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Unable to interact with people, most of the time is able to communicate on the Internet, but the reality is not daring to speak, and after a long time, I know that I rarely communicate with people As the situation deteriorates, in the eyes of outsiders, it is as you say that you are alone, that is, loneliness, but loneliness is not a mental illness, and it takes courage to face social groups, so you need to take your time to communicate with people of the same kind, cultivate the courage to communicate, from this point of view, you will become a little cheerful, and then you have to see how you behave in front of the masses, and everyone will be afraid of this, and you must highlight your external advantages and make people accept you.

Hello friends!

It seems that your description, I think: in the case of self-loathing, don't be too impatient to set your own goals, maybe you are too lonely, feel that no one can understand you, so hate yourself. Therefore, it is time to try to build your confidence and do things to restore your self-confidence, such as:

I'm also a loner, so I guess I have low emotional intelligence. Even if you interact with people, you won't have a heart-to-heart relationship, and your friendship is not deep.

In fact, it is not a bad thing to be alone, learn to enjoy solitude.

Take the initiative to help others, start with some small things, such as cleaning, pouring water, etc., but don't be too obvious, the so-called secretly being good to others. This method is good, and it is recommended to try it.

Either you pick up too much, or you can carry too little. Look at the opening point, relax the hand, and everything can pass.

Be happy, take the initiative to talk to others, and be nice to others.

It is important to interact with body language that supports our bodies.

Relax is like talking to your family.

Over time, it becomes a habit.

Interpersonal interaction is an important social skill.

First of all, don't give up on yourself.

You should be more introverted! Let go of Lang!

In fact, in our real life, there are many such people who feel that they are becoming more and more accustomed to being alone and do not want to have anything to do with others. In fact, many times such people do not want to be so alone, but some specific environments and living habits determine their own living conditions.

But when we find that our life state is changing towards such a state, we must find ways to change this state. Because once we fall into the pit of being alone, many times we feel like we can't extricate ourselves. <>

First, choose to accept your own state.

If we find ourselves in life more and more accustomed to being alone and do not want to intersect with others, at this time we will seem to have a feeling of fear in our hearts, because we will find ourselves as if we are out of society, out of the normal trajectory of life. At this time, we should not be afraid, we should not be nervous, and what we need to do is to accept our own state. It is only when we choose to accept our state and our heart that we can find the root of our own becoming.

Only when we find the root cause can we make a good change. <>

Second, find ways to change the state.

If we find ourselves more and more accustomed to being alone, and we don't want to cross paths with others. This is the beginning of becoming more and more lonely, and we should not allow ourselves to live in such a circle. Therefore, we should try our best to change this state of our own, at this time, we should communicate more with friends in our leisure time, gather more with relatives and friends, and participate in more activities that are beneficial to our life or work.

If a person wraps himself very tightly and puts it in a shell, then he will become isolated from the world and lose the breath of life.

Again, be positive and sunny.

In fact, if a person becomes more and more alone, it is because he has a certain amount of self-suggestion in his heart, and he feels that he is such a person, and he needs someone. In fact, the more time passes, the more you feel as if you have escaped from this world, and this state of life is very scary. Therefore, when we don't want to intersect with others, we must become positive and sunny ourselves.

Of course, many times, only we can take ourselves out of this strange circle, go out for a walk more, see more time outside, make ourselves sunny and positive, and we will feel the warmth and beauty of this world. <>

Therefore, when we find that we are more and more accustomed to being alone, and we don't want to intersect with others, we must find ways to change our life status and make ourselves positive and sunny. This kind of life is meaningful, beautiful and happy.

Go out and walk more, see the world, there are so many beautiful places, there are so many beautiful stories, you will find a different beauty, change the environment, change the mood, the world is still very beautiful.

If you are comfortable, you should live according to your own lifestyle, but you also need to communicate with others appropriately, after all, many times in life you need others to accompany you.

You should overcome this mentality, because you always need friends to survive in society, you always need to have intersections with other people, and you should give yourself a hint to take the initiative to make new friends in normal times.

That's not right, you should practice getting along with others, you can just find a good friend to talk about, so that you don't become more withdrawn.

At this time, you must come out of this circle, and you must also take the initiative to contact others, and at the same time, you can also participate in more large-scale activities.

Constantly force yourself to contact with others, communicate with others, and make your personality more and more cheerful and lively.

Summary. People who like to be alone and don't like to talk are most likely to have the following mentality. A single figure, but not alone.

Then you won't like to be gregarious. A group of people, eating and drinking together, together. People who don't like to talk, 1. No one understands what they say, so it's better to keep silent in order to play their potential, 4. People who like to be alone are not high, but very confident and have a great prejudice against those who are alone, and each of us has a lonely .....

People who like to be alone and don't like to talk are most likely to have what kind of mentality?

Good. Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

People who like to be alone and don't like to talk are most likely to have the following mentality. A single figure, but not alone. Then you won't like to be gregarious.

A group of people, eating and drinking together, together. People who don't like to talk, 1. No one understands what they say, so it's better to keep silent in order to play their potential, 4. People who like to be alone are not high, but very confident and have a great prejudice against those who are alone, and each of us has a lonely .....

