Is it right or wrong for a girlfriend to elope with her boyfriend ? Is it to defend your love?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It doesn't matter if it's right or wrong.

    Parents are sad, and it is certain that they will suffer.

    Parents are not able to properly guide and cope with the main responsibilities.

    But let them go out to practice, maybe it will become a good thing, anyway, sooner or later they will have to be independent.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Wrong! People who are willing to elope will not last long, at least without taking into account the feelings of adults. What you can do is convince the grown-ups.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't know the situation, but I want to advise you, in this world, only parents are worthy of their trust, only parents really want to make themselves good, and parents have only one belief in their hearts, which is to make their children's lives happy. Please don't be too impulsive, I suggest that you listen to your parents, otherwise, you will definitely regret it in the future, I know you are unhappy to say this, if you choose not to have your parents, but elope, give me 100 points when you regret it, hehe.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Agree with the statement upstairs: "In this world, only parents are worthy of their trust, only parents really want to make themselves good, and parents have only one belief in their hearts, which is to make their children's lives happy." Love is not 100% trustworthy dd parents are 100% real, just ask him who loves you very much now, can you guarantee that he will love you so much in a certain year and month?

    I think he will say that he will love you so much in his life, but what is the year and month of "life"! 80% of divorced men, before getting married, will say that they will love her well for the rest of their lives! A few did!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Problematic with this question? In these years, the freedom of marriage is protected by law and cannot be violated, so no one can interfere with the independent choice of marriage.

    Secondly, in the face of family opposition, it is necessary to analyze specific problems on a case-by-case basis, but it is certainly not a good way to escape.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Why elopement, I think there is a problem that can be solved, it's just a matter of time, and it's irresponsible to go.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Elopement is never realistic and is not the best way to solve a problem.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your woman eloped with his man? So who are you?

    Dry catch up and smoke y

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Family affection is relatively important, and my personal trust in love is much lower than that of family affection, so it is not worth defending love at the cost of losing family affection in my case, let alone parents. In addition, I personally believe that love is just a spice of life, and if there is a lack of family affection in life, it must be very bitter. In addition, the method of obtaining love does not need to be in such an extreme way, you can think more about other methods, and flexibly use other methods to achieve your goals.

    And I think if the boy she knows really loves her, she will not be allowed to complete the love between them in this way.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you fall in love, don't let go of the opportunity easily, recklessness may make you regret it for a while, but cowardice may make you regret it for a lifetime. First love, not necessarily successful, but happy; Marriage is already a success, but it is not necessarily happy. Family affection and love are not contradictory, if it is a contradiction for you, then you should respect the opinions of your parents more, because you must believe that parents are always good for their children, many times when you are young, you don't think that your parents' experience is reasonable, and you don't understand your parents' hard work until many years later.

    However, if it is a very happy love, then you will definitely have a reason to convince your family to make them feel your need for this love, feel the perfection of the other party, give your parents a little time, and they will naturally understand you.

    If love is not necessarily fulfilling, then why should you let the inseparable family relationship be shattered? The coming days are long, and there is no grass at the end of the world!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, impulsiveness is a regret pill that can never be consumed...Mom and Dad are the dearest people in this world, how can they....Think twice!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Parents must have a reason for their parents. I'm also a post-90s generation. But I won't.

    Because I feel that family affection comes first. Even if there is a boy I like again,,I won't.。。 It doesn't last long, and it can only be seen how the boy is.

    It's up to her life. Let's hope she won't regret it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Probably not.

