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For every woman, this must be reasonable. Many people, both men and women, have this problem. As the saying goes, "When there is continuous judgment, it is chaotic."
You are already an adult anyway, you can't live under the protection of your parents forever, you can try to leave your parents and find your own world, I believe that one day, his parents will accept you, there is no parent in the world who will not love their children. If he is not willing to leave her parents and go with you, then I advise you to leave him as soon as possible, or one day he will listen to his parents and ———leave you. When the time comes, he will be gone, and his youth will be gone, and you will regret it.
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There is a kind of love called letting go, since you are so tired, why don't you let go, you must hold it hard? Who can bear for you while you are holding on? There is still a long way to go in life, there will be many levels, this level can't be passed, you can't choose to go to another level, do you have to pass this level?
Life is not just about feelings, and you can go through this life smoothly and steadily. Why choose a man to take care of himself, it is because the world itself is yin and yang, which is the law of nature. But if the other person can't help you fulfill this natural law, your life will not go smoothly either.
Whether it is a woman or a man, they have to find their other half to complete their field in order to be smooth.
Obviously you're not feeling secure right now, are you? What else do you expect? If there is to be a result, it is long overdue.
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As long as the man is willing to marry you and you are willing to marry her, you can walk together. But lovers who come together because of family opposition will more or less leave some scars that can never be repaired, and slowly fade into oblivion with the accumulation of time. You have to plan how you want to go in the future, and if it's too unrealistic, you should give up early.
There is nothing that cannot be given up, and to give up is to place hope in another life. You didn't give up on him, how could he give up on you, did he?
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It is this man who has hesitation, he is afraid that in the future he will not be able to give you the life you want, which means unhappiness for you, and it means guilt, stress and his own incompetence for him. I always believe that true love is invincible, as long as this man is not married, you are free to choose. If he truly loves you, nothing is a hindrance.
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He will marry you if you want! First of all, he will marry you if you are willing! Do you understand? You take a step forward, and he may take a hundred steps forward, so that you can walk together! If you don't even want to step forward, and people come forward to pull you, won't you become a hooligan!
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Men who are unable to fight for and cannot get married because of their parents' opposition should give up as soon as possible, and the long-term pain is better than the short-term pain.
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A man who can't win or get married because of his parents' opposition? Such a man can't even be his own master, and he can't fight for his own happiness, and you still have a sense of dependence with him, what's the point?
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It's not difficult, the point is that you have to find the right person.
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Smart people don't let themselves get tired and annoyed! Hope you understand!
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Such a man is a little inappropriate to be a husband, and even his lifelong master can't do anything, what will he do in the future?
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Tell him that if he is not decisive, he will go his separate ways!
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Don't want such a man who has no idea.
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What are you sad about, you say he doesn't like you anymore, what are you sad about, you say he denied you, what are you sad about, you say he gradually forgot about you. I want you to think about it, from your meeting, acquaintance, love, quarrel, to separation, everything during this period, not only the good aspects, but also the bad ones, think about it carefully, every time you quarrel, every time you separate, how many grievances did you use? How much tolerance was used?
How much confusion did it take? In fact, love should make both people happy, not 'no matter how painful it is, you have to continue', you should be ruthless to figure this out, the reason why you are together, and the reason for breaking up.
Zhang Ailing said: Married to a red rose, over time, the red rose became a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white rose was still "the bright moonlight in front of the bed"; married a white rose, the white rose is a grain of rice on the clothes, and the red one is still a cinnabar mole on the heart.
