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I feel that sometimes when I encounter something that I can't figure out or think about and think, then tell myself to improve myself, work hard or study, and I will naturally figure it out in the future.

This can't be done, I can't think about some things, and I can't solve it in the real sense through psychology, psychology is just an explanation of some ideologies and behaviors, just a description. Psychology is created for people with psychological problems, and it is not important for people who have no problems, and it varies from person to person. But in today's society, psychology is indeed a very important subject, and people from all walks of life have a variety of psychological problems.

Psychology is important or not for the individual.

In fact, things can't be figured out, because you don't want him to figure it out, and there is not only one way to complete things, if you can't figure it out, then go to another.

Studying psychology doesn't necessarily make you understand everything.

Then it is recommended that you look at philosophy more, psychology will not help you much.

How to say it, in fact, we all know general psychology, it's just a matter of our own mentality...

Because you have a thing in a state of entanglement, but this state of entanglement has not been resolved, there is no reason, and when you appear right, there is also a negative emotional effect.

I think that's a normal thing to do, because when you figure it out, you're impatient, and then you want to figure it out, and then you take it slowly. It will become more and more impatient and produce negative emotions, so it is good to adjust it well.

The only thing you can't figure out is that it is easy to have negative emotions, that is, your um, there is a problem in your heart, you should go to a psychiatrist to help you take a look, and if you want to solve Shin Shin's disease, you can guarantee it.

This is because when you have something that you can't figure out, you will dig into the horns, and a vicious circle will be formed, and when you encounter this kind of thing, you will feel that you are powerless, and you will be very dissatisfied with yourself.

In fact, people are like this sometimes, because if we get old and think about one thing when we get old, we are prone to negative emotions when we can't figure it out. The mood is particularly bad.

As soon as you have something you can't figure out, it's easy to have negative emotions, that's because people will be very irritable when they can't figure things out, and this kind of irritability will cause emotional instability, and it is easy to develop negative emotions, and you are such a person.

What I can't figure out is that it is easy to have negative emotions, and that is because you have a problem with your mentality and you don't know how to control your emotions, so you will be more excited.

When you can't figure it out, you will be prone to anxiety and negative thoughts, so you will have negative emotions.

Because you like to drill the horns, and then your thinking is more rigid, so you are prone to negative emotions.

Because the ability to solve things is not strong enough, if you encounter something, it is easy to become irritable and restless, and negative emotions will follow. If you encounter something and you can easily think of a solution, you will not have negative emotions.

If you can't figure it out, you'll keep thinking about what you like to do, but this perseverance is really good, or should you do something else to divert your attention and stop thinking about it.

This is just a state of mind, people may sometimes have irritable emotions, so at this time to adjust their mentality, know that you have such a habit, then at this time quickly correct it.

It's understandable that everyone is the same, and when there is something that you can't figure out, you will be prone to negative impressions. But negative emotions don't solve the problem.

This is a manifestation of one's impatience, so since you know your shortcomings at this time, you must try to adjust your mentality at this time, and when you encounter such a thing, you must suppress your emotions.

This happens to everyone, once you encounter something you can't figure out, it is easy to have mood swings and a very low mood. In this case, only if you think things clearly, you will get out of such emotions.

If you can't figure out something, you will have negative emotions, and you should be more emotional, and it may be more difficult to control your emotions.

If you know that you are not good like this, you can still slowly control it and make yourself more calm.

Saying that we usually have negative emotions is because we can't regulate our emotions, and I think this needs to be adjusted so that we can get some practical things.

How do I have. If you can't figure it out, it's easy to have negative emotions. There are also things that I can't figure out, and it's easy to think of negative emotions. It's the emotions that the human brain says reacts to. So you have to place yourself negatively and affect your emotions.

Some people can't adjust their mood, so sometimes some things can't figure it out, and they are prone to negative emotions, so you can adjust your mood.

When the break is constantly suffering, the marriage must not be allowed to make each other tired like that, how can a marriage that you feel tired, unhappy, and have no heart to manage.

Maybe it's a little depressed mentally, there will be negative emotions when the pressure is too much, and now the society is a little bit, if you think it's serious, you can find a psychiatrist to ask, I also feel that I have a little problem, emotional instability and tantrums.

This question is the most important thing in a person's life, a person who will feel lonely and lonely, everyone wants to find a partner, it is human nature, what is home, home is a husband and a wife, a person must be very tired to complete the things of two people, is not there a saying that men and women are not tired of working together, so you will feel very tired, because what you do is not shared with the person, that is, no one knows, so after a long time, you feel that there is no courage and no goal, I feel like no one knows what I do, I feel like I have been abandoned by the world, I am alone, in short, I will find a partner who will work with you, if you have a partner, you will have a home, you will have a goal to strive for, and you will have someone to fight with you, you will not feel very tired, you will not have the courage, I hope to find your other half as soon as possible.

That's because you are very lonely in your heart, but you have to find someone to accompany you with someone who understands you, otherwise it will only add to your troubles.

You are very lonely, you want to find a like-minded person with you, life is very realistic, it is not so easy to meet someone who can listen to yourself, you have to enrich yourself more, flowers and butterflies will come.

It's not difficult for you to find someone to accompany you, and you can cherish it slowly. Whoever you like, the closer you get to him. Look at his performance.

