I don t innovate at all in my life, and I m always messing around, what should I do?

Finding your life purpose, finding your life purpose is the most complicated subject, I remember when I was a child, I wished I didn't have to go to school, I played ruthlessly every day, I envied adults who were free and eager to grow up quickly so that adults wouldn't care about me, when I grew up, I felt the inferiority complex brought by poverty, but I didn't dare to talk about my love, I hid the copycat phone I had used for many years, I vowed to make a lot of money after work and get rid of my current dissatisfaction.

Now, after years of suffering from reality, the ambitious heart has long since calmed down, I became the person I wanted to be when I was a kid, but now I just want to find a similar wife, have similar children and live a similar life, most people work all their lives in the framework of others, work in graduate school, get married at the right age and have children, these things seem to be necessary subconsciously, even if your job is annoying, you may find someone your parents think is the right fit, but you will fight for the house for the rest of your life.

While confused about the future like a child, handle trivial things like an adultWhat is the goal? Talking about life? Many successful people also tell us that you have to find your purpose in life and stick to it in order to succeed, but who can find your purpose in life at one time, what is the definition of success, however, a lifetime of achievement comes from the meaningful feeling you create in your work and life, success is a journey, not a destination, it should include introspection, thinking about what you hold dear and exploring the way of life that is most meaningful to you.

It feels futile, but it's one of the biggest motivators for you to live and work。It feels like being by your side all your life and can even influence you and make you obsessed with one thing, in fact, everyone has an object of envy, longing for their life and setting him as a benchmark to shine in your path like the North Star, the benchmark doesn't need to be high and you don't have to be aligned with a successful business leader, at least you are interested in his work and lifestyle and want to be like them.

Then go out more, expand your horizons more, let yourself be more inspired, and you will be able to innovate.

It is better to calm yourself down for a while, change to a new environment, and go out to travel and relax, which will make your mind clearer and you will have new ideas.

In this case, you can learn more from others, learn from others' innovative spirit, and then you can't be too flustered when you encounter things, you must be stable.

We must learn to cultivate our own innovative spirit, and think about it outside the conventional way of thinking when we encounter something.

Learn more. In the process of learning, you will find that others have a lot of new thinking and creativity, and in the process of learning, you may also have some new ideas.

I think you should set a goal for yourself and clear your mind repeatedly, only in this way can you have a direction to work towards and make your life more regular.

You should listen to other people's suggestions and think more about what others think, and maybe you will gradually become innovative.

When you encounter this situation, you can think about it calmly, see what the problem is, and use a new one to correct it.

There will always be times in life when people feel very sad and frustrated, especially when there is no way to make progress. If you find that your thinking has stagnated in your life and there is no way to innovate, don't be frustrated, you can try to open your mind from the following aspects.

1. Give yourself a break. When you have no innovation and no ideas, don't force yourself, allow yourself to have a rest, we must really be able to achieve a combination of work and rest, and there is a good balance between the two. Many times you need to take a short break to rejuvenate yourself, if you blindly push yourself, it will be counterproductive, everyone will feel tired, you can take a proper rest when you are tired, maybe you will be more inspired when you rest.

Innovation, in particular, often requires serendipity. <>

2. Extensive learning. When you don't have innovation and no ideas, you can learn extensively, because by learning from the valuable experience of others, you can accumulate some experience for yourself, and you can also find out your own problems at critical times. Never stay where you are, blindly review yourself, learn to calm down and find ways to change.

Through reading, you can continue to increase your knowledge and inner life, and only when the brain is constantly enriched, it is possible to innovate and create. <>

3. Lower your expectations. Sometimes there is a sense of urgency and great pressure because of too high self-expectations of oneself, which has a counterproductive effect, and can not be better innovated and created. Innovation, sometimes just a simple inspiration burst out of one's own brain, to give yourself a very relaxed environment, in order to better grasp such an inspiration, rather than blindly forcing yourself.

To be brave in innovation, to read more books and recharge, to replenish enough spiritual food for yourself, these are all necessary conditions for innovation.

You should be brave enough to break through yourself, so that you can change your current situation and meet a better you.

1, you are your different self, you may need to socialize at work, but you can't force yourself, because your advantages may not be on this, look at your advantages in **, highlight him.

2. Don't force yourself if you can't do it, you will be very uncomfortable, and then you will add trouble to yourself, which will affect your mood, life, work, and all aspects.

3. Even if you have innovation, you will not dare to bring it up because you feel rigid. It's good to work together happily, and you don't have to enter the circle of other people's lives. You can find your own hobbies, post a circle of friends, and there will naturally be like-minded people who will be friends with you.

If you want to innovate, you have to have an innovative environment, and you have to do those rigid jobs every day, and if you have time to create something new, it is better to change jobs. As for wanting to integrate into other people's life circles, I don't think it's necessary, because there are gains and losses, and if you integrate, it is not necessarily a good thing, maybe you are better off than it is now.

Then don't fit in.

Strengthen yourself.

Let them fit into your life circle.

You don't have to fit into someone else's life.

It's useless.

The crux of the problem is that you always want to fit in with other people's lives, which leads to the loss of self all the time. How can a person who has lost himself be innovative? A person who wants to follow the crowd will of course follow the rules, because he is afraid that he will be to blame. Return to yourself and build your own circle of life.

There will be water vapor on the mirror, you can use soap to wipe it well (don't use water) and then wipe it clean, just like wearing glasses in winter, it will often produce water vapor, which is very troublesome; As for forgetting to bring an umbrella on a rainy day, you can find some plastic film or something like that instead; And the problem that the friend upstairs said is actually very easy to solve. Just buy that "Mr. Mighty Man", that's how I use it at home, in fact, there are a lot of so-called troubles in life that can be solved as long as you use your own brain, hehe, what do you think?

I got on the bus but didn't have change.

I went to the toilet but forgot to bring paper.

When I arrived at the company, I remembered that I was wearing less clothes today.

**Suddenly there is no battery and no spare battery.

When the computer design and writing were almost completed, the power suddenly went off and the mobile phone text message was sent only to know that it was sent to the wrong person.

I want to make up for it.

Let me give you an example.

The water heater in my rented house is in the kitchen. The faucet in the toilet can only adjust the amount of water or hot and cold 2 gears can not adjust the temperature, every time you go in, you have to test the water temperature first It's troublesome, and the light switch in the bedroom is actually outside the bedroom. You can't press it after closing the door...

。I really don't know how this building is designed...

Wouldn't it be nice to be simpler and happier?

If you think so, aren't you tired?

It's embarrassing to fart in class. How can I not fart?

First of all, you're right, mentality! It is this that also reflects the mentality.

Importance, it's like how to make one.

Specialist, everything is not satisfactory, but do you think that if everything can be so smooth and so pleasant, then it will not be difficult for people to do anything? When it is difficult, you must learn and find a way to remove this stumbling block, and after removing it, you will find that the stumbling block is not a stumbling block, but a carrier and a method for your growth.

No matter what you do, you must have a good attitude, you must have a firm attitude towards what you think is right, how to see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain, and persevere.

If you run into walls everywhere, it's hard to be calm. So there's no need to insist on changing. You wait. Usually it falls to the bottom, and it will be **. The so-called no pole Tailai. The worst has already been experienced, and after that it's all the way :)

First don't think about the troubles, go to exercise、、、 and then write down the worries, let it be organized, prioritize, deal with it、、、 put it aside if you don't handle it well、、、 and soon you will have a good mood

To learn to divert attention, there is nothing that cannot be overcome.

Remember one sentence: there is a dead end ahead, hope is around the corner!

Treat it with a normal mind, find out the reasons for failure, solve the problem at the root, and don't complain, it will make you worse and worse.

Tell yourself directly that every successful person has suffered a lot of troubles before they succeed.

Try not to do things and calm yourself down for a while.

Maybe this time has passed, and it's fine.

You should keep telling yourself that I'm the best, and slowly, you'll get better.

Do what you like, don't take the results too seriously, done!

Every time I am lost, I always indulge myself once, and every time I secretly ask for it alone in the dining hall.

Much, but drank a lot, and then, walking alone on the road, until tired, alone, until the sun is far away, the half moon hangs high, neon flashes little by little, and a five-foot man will secretly cry when he walks to a five-foot man....Then cheer yourself up, you must get ahead, you must have your own place....Then inspire yourself to have more courage!!

Try to think about it less and do something you enjoy.

Think about happy things, there is nothing that cannot be overcome.

I can understand that as long as it is good for you, you have to find a way to change it yourself.

It's the same, um( Try to ask your parents to hide their phones, after school, alone, to see if there are any subjects that interest you, do that first, and then concentrate on doing your homework, maybe you want to get those topics done,

Delete certain features from your phone.

If you've only been feeling this way lately, it's probably just a relatively normal mood swing for a certain period of time, you just need to read a book, go to a nearby mountain or somewhere else, relax, and maybe come back to this mood a little less, at least a little better.

If you feel like this for a while, maybe there is a certain difference between the position you are in now and the goal you really want in your heart, and you can't change it, so you are a little discouraged, in this case, I think you can measure it, or adjust your mentality, if you really feel unbearable, you can try to make some changes, starting with accumulating new knowledge, and finally changing your present. Some of the people I know have done that.

In the end, no matter how immutable and boring life is, you should try to live as happily as possible, think about those who care about you, the people you care about, you should not think about the topic of death. And, to put it mildly, life is always precious.

Not a master, talk about comfort. ^_

When life is the same, it means that people have no brains, no thinking, no thinking, no way to talk and do things, people don't eat or drink, blood stops flowing, people sit and wait for death, people sit and wait for difficulties, disasters, risks, people dig their own graves, and they don't die to find death. People don't want to forge ahead, they are willing to fall, they don't die and look for death, they live impatiently, they don't want to live, they want to die. People die like lights out, life is like a dream, life is like a play, and life is like chess.

People can't play with things and lose their minds, spend all day drinking, get drunk and dream of death. When you die, the earth will be preached, and the sun will come out. People should not be greedy for life and afraid of death, and steal their lives.

People should be brave, strong, strong in life, heroes and heroes, and men who stand up to the sky. Everything is changing, evolution, science, innovation, only then can we have a better tomorrow and future. Man, do not bow down to difficulties, disasters, enemies, firmly believe in victory, never say die, live forever, never die.