Therefore, if one of the two people is not so happy, why stay by his side, miss him, make his rice or mosquito blood, it is better to start a new life in style, you will always be the cinnabar mole in his heart. Two people are unhappy, just let him go, it's enough to look at it from afar, it's enough to bless, he still has your memory in his head, and your good memory, it will suddenly open at a certain time in the future, and suddenly miss you, so why should you be too difficult to lose it temporarily, you just don't have a body together, it doesn't mean that he won't embrace others in the future, embrace that grain of rice dregs, miss your round of bright moon, everything is possible, just because people's hearts are fickle and capricious. If you live a happy life, you will reap the admiration, including his, if you are sad and humble, it will only make everyone feel that you are a victim, there is nothing to fall in love with the person you shouldn't love, there is no regret medicine, you can only say that at this moment, he put himself first, and you put him first, if it is reversed, a certain year and a certain month, it cannot be ruled out that he will gradually get tired of everything he has, and begin to miss you, and you have no longer put him first...
Now you can't experience it, and you don't have to experience it, as long as you live bravely, you have to be mature, strong, and happy, and you will reap miracles, including his thoughts.
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Three Roads:
One, leave him, knock the child out, and choose your life and happiness again. If you can let go of this feeling.
Second, never leave him, no matter what he becomes, you will accept him. If you feel he can change for you.
Three, pretend to be stupid and continue to fool him. If you can tolerate the variables of the future. For example, he has changed his mind, he doesn't love you anymore, and so on.
Although my answer is simple, no matter how you choose, it must be one of my three paths. Weigh it yourself, after all, emotional matters can't be said to be put away, but please think about it quietly. Whichever way you think will hurt you the least, choose whichever you want.
Finally, a woman must know how to love herself in order to be able to love others.
Emotional matters make me miserable. I want to die.
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Find more things to do for yourself, don't contact him, try not to think about him!Find someone to replace him and tell yourself to leave him.
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There is no right or wrong in love, and you love him for his happiness. You can think of him, you can bravely pursue your love, of course, under the premise of social morality and ethics.
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Intentionally planting flowers and flowers cannot be achieved, and willows and willows are planted unintentionally.
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You may not like to hear this, don't have anything to do with life and death, how important life is, still young, in addition to love, we still have a lot of things to do, we are born here, more responsibility.
No one is irreplaceable, no one is indispensable, it is very sad to be in this period, but after a long time, it will slowly fade.
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Now that you know everything, don't fall into it anymore, sometimes the troubles are figured out by yourself, do something meaningful to enrich yourself, keep yourself busy, and let this relationship become dull with the passage of time.
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Then don't do that as soon as possible, know that why do you have to make yourself so miserable?
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Wrong, why continue?
Find a reason for yourself to be innocent or melancholy?
Don't make too many excuses for yourself, be cheerful.
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I really want him to be as considerate of me as you Brother Shi, but he doesn't. The two of us are in the third stage of love, we love and kill each other, tired, and feel like we can't go on. ”
I can't control myself, I'm always unconsciously sad, always wondering why we're arguing? ”
When they quarreled, Zuozuo's throat was hoarse, and he was a little speechless.
I asked Zuo Zuo, since it's so uncomfortable, why don't you let it go?
Zuo Zuo said that she also hated herself, she was so uncomfortable but she never gave up the score. What does a relationship look like? When I really want to break up, when I think of the past between the two of you, my eyes are full of tears. I've been in love for so long, it's been many years, how can I be willing to let go?
If you give too much 100% in a relationship, whoever is serious first and the other party doesn't love so much will lose. When you put in too much and really want to withdraw completely, can you really let go?
Tired, tired, not knowing when you will despair. Zuo Zuo wants to know how to get over the tired period of love, and how to make two people return to the good old days.
In a relationship, there is one stage that is the hardest: falling in love and killing each other, and each other wants to win.
Girls will think, you love me, how can I be angry over trivial things;
Boys will think, if you love me, you shouldn't be unreasonable, and you should understand me.
Everyone wants to win, and they want one side to bow their heads first.
I want to say that men can't bow their heads first, and there is no need to fight with the people they love. Don't earn face with your own woman if you really love her.
I was scared of the atmosphere, and the two of us couldn't communicate. ”
In the stage of a relationship where both parties are concerned, communication is particularly important. At this stage, it has always been a test of whether a man really loves you.