Book. Is it good for you? If it's good to you, you'll also show a good heart and say that it's good to others.

You know your heartache, if you are lonely, you cherish a person, so don't give up on him. You chase her down. Aren't you too much?

Don't treat people with bad intentions. You have to have a bad heart towards others. Sooner or later, you'll still be alone.

It's not that you don't have courage, it's that you don't have integrity. And it's not the whole world that abandons you, it's you yourself who abandons yourself. If you play bad tricks on others, you end up feeling that your heart is so tired.

People to people, you don't play bad on another person. It's good for a long time. Don't look through your heart for a long time.

I have a bad heart for you. I'm sure you're lonely!

In this world, only if you are strong enough can you not be afraid of tiredness, except for life and death, everything is a trivial matter.

This feeling is quite normal.

Human beings are social animals and need to be recognized and encouraged by others to strengthen their self-recognition.

So this kind of loneliness and confusion is normal, and everyone will have it. Only by overcoming it can we go to the next level.

What will always accompany you is your own spirit and a kind of faith. You can go to the book to discover and explore. Find another self, someone who is very similar to yourself. You can also write your own thoughts and dialogues and think about them again.

I tell you to think about how to make money, when you don't have money, the people you accompany will also leave you.

It's quite normal, people don't want to be themselves, and they all want to be accompanied. But having someone to accompany you is actually quite a luxury. Sometimes I do have a lot of negative emotions, and then I don't know how to alleviate them. You can find someone to talk to and accompany you.

What kind of problems are you experiencing? You can talk about your problems and everyone will help you.

People's minds sometimes have ups and downs, and this period of time will be relatively low, and after a period of time it may be more sunny.

If a woman is not drunk, a man will not have a chance, and if a woman does not love herself, she will naturally be hurt. Men are cheap, women are stupid, otherwise how can there be so many sad people.

1. "Principle of scarcity":

What you can't get is the best."

2.What you love is only imaginary ta.

3.Fear of commitment:

You don't want to go deep into their lives.

4.You need to prove yourself through others.

5.You want to be the first to be tempted by yourself.

Sometimes, we overestimate the value of things that we can't get.

There is a point in this kind of psychology that "those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored have nothing to fear." "Feelings. Because I didn't get it at first, I didn't have a grasp of that thing, and I was possessive; But when you clearly know that "this thing must be mine", this desire that arises because you can't get it will gradually disappear, and the interest and love you had for this thing because of possessiveness will also disappear, so you don't want it.

Some people say, "I just like people who don't like me, and when they like me, I don't like them." The root of it is that the desire to control drives people, and after satisfying the desire, this thing is worthless.

It's called a woman. People or things that look at or feel beautiful, without in-depth understanding, they want to get them, and once they get it, they feel nothing special. But I was reluctant to throw it away, I don't remember a sentence I saw in a book, even if a woman's own things are lost and fed to the dog, they don't want to be possessed by other women.

You may be tired of him, but you enjoy the favor of this man, and what you can't let go of is the treatment but not this person. When there is a new substitution, this feeling will be reduced. This kind of psychology is very wonderful, in fact, the most difficult thing for women to resist is loneliness.

People are so shallow-bone, suffering from gains and losses. If you get it, you don't cherish it, you don't get it, and you don't want it.

Because I don't feel secure, I'm afraid of losing, and I'm not confident in myself.

It's normal for people to be psychological, and I sometimes do the same.

Normal, I chased a girl for three years, always dumped my face, let me pigeon, really chased the moment I felt that I was just competing with myself, I have forgotten the feeling of liking her at the time, or the feeling of liking has been exhausted, anyway, I just don't love it, and then I broke up in seconds.

Suffering from gains and losses, typical insecurity, self-regulate. Think about it, ask yourself if you don't regret it when you make a decision, put it aside if you hesitate, and one day you'll figure it out.

"There is a sexual orientation called lithromantic, Chinese is avoidant attachment personality, which means that after you have a crush on someone, when he has the same feelings for you, you will hate this feeling, or even stop liking him. In short, such a person is destined to die alone. "

See him as a kind of fate, it is my fate to get her, and if you lose him, that is, the fate between us has ended, conform to the will of God, go with the fate, and comfort yourself in this way, you will not be sad.

You can constantly mentally hint to yourself: the old will not go to the new and will not come, or take this matter as a disaster to eliminate wealth, and your family will always be safe and secure in the future.

If you lose something, you can buy it again, don't think about it anymore, the old doesn't go to the new one, you can think about the good, just be optimistic in your heart, don't care too much about the gains and losses.

You can comfort yourself like this and say, the old doesn't go and the new doesn't come, anyway, these things will be lost sooner or later, and if you lose it, you can buy a new one in advance, just like if you lose your mobile phone, you can buy a new mobile phone, comfort yourself.

Don't weep over the milk that is poured out, you don't know if it's a blessing if you lose your horse, and besides, no matter how valuable this valuables are, they won't be valuable to your own life, and things outside your body are not brought with you in life or taken with you in death.

You can say to yourself that it's not a big deal, that you will have a lot of things in the future, and that what you lose will always pay off, so don't dwell on these things anymore.

First of all, I will find a way to find such a thing, because I think this thing is quite valuable, and if I can't find it, I will try to comfort myself, the old one will not go, and the new one will not come.