When you experience other people's misunderstandings and can't explain clearly, you learn to tolerate. When you've experienced someone else's damage and you've tried unsuccessfully, you've learned to see through. When you have experienced difficulties that others have not experienced, and you have fallen down and got up many times, you have learned not to cry.

In this world, there is no innate strongest, the more hardships you endure, the more you understand, the more you suffer, the more tenacious you are. No one can help yourself, come out of the confusion and shadows, if you want to shine, you must know how to shine yourself!

Lu Qi once said: There is always a reason for a person who is strong in his heart, either he does it right, or he feels that he has done it right. There is a reason why people who are not strong enough in their hearts, or they are not confident, or they care a lot about what others think.

The only way to increase self-confidence is to continue to deposit and grow. In this world, there is no empathy, only warmth and coldness, when you are strong, in fact, you will never feel lonely again, and other people's opinions will not be able to put you up and down! You are a chimney mountain, you will not migrate because of anyone, and you will not grieve for anyone.

Friends who have been staggering with you may not be able to help you; Friends who have been playing cards with you may not be able to share your weal and woe. You have money, you flatter yourself, you slap your beard, you have no money, you are cold, and you go your separate ways. Low-quality social**, the more you socialize, the more lonely you become.

Only people who really understand you can open your heart and have the fun of supporting each other. And giving time and energy to people who are not very worthwhile, it is not as good as spending more time to achieve yourself. Sometimes "withdrawn" is not to be honest and arrogant, but to live transparently and wisely.

Self-growth is always a person's business, and others can't help you.

Many things, rather than confiding in people who don't understand you and getting the relief of people perfunctory or just a few words, are not as good as being quiet and walking out slowly. The French thinker Pascal said: Basically, every pain comes from the fact that everyone is not good at living alone in the house.

People who live alone are more alone, she never expects others, and she is not sensitive and suspicious because others do not help. Low-quality socialization** is not always as good as high-quality solitude.

In this life, we must experience the coming of some people, and we must bear the departure of some people. We must learn to be strong ourselves, and we don't put everyone's hopes in it. Only when you are strong can you have a better future for your family, and you can be honored to see a broader sky.

A strong person is always calm.

It's not that they are inherently indifferent, but they know what they want, they are diligent and unhurried, and they are secretly determined to pursue, without being praised by anyone, and who is not painful and who does not like it. A really strong person, but a lot of like-minded people around him, these are his connections on the road to success. The relationship is not innate, but it is attracted by one's own style.

feel that a person lives a very free life and does not want to be disturbed by others; Fear of getting along with others, fear that others will not like you. Living alone, no one restrains yourself, no need to look at other people's faces; I have a mild social phobia and also like to be alone.

Such people are introverted or not good at talking and have their own opinions, in short, most of such people prefer to be pure.

I don't like to interact with people because I like to live alone. But feeling lonely, that's a state of mind. For such people, they all like to be alone, but when they are alone, they will feel that life is too monotonous.

In fact, for such a living environment, it is self-inflicted. Because I don't know how to change, I will naturally let my life go unsatisfactory.

Interacting with people is something that everyone should know, it will be boring to stay by yourself, let yourself try to talk to others, read more books about interpersonal communication, and have a pet dog that you can talk to.

I don't like to interact with people, and I am very lonely. Then you have to find something you like to do, for example, I like to watch cartoons alone, and such cartoons are also very good.

= In this society, there is a kind of person who does not like to be in groups, always alone, does not like to speak freely, and is always silent. In the eyes of others, it seems that they are out of touch with society, and they just look down on everything in life. People like them, who are loners and don't like to talk, most of them have these mentalities.

1. It's useless to confide, it's better to be silent Some words are only suitable for collection, not for catharsis, and some things are only suitable for silence and not suitable for confiding. Living in this society, there are too few people who empathize with you, but there are many people who watch your jokes. Not only does no one understand, but it will also cause trouble, so it is better to remain silent and let time dissolve.

2. Ineffective socialization, it is better not to make friends with people who like to be alone, most of them are not social, and they are not social, but because they have seen through interpersonal communication. A group of people eat and drink together, push cups and change lamps, you show off your money, I tout myself, it's all ineffective socialization, meaningless. Instead of wasting time here, it is better to improve yourself by being alone, making yourself better and better, and you will naturally attract more sincere friends.

3. No one can rely on it, it is better to live in this world by yourself, you can't rely on anyone, it is better to rely on yourself, when you are short of money to borrow money, you are friendly on weekdays, one by one, when you are in trouble, on the surface, sincerely, one by one to keep you away. Slowly you will find that relying on others will only chill, relying on yourself to be fearless, when you are alone, it means that you have achieved independence.

Loneliness is the norm in life, and we have to get used to it. Alone, although it seems that they are not close to people, do not like to talk, although they are indifferent on the surface, but such people are generally very kind and strong in their hearts, they have their own pattern and ability, they do not need to be promoted by the hands of others, and they do not need to rely on the strength of others to succeed. In this society with complex hearts, do not flatter, do not please, do not depend, go alone, rely on yourself, exchange for a quiet life, and live a comfortable life.

Pay attention to the taste of the language and the taste of the world.

Such people are more introverted, they are reluctant to communicate or communicate with others, and many times they are always completely immersed in their own world.

People who are reluctant to talk and like to be alone are often introverted and not good at communicating with others, so they will be alone.