What should I do if my boyfriend rarely pays for it and doesn t care much about his girlfriend when

Updated on psychology 2024-04-26
57 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This kind of slamming boyfriend is not worth asking, you should seriously consider whether you need to have another ex.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you ask such a question, you are not satisfied with him, and if you are not satisfied, you will not break up, and keep such an inappropriate person for the New Year together?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Break up, girl, that's the case when you're in love, and don't expect him to love you much after you get married. Dating makes you pay for it, and you can see that this man is petty and selfish, such a man only loves himself and is not worthy of being loved by you. Money is not the criterion for judging whether he loves you or not, but money is a ruler that can tell how much he loves you.

    In the process of falling in love, a man's investment in your money is the depth of his love for you, if he is reluctant to spend money for you, it means that he does not love you enough, leave him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Dating him makes you pay for it means that his economic conditions are not very good, and a marriage without material foundation will be very hard, so giving up is the best choice. The man who loves you, when you are sick, does not mean that you will buy your own medicine, but that he will take the initiative to buy a bunch of medicine to take care of you. It's just that the language cares about it is definitely not a boyfriend, but can only be regarded as a friend.

    So, let's break up. A person who really loves you can feel from the bits and pieces of life, when you doubt whether he loves you, it means that he doesn't love you, at least not very much. It's not good to give up, so you can meet better.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Your boyfriend may not care too much about you, maybe he uses you as a spare tire. Under normal circumstances, if a man likes a girl, he will be willing to spend money for her, especially the money for dating.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personally, I think that boyfriend and girlfriend dating should be paid by the man. After all, it's not good to go out and let a woman pay. Conversely, if a woman feels uncomfortable, she can give the man more small gifts, so that the man will not feel that the woman has been spending his own money.

    When two people are dating, it is useless to pay unilaterally. Whether it's material or emotional.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In his mind, you're not his girlfriend yet. So there's no need for him to fail to pay for you. This situation often appears in the wishful thinking of women, and men always ignore them, and in this case, it is basically certain that this man is not a good person, maybe you are just his emotional transitioner.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Little things look at character, if you talk about friends dating to talk to you about money, then there will be endless strange requirements in the future, he takes money very seriously, if you live together for a while, then it is certain that you will be very careful in terms of money, as long as it is about the expenditure or income of money will have a big reaction, it is good for a short time, and you will be particularly tired for a long time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Men are more selfish, and the woman can hint at the man a little, and if she doesn't correct it, the woman has to think about it clearly. If a man really loves you, he will borrow money and spend it for you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think such a boyfriend can be counted, it's a trivial matter to rarely pay, and it's really intolerable not to care about you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it's important to have a good talk with him and figure out why he doesn't like to spend money on you. There are two reasons why a man doesn't like to spend money on his girlfriend, the first is that he doesn't treat you as a girlfriend at all, and the second is that he wants to lie to you, your feelings, and your people! Therefore, if a man is reluctant to spend a penny on you during the love period, then you should resolutely stay away from him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think he likes you. If a man likes you, he is willing to do something to make you happy.

    Some guys don't give anything when they are dating girls, and the reason why they fall in love with someone may be boring, or riding a donkey to find a horse. Therefore, in such a state, they don't care about the emotional state of the girl, such a person is not sincere to you.

    When most people like someone, they want him to live well and are willing to pay for him. For example, buy some small gifts to make her happy, etc.

    In life, there are some people even if the material conditions are not very good. But they are willing to put their heart and soul into doing something for each other. For example, making small gifts for your friends, although these things don't cost much, but they represent their intentions.

    And when you see a small gift you like, your boyfriend won't buy it for you. Such a small gift is of low value, and your boyfriend is not even willing to buy you such a low-value gift.

    If it is changed to someone he likes, and the other party takes a fancy to a gift of ** value, before the other party speaks, he may not hesitate to offer to buy it for the other party.

    This man is not willing to pay for you at all, he doesn't take you seriously at all, how can such a person like you.

    Your boyfriend has a relationship with you who is the one who has more gains and losses, and the two sexes have more accounts for losses when they get along, because they don't have a good relationship with each other.

    He should have thought that when you fancy this little gift, if you don't buy it, you may be disappointed and may be unhappy. But even if he knew so, he still didn't want to pay. Although you can buy yourself a gift,But he didn't show the attitude he should have, which shows that he doesn't have deep feelings for you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He shouldn't like you. Because you like someone and you can't help but spend money on each other, if you don't even want to pay for cheap things, it means that the other party doesn't care about you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    He doesn't like you, such a boyfriend is very selfish, and he is reluctant to buy you very cheap things, which means that you have not entered his heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    He doesn't like you, and it's not good for the development of the relationship, and it's not good for the harmony of the relationship, so when we encounter this situation, we must break up with the other person.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You shouldn't break up, and no one has a rule that you have to have a boyfriend pay for it when you go on a date, and if you have to pay for it every time you go on a date, it's also a lot of pressure for your boyfriend.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think such a boy should break up, because such a boy is very deductible, he doesn't know how to pay, and with him, you will definitely be very tired, so it is best to break up in time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, because no one stipulates that men and women have to spend money on dating, and two people go both ways.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Yes, generally speaking, boyfriends will take the initiative to pay, but occasionally take the initiative to pay, which can better promote the relationship between the two.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You don't have to take the initiative to pay, so that he will lose face, and you can repay him in other ways, such as buying gifts and making handicrafts for him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    will take the initiative to pay, but sometimes it will AA, because it can reduce the financial pressure on your boyfriend and enhance the relationship.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When dating a boyfriend, sometimes I do take the initiative to pay for it, because in our eyes, this is a direct manifestation of family status. After all, getting married and living in the future requires the woman to control the family's finances.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Occasionally, you will take the initiative to pay for a date with your boyfriend, and in a specific dating situation, you can agree to pay for it yourself, which is a kind of fun and can increase the relationship between the two.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, if I go out on a date with my boyfriend, I don't pay for it occasionally, but I often pay for it. I don't want to spend too much money on him, and I have the confidence to spend my own money.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When dating a boyfriend, you will definitely take the initiative to pay for it occasionally, because it is not good to eat other people's food, try to be equal, and it is not easy for boys to make money.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Occasionally, I take the initiative to pay, because men and women are equal, I don't rely on a man, and I don't need a man to rely on, I both need to be independent.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Yes! When together. My boyfriend's salary is stuck in my hand, and he only has some pocket money in his hand, and I usually buy more than his pocket money, so I pay for it myself.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think I'll take the initiative to pay for it, because love is a matter of two people. It's embarrassing to always eat and drink for nothing together, and both people need to pay.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When I'm dating my boyfriend, I sometimes take the initiative to pay for it. The first thing is to consider the self-esteem of boys, because some boys feel that they should pay, and it is a shame to make women pay. If he's such a character, sometimes I'll let him buy it.

