt by feelings in your life, then starting a relationship again must not be slumped. For the pursuit of love, we should still be bold and proactive, and bravely seek our own love.
1.You can't stop talking about feelings because you hurt yourself in the last relationship. If you miss the love of your youth and meet the right person, you miss it, and you can't turn back time.
It also requires that you have paid sincere feelings, but you have not been able to harvest the other party's love, but you will not regret it after you have worked hard, and this is what fate means.
2.It is also a kind of beauty to have it before, and there is no need to immerse yourself in the previous relationship and affect your future path. Emotionally, the vast majority of people still have to talk about several relationships before they can really enter the palace of marriage.
Some people may have gone through their first love in a secret love, and some people may have been in 5-6 relationships before marriage, which is normal. What you miss is not yours, don't be difficult to extricate yourself, even if you give up the pursuit of beauty, you will not get the emotions of the person you missed, you can only torture yourself.
Suggestion: Be sunny and upward in life, be proactive in the pursuit of feelings, and work hard in the pursuit of life. Learn more to improve yourself.
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Life may be fine, but emotionally it may not be so good, and you don't even want to be too in love.
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I think the proudest thing for human beings is feelings. Without feelings, it is like not living in the world. So numbness looks advanced, but it's not.
When you are just a little numb to your feelings, it is also a taste of life.
When you are properly numb to your feelings, you feel a little sorry, but you can protect yourself, and it can be regarded as inviolable.
When you're completely numb, it's torment to be in the world for a second longer. The blood is all cold, and nothing can hug you.
If you feel pain, it hurts for a while, and if it suddenly stops hurting and you can't find it, you may not be able to find it in the future.
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Many things are always understood after experience, just like feelings. After the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted.
Learn to give up, and life will be easier. Learn to give up, turn around before crying, and study abroad with a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the most beautiful memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable; Learn to give up, let all the troubles go away with the wind, and create every beautiful tomorrow. Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is also intoxicating.
The regret that we can't have makes us more restricted; Sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night make us feel more nostalgic. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling. Perhaps a touch of sadness will make this answer more timeless and long-lasting.
Pack up your mood and keep walking, miss the flowers, you will reap the rain, miss the beauty, you will reap the happiness; Keep walking, and you will reap your own happiness in giving up. Emotional numbness is often the case of people with negative thoughts and mental burdens. And it belongs to the kind of mourning that is more important than the death of the heart, and some of your thoughts are negative, which may be related to your life experience.
An unhappy life can cause you to gradually lose the enthusiasm you should have for your social life and a certain tendency to depression. It is advisable to adjust yourself as much as possible. If you are unable to adjust to this emotional state, you should do professional psychological counseling to avoid causing more serious psychological problems.
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Some people are emotionally numb and will love themselves more, so they live well. And some people live more casually and have no fun precisely because they are emotionally numb.
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I always think that we love someone very much, and we will love them for the rest of our lives, and wait until the sea changes color and the sea withers and rots. When everyone tells us, don't be obsessed, he is not as good as you think, but we would rather believe the fairy tales we have woven for ourselves than the words of the people around us.
I always thought that if our Zheng fell in love with someone, we had to be unchangeable for the rest of our lives, and we always thought that we could wait for the fate in the dark to meet again. When the clouds and mist dissipate, when the two intersecting lines are staggered, we know that we are just a fan of the authorities.
We always think that we love someone so much that we will do anything for him, and we love it to the gorgeous background until you turn around with a lonely face. Whoever doesn't love first, leaves first. I always feel that the first person to turn around is the best, watching the person we love the most go away, we think it is a lifetime, this life, just him, except for him, none of us will love again.
The heart has become numb to feelings, the tears have flowed, what else should be waiting for me, some things, are not as fragile as I think. Ask, if you lose him, will you really not be able to live, maybe the second of Rolling Feng will be, but what about ten days or a month, a year or more, suddenly one day you suddenly wake up and say to yourself, why, Zeng Zhan Bei Song Sutra himself is so unable to let go.
It seems to be original, and I'm also from Douyin.
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