Falling in love with a woman with a family, I really can t let go, what should I do?

Of course, it's a confession, if you have love in your heart, act immediately and confess to her, only in this way can you break your thoughts and be able to better devote yourself to your career and fight for yourself.

In this case, you should still divert your energy, after all, it is impossible to be with the other party, you have to let yourself go completely, do what you like to do, and divert your attention.

It is recommended not to continue, otherwise it will also cause serious problems for her family, you can try to live in another city, force yourself to stay away from her, everyone is an adult, you have to know what to do and what not to do.

If you are true love, both parties will divorce together and take care of both children. If one party is unwilling to leave, this period is irresponsible, and it is purely a game of life.

If the other party is not very happy and the other party is willing to divorce, then stay with her. If the other party has a happy family, I hope you still sincerely bless others, you can be friends with her, but you can't go beyond it.

This situation should be considered clearly, as an adult, there is nothing that you can't let go, and your behavior is inherently immoral, so learn to transfer your feelings.

If you have a family, you can save your worries, it doesn't belong to you.

Force yourself to let go. We can't do this kind of thing that violates morality and ethics, and we really can't let go of it, so we have to force ourselves to let go.

Love comes and goes, and feelings are uncontrollable, so there is nothing wrong with falling in love with someone, but how to do it after falling in love, if there is a problem with the way of dealing with it, it is wrong.

When you choose to fall in love with a married person, you are burdened with moral condemnation. We have to understand that some feelings do not belong to you, and those feelings are destined to be fruitless.

Falling in love with someone you shouldn't love.

If she and her husband still have feelings, then your intervention is to destroy people's originally harmonious marriage, which is morally despicable.

If she and her husband have no relationship, it is also a matter of husband and wife, if you love her and pay attention to her silently, if the two of them can't get along because of their own reasons, she is single again, you chase after it, then people are divorced because of the couple's emotional incompatibility, not because of your intervention in the divorce.

Husband and wife first, don't confess.

If you really like her, just pay attention silently, don't disturb her life, a woman with a clear moral outlook will not betray her husband casually.

Refuse to confess. Second, keep your distance.

Don't get too close to her.

The distance is too close, it is even more difficult for you to control your feelings, maybe one day, you can't control yourself to confess, have you ever thought about what if you confess?

If she doesn't agree to you, it will be even more embarrassing to have a relationship in the future, she will even delete you from her friends, if you want to keep a long-term connection with the married woman you like, then you have to keep your mouth shut, otherwise even ordinary friends may not have to do it.

Keep your distance. Third, let yourself out.

Arrange your time every day, what to do and what to do, don't leave yourself too much free time, people always think about some of their own things when they are bored, they won't think too much if they don't have free time, and if they don't think about her, they won't be so painful.

Thinking of the various bad results that may come from being close to her, and allowing yourself to avoid these things from happening, reason triumphs over emotion.

Let reason tell you what choice to make, then the next thing is to pass your own emotional level, don't bother from the behavior, don't get close, and then let go from the emotional point of view, and tell yourself that there are many good girls in the world.

After clarifying yourself, you can see if people are interested in asking questions about you.

I just want to test him.

Answer: If you don't know, you can control yourself and try to divert your attention, after all, people also have families, and in life, you can find out if she likes you by carefully observing the changes in each other's expressions. Find the right time and occasion, preferably in the presence of both you and her. You talk to her or share a problem.

If she likes you, she will be happy or happy to talk to you**. If she doesn't like you, she will deal with you very blandly or with some impatience. Under normal circumstances, expressions do not lie, unless she is deliberately disguised or has undergone special training and training.

That's how you asked.

Ask a question and say directly if you think you are okay.

You have no results, since she is a family person, don't disturb her life, don't destroy her happiness, (since you like her, give her happiness,) find another love that belongs to you, it's good for you, her, and good.

Bury this love in the bottom of your heart, because it is fruitless and immoral, and it will not only cause you and her pain, but also bring unimaginable harm to the families of both parties.

Friend, I also fell in love with a woman who had a family, and they loved each other very much, but I really loved her, and in the end I confessed, and she accepted, and we have always been in a loving relationship, and she only made one request, which is that the family is complete, and I promised her not to destroy her family, because she loves her children very much.

Keep it in your heart and choose to give up!

In addition, what can you do to destroy other people's families, it is not in line with each other's style and bottom line, and it is not what you want! It's just a little reluctant, anyone will, but there's no way, isn't it?

I think it depends on the personal situation, think about it, I think it's better to look at the personal situation. I think I need you to take your time.

Friend: Are you okay?

Are you still suffering from the torment of your soul, or have you escaped from the furnace of emotion?

Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while

If you can't let go of it, then divert your attention, don't focus on this person with a family should work hard to learn and improve yourself, and achieve something in your career, as long as you are excellent, I believe that you will be able to find your own happiness, and a person with a family is destined to have no results.

Then we should try to persuade ourselves, tell ourselves that we must not destroy other people's families, and resolutely choose to leave and go to another city, so that we will slowly forget.

You can adjust it by diverting your energy, don't put your mind on this matter, find something that you are more interested in doing, and believe that you can completely let go of it through your own efforts.

If you can't let go of the close distance, it is recommended to stay away and choose to go to another place to work hard, and the people and things you come into contact with with the new job will slowly fade away.

When you encounter this situation, you should adjust your mentality, tell yourself that this approach is wrong, there is no meaning and no result, and I believe that through your own efforts to adjust, it should change.

I think it's better for you to accept the reality optimistically, give up bravely, and stop clinging to it. Think about what will happen to you if others know that you have destroyed someone's family.