    But sometimes I take the initiative to pay because I don't think two people should spend just one together.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Yes, dating a boyfriend doesn't have to make your boyfriend pay every time, and occasionally a girl can also pay for it, so that the guy will feel that you have him in your heart, will think about him, and be good to him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you are dating a boyfriend, most of the time the boyfriend will pay for it, but sometimes the woman will take the initiative to pay for it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Generally not, it is determined by the environment and the situation, if it is your real boyfriend, then you don't have to pay, it happens that when your boyfriend is financially tight, the relationship is stable, and it doesn't matter how many orders you buy, right? And the average male friend? Generally speaking, there is no need for girls to pay, now people pay more attention to their own image, will not let girls pay, if there are special circumstances, you can also decide whether to buy or not by how deep your friendship is, old friends who have known each other for many years.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Sometimes, especially if you make an appointment by yourself, you are more proactive. But most of it is still paid by him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Sometimes I take the initiative to pay, but I don't really want to, and I still hope that boys can pay.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Of course, I will pay occasionally, and the individuals who were independent before they got married also belong to women in the new era.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Yes, of course, why would you spend your boyfriend's money? You don't have a job? No income?

    I think girls must know how to love themselves, buy what they like, don't show others, don't think about spending your boyfriend's money, you are just boyfriend and girlfriend now. The funds are not shared, and you are not qualified to ask others to buy you anything, of course, others are willing to do things. If you go out to eat a lot, you must AA system.

    So that the other party will.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It depends, if the boyfriend is short of money at the time, he will take the initiative to buy, if he is richer, let him buy it, and then buy some milk tea or something like that. Just eat and let the boys pay.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    And everyone gets along with each other, but also needs to pay and gain, well, you can also learn to be yourself, if you pay the bill, you will often pay for yourself, and then he will take the initiative to pay, and I will also take the initiative to pay, which is the best.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You should definitely take the initiative to pay, so that you can show your generosity, and you are also sincere to your boyfriend, which is conducive to deepening the relationship with your boyfriend.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    When dating a boyfriend, you will definitely take the initiative to pay for it occasionally, because taking the initiative to pay also shows that you don't want to rely on the other party, you are an independent girl.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    When you go on a date with your boyfriend, you should pay for it once in a while, because it won't make him feel very stressed, and it will make him feel that you are more money-worshipping, which will make him feel very comfortable.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If you go on a date with your boyfriend, you will occasionally take the initiative to pay, which is also normal, after all, there are more boyfriends who spend money on each other every time you eat, which is normal.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    When you go out on a date with your boyfriend, you generally take the initiative to pay for it from time to time. This can reduce the burden on the other party and do not make the other person feel that they are taking advantage.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Of course, you should take the initiative to pay.

    The two of you are talking about it, and it is very likely that you will get married in the future, and it is impossible to make your boyfriend pay for every consumption, which is inappropriate.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I think it's better to let your boyfriend go on a date without your boyfriend, you don't have to take the initiative to go, well, it's the initiative to pay, and he won't let you pay for it.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Two people get along in a romantic relationship, there is no rule who must pay, and it should be paid occasionally!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Yes, when you pay the bill, it can be used as a reward for the object, or as an agreement, I don't think it is advisable to pay for one party all the time.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Normally, I don't pay for it, because I think it will save my boyfriend's face. But if it's the premise that you promise to invite him, you must take the initiative to pay.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    I will take the initiative to pay, after all, we are all office workers, and none of us have so much money, so we can't always let boys pay.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    I will take the initiative to pay, I think two people together do not have to be a boy to spend money, as long as two people are happy together.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Depending on the situation, I prefer the AA system, which is to share half of the money evenly, because I don't like to let the man spend the money when I meet for the first time. Men and women are equal, and in terms of relationships, when dating, the boy is not obliged to cover all expenses.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    You can take the initiative to pay for this girl, but the premise is that you have to tell him that you have a treat today. That way, you won't come across as a material girl.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    I won't take the initiative to pay, because I think a man should be generous, and if he can take the initiative to pay, it means that he is a reliable person.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    I occasionally take the initiative to pay, thinking that now that men and women are equal, I have to bear the cost when necessary.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Of course, I will take the initiative to pay, because I think men and women are equal, and it is impossible to keep your boyfriend paying.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    I won't take the initiative to pay, because I think that a man who pays can mean that he likes me very much.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Yes, people's hearts are mutual, there is no rule that a boy must pay, maybe occasionally you pay, he will feel that this girl will feel distressed, empathetic, and will love you even more.

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