If you perceive carefully, what did he do to you when you were arguing? Does he really care about you, feel sorry for you, and understand your difficulties?
Reflect on your feelings, what is the reason for the quarrel? Regardless of everything, there is really an insurmountable gap. Think about the feelings between two people. Look at the ultimate goal: to be together, or to be separated?
If you don't want to be separated, run towards the purpose of being together and solve the problem. Vice versa!
We will all have such a stage of mutual consideration and dispute, and the difference is that some people have not forgotten their original intentions, solved the problem well, and then got together very well.
Don't forget what you used to be when you were arguing.
1. Learn to control your emotions; 2. Learn to examine and reflect on your feelings and the reasons for your quarrels; 3. Change yourself first, and then try to change others; Fourth, if he doesn't love you, be humble, let go as soon as possible; Fifth, if he still loves you, he is very good to you, no longer entangled in your life goals, and work hard.
In a relationship, there is never a win or a loss. Compete with the person you love to win or lose, what if you win?
For two people who love each other, without either party, they both lose the whole world.
How could I fall in love with him and decide to go home with him, giving up, all I have, everything I have doesn't matter. ”
Paper is short and long, and don't let the quarrel make you forget that you loved each other.
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I'm like this, men will be stingy, I also need to change my temper, don't be so stingy men, because they won't bow their heads, they feel insecure, but once they choose, it's worth relying on. Thank you for adopting.
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First of all, parents are anxious that that's their business. The family offensive is very powerful, and in China's cultural tradition of filial piety as the highest morality, many things can happen through this. You are looking for your own life partner, the person you spend your life with, and the second is to find them a daughter-in-law.
Therefore, you should be the main one, and don't put the cart before the horse.
Secondly, emotional things are not measured by time, understand more, communicate more, and moreover, you have to observe each other attentively. Finding a common language is the only way to develop further. Now it seems that you are still lingering outside the door.
I'm actually very opposed to this kind of relationship for the purpose of being married. The emotional factor is the most important, don't get married for the sake of getting married, you think about it, you are only thirty, there is really no need to be in such a hurry. (Maybe getting married in a small town has long been a trend) to live your own life, not someone else's, nor someone else's arrangement.
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Do you think you really want this feeling, if it is what you particularly want, then it is worth it, if you force yourself, then give up. After all, life is what you have to live with her, and whether you are comfortable or not depends on yourself.
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Don't you have no feelings for her, if you do, you'll be desperate to pursue her.
Treating emotionally dedicated girls is indeed really commendable, and it is unavoidable, because of the rapid development of society now, girls are impetuous, and emotionally dedicated girls exhale, so it is so difficult, rare and commendable.
Many novices, especially the post-70s and post-80s, are relatively new to platforms like station b, and even a lot of two-dimensional knowledge is even poorer. At this time, there is no need to rush to answer the questions at the beginning, the time given by the platform is enough, you need to calm down to enter the state and role, determine a rhythm of reading the question, and then answer the questions according to a role mentality with ideals, public morality, and participation; There have been a few questions, at this time you will find that it is easy to deal with, it is recommended that after 60 points, you should still answer carefully, but also think more carefully and decide, take this exam seriously, you may have more than 70 points of good results, and you will also gain a self-confidence that probably surpasses 70 students, this is another reward in life, I wish you all a good time.
Hehe, let me be clear, I don't have any experience, I just graduated from high school, and I just want to try to help you a little. In fact, as far as disgust with learning is concerned, simply disliking learning is not called disgusted with learning. You said it yourself, even if you don't take the university entrance exam, you will finish high school, and I think people who are tired of school should not be able to stay in school for a second. >>>More
I feel that sometimes when I encounter something that I can't figure out or think about and think, then tell myself to improve myself, work hard or study, and I will naturally figure it out in the future.
Of course, it's a confession, if you have love in your heart, act immediately and confess to her, only in this way can you break your thoughts and be able to better devote yourself to your career and fight for yourself.