    It's very simple, the girl is still in school, presumably she doesn't have much work experience, she has only known a boy for eighteen days, how many ups and downs can they experience? Do they have the courage to continue going through it together? Eighty percent was dizzy by the sea oath and mountain alliance.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    to pursue your own happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Love is beautiful Everyone wants to get it But things often don't go as smoothly as we think Always have to go through some twists and turns Love protects love at the same time but also cherish yourself So that you can make yourself and love beautiful If you choose to hurt in order to get love Unscrupulous means In exchange for love may not be love but sadness As a woman, it is a good choice to fight bravely for love When love does not belong to you Then don't force the consequences of unscrupulous means It's better not to choose that way to defend love, not all women are what you say, sensible women are not like that.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Yes, women will do whatever it takes.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello, if you really reach the age and can start a family, you can love each other, form a family, and if your family disagrees, you have to move with affection. Laughing reasonably, children are not eloping, running, it is not right to do this, as a man, if you love each other, you must first love the family of the other party, and you must get the blessing of all relatives and friends, so it is perfect love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You explain the situation to ** and will understand you, they are all people. At most, bring it to the bureau and ask for a record. I wish you both a good family and hope it can help you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You don't have to do anything, you can be a person all the time when you are free to be together, and it is useless to force marriage if you are successful. No man wants a woman who is pregnant with someone else's child. What's more, Tibetans are relatively conservative, and beating children or something is even more unacceptable to other Tibetans. In order to achieve the purpose of marrying a son.

    In the future, there are huge cultural differences and differences in religious backgrounds, even if the forced marriage is successful, it will also lay a solid foundation for divorce in the future. The appearance of the child is half-mixed, which also brings uncertainty to your child's future. If you live in a Han community, you cannot rule out the removal of non-Han faces.

    For example, if you live in a Tibetan community, there are also children whose Tibetan parents consider noble Tibetan blood to be noble, and children who have been tainted by Han should not play with him. Divorce over the years is the only option. The woman will find a Tibetan second marriage man to finish the second half of her life.

    The man is that you will find a Han woman with a poor culture and is not so big to spend the rest of your life with. And the mixed-race child became a person who contributed to the motherland in this turbulent family.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You and the girl can go and get the marriage certificate, or tell the girl that she is free to do so.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Can you run away, I want your girlfriend to go and talk to her family. What age is it now, and the arranged marriage can't be completed, if you take her to run, you will suffer in the end.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Elopement is not advisable, and there will be many problems in the future

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If the police say that you have deceived her daughter, it is not impossible to arrest you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Alas, the woman's family is a little stubborn, and it may be better to find a middleman to persuade her.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Tell you that you should reason with them.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Okay, I'll help you, 1 or 2,000 still has it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I'll go, Tibetans. This one is a bit harder.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Oh, my God... It's a tough love.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's not good, fight for consent, you won't be happy without your parents' consent.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's not good, her family will not have a good influence on you in the future.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    No, love is immature without being tested and generally will not be perfect.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Oh no, his family might be looking for trouble.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Her family can't abandon it anymore, they will be worried that they will be in a hurry, and they should use their ability to win the approval of your girlfriend's family.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    No, it's a sign of immaturity, what should I do if I gave birth to you and raised your family......Where is your conscience?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Elopement is the most helpless choice, you can try to communicate with your girlfriend's parents, pity the hearts of parents in the world, love her parents.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You are very irresponsible in doing this, you take her away simple, what should her parents do? If you want to be together, you try to let his parents see that you are sincere and good.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Never. Then you won't be happy.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    In order to strive for happiness, the only way out.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Not good, as long as you work hard, you will definitely succeed.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Disapprove, if it were me, my parents would not agree, in love I would not be with him, a matter of principle?

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Think about how you want to live your life first, if you have the ability to support yourself and her, and then think about who your parents are for! Then how you do it is your own business

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I just want to be happy for myself. It's too selfish not to consider the feelings of your family, your family must be more thoughtful than you, and you will know that your parents are good when you are older.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I feel that no matter what, it is best to get the blessing of my parents.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It is better to get the consent of your parents, you are male or female.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I think it's better to try to get my family's consent.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    I think the blessing of parents is very important, you are not mature, try to make your parents accept it.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Whatever you want, if you can give happiness to the other party.

    Remember when the household registration book comes out.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Don't do that any good to you.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    If your husband really runs away with someone else, it can only prove that he doesn't have deep feelings for you enough. Thank you, mistress, for taking away someone who doesn't love you.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Not only to defend, but also to see the choice of the husband.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Let your husband lose some money to the mistress, and he won't come to rob it, heh!

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Look at who your husband chooses, so that you can also see your status in his heart.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    The two sides of the relationship are not his alone. Why let him choose? Are you a greenie....

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