How do we run a marriage now?

1.Lead by example. Don't add trouble to your marriage and cause your spouse to distrust you.

2.Be tolerant of each other's shortcomings. Generally speaking, when you are in love, everything in the other party is a little, and after entering a substantive marriage, the spouse has aesthetic fatigue on both parties, which is due to human nature, and everyone is the same.

So it's mostly about how you deal with the other person's shortcomings, and the best way is to be tolerant.

3.Always praise each other for their strengths and contributions to the family. Praise is the lubricant of marriage, and adults are no different from children, and they also like to listen to good words.

What is often overlooked after entering a marriage is to see the division of responsibilities in the family as it should be, which is very fatal, so praise each other often and often say thank you to each other.

4.The economic situation of the family is treated with "peace and health" as the happiest standard. Some families often quarrel over the economy, people's desires are unlimited, and each family can get a small part, so we must keep a balance in our hearts, everything is a floating cloud, and "peace and health" are the happiest.

There will always be all kinds of friction in the daily life of couples, and if you don't want these to affect your relationship, the most important thing is to be inclusive, which may sound empty, but being able to understand it will be very helpful in how to deal with the difficulties in married life.

Take less, give more; Complain less, communicate more; A little less greedy, a little more aggressive.

Be considerate and give a little more, give one more step back, occasionally create surprises, and work together to create a plan.

Running a marriage requires two people to work together. If running a marriage is like running a company, then your lover is your most important customer. If you look at your usual attitude towards your clients, and then look at your attitude towards each other, you will understand the reason why your marriage has deteriorated.

In fact, you should look at your lover more than your customers

In fact, one of the most important conditions for two people to be together is to trust each other, trust each other, and this relationship will last for a long time.

Mutual suspicion and mutual suspicion of each other, the contradictions will only get bigger and bigger, and eventually quarrels will be endless, and the marriage will break down.

Being honest with each other is the smartest way in the family, and I think that in this case, if you have doubts in your heart, then you might as well ask him directly.

If he explains it carefully, the reason is reasonable, then he admits his mistake (generally his wife will not admit his mistake, and he is justified), and there will be no barrier, but if he flashes his words, or the reason is fake, even the child can't deceive the ante, then there must be further measures for Zen eggplant.

In fact, everyone has their own space, you might as well give him a little space of his own, men value face, but the degree must be grasped well. Finally, I wish you a happy family and a